Elderly women would rather be single and alone than find a companion, a phenomenon that is now very common and which I support.
It is said that young couples grow old together, but the separation of laborers, the folding of the halberd, and the loss of a spouse in middle age or old age are also the results of life that must be accepted.
In the sky, I wish to be a bird with wings, in the earth, I wish to be a branch, but it is just a good wish.
What is love in this world? It's the most important thing in the world, and it's the most important thing in the world. A pair of teenagers from the beginning of the encounter towards the separation, or sooner or later, will be alone! In the journey of life, a like-minded companion is certainly good, but he got off the bus in the middle of the journey, not to give up and how to do it?
Elderly women who are single are either widowed or divorced. The widowed elderly women are undoubtedly most of the old partner died of illness more, during the old partner's illness are generally waiting around, as the saying goes? Long time sick bed in front of no filial son? Not to mention the old partner, long wait for a sick man, is not the average person can do, that kind of labor hard only know, often in the hospital to see an old woman waiting for an old man's figure.
So, when the sick old man died, although it is also very painful, but in a way it is also a kind of physical and mental relief. Think about it if you look for another partner, it is difficult to ensure that people of this age are not sick, there is a possibility that you will have to face another partner's illness, waiting for the old man, if you can get by financially, no elderly woman is willing to look for another partner.
One has to be strong, pick up one's backpack again and set out on the road home.
When a person reaches middle age, his or her outlook is already shaped, his or her thoughts are conservative, and his or her ability to learn decreases, so it's already difficult to meet a person of your choice. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need, and then you'll have to pay for the services you need.
It's time to relax and enjoy the last part of the scenery of life, and then find an old companion, if each other's heart, two people live together better than one, that is of course a beautiful life.
But the reality is that a lot of old widowers, full of vices, smoking and drinking, selfish, lazy as a parasite, find a partner for the purpose of finding a free babysitter, to their own laundry and cooking, tea and water, bedside waiting.
On the contrary, most of the elderly women are clean, healthy, hard-working, neat, mild-tempered, and if they can be financially independent, it would be even better, they are fully capable of taking care of their own old age in a well-organized manner, with dignity and decency.
Lonely feelings? The age of the Internet, the global village is so small, cultivate three or five confidants, dancing, traveling together, a small gathering in the park, shopping malls a piece to go, *** with the same towards aging, why should you be subjected to the constraints of marriage?