We have all been to the countryside. At that time, rural people were not rich, and some places did not even have electricity. At night people took out stools and then sat in the open space to chat. Although the material life of farmers was not rich enough at that time, the harmonious interpersonal relationship made everyone feel warm. In the city, life may be much easier once you're upstairs, but for farmers, there's much less to enjoy in life.
The best thing about this building is that one household at a time, the door is closed. You don't know me and I don't know you. The formation of closed spaces makes the people who live in them even stranger inside. Some peasants have tried this kind of life, and some old people can't stand it after just one day.
Some filial sons and daughters, after their own development, take their parents to stay at home in the city. But after ten days the parents can't take it anymore. For them, the whole city is like a huge tomb, lonely and silent, making people feel very afraid.
For young people in the city, they are not afraid of loneliness because their social stage is on cell phones, computers and social platforms. One cell phone can have hundreds of friends. Although they have never met, they chat more happily than their own parents. This is the behavior of the elderly can not understand, this is the difference between urban civilization and rural civilization.
In fact, there is no need for rural people to be too upset, saying that the good times have come to an end is just a manifestation of the inability to adapt to a new life in a short period of time. As China, the process of rural urbanization accelerates, more rural areas will gradually become towns and more farmers will enter the building.
This is not the beginning of good times, but the beginning of good times. If your parents really can't accept this kind of life, it's because the people they talk to disappear instantly and old friends disappear. Why can't young people welcome their parents' old friends in with open doors?
Today, the lives of urban seniors can be enriched. Square dancing, attending senior citizen universities, traveling outside through social platforms, all these are what modern people should have. We can't just dwell on the past. Life is always changing. It will only get better, not worse.
One day, rural people will realize the benefits of being a city dweller, not having to work with their backs to the loess, not having to waste time in the fields all year round, and living without electricity at night. From the perspective of historical trends, it is only a matter of time before the countryside disappears. Europe and the United States of America's urbanization rate has reached 70% to 80%, there is nothing inconvenient for others