Square dance Hangzhou girl

The feudal thought of the older generation that "there are three unfilial things, and no posterity is great" is deeply rooted. They think they should do something at what age, and they must get married when they are old enough to get married. In fact, we have been arranged by our parents since childhood. When we were young, our parents always taught us to study hard and not to fall in love. This article lasted until we graduated from university. Finally, at work time, they will start to give us blind dates and let us get married. They want to arrange for us all our lives, but by this time we are already independent and don't want to get married, so they will rush to get married. Meeting is to make us blind date, so many unmarried people feel depressed and bored.

It is also because parents are too bored that they seek comfort. When children have a successful career, most parents enjoy their old age at home. Dancing square dance outside and playing mahjong with neighbors when you are idle. Then they will definitely get married at home. After all, they need to consider their children's lifelong events, and they also want to have grandchildren as soon as possible. This is an ideological problem of ordinary elderly people, and it is difficult to erase it.

People who urge marriage sometimes just show off and ridicule. Take my hometown as an example. I was born in the countryside. In rural areas, many boys get married in their twenties, and some are even unmarried in their twenties. Those who are not married will always be urged to get married by their neighbors. There was also a hint of cynicism in the neighbor's words. For example, some people will dislike you for not getting married and say that you are single. These are all here. This is a bad social atmosphere.

Now parents should be considerate of their children, let them do what they like, and don't put pressure on them. Stress can sometimes backfire. Parents just give some advice about their children, don't be arbitrary.