First, don't interfere in children's married life. As parents, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law love their children. For example, if a daughter-in-law spends a lot of money, her mother-in-law will be unhappy, thinking that her son's hard-earned money has been spent by him, and she will say daughter-in-law. At this time, the mother-in-law will be unhappy and think that the children will be bullied when they go to other people's homes. In fact, in this case, the best way is not to do it.
Second, don't instill personal thoughts in children. Children may encounter some problems or even contradictions in the process of getting along. As parents, what we can do when we stand together at this time is to adjust the contradiction between them and prevent it from expanding. In addition, don't instill their emotions and ideas into children, because it will affect their judgment.
Third, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can communicate more and get along well. You can chat more and exchange feelings at ordinary times. If there is an opportunity, we can go to the square dance together, learn to arrange flowers and cultivate our feelings into sisters. In this way, when dealing with children's problems, you can become calm. They can get along well and reduce the pressure on their children.
In this world, there are no absolute enemies, let alone relatives. Therefore, for the sake of children and the next generation, we should get along well, which can also make the family more harmonious and the life happier.