Square dance costume 20-year-old beauty

Hello, I am really worried to see your doubts, because I feel the same way: the main reason is introversion, followed by shyness, sensitivity, embarrassment, unsociable, extremely nervous about the crowd gathering point, and even unclear words, I don't know what to do; Actually, I'm not afraid of the sun, but I'm afraid of being noticed in bright places, so I seem to be afraid of the sun. Inferiority and unworthiness are completely inconclusive. It's not that I have low status and inferiority, but that I am embarrassed and shy. Because bright and bright places are unfamiliar, eyes gather, resulting in more negative emotions such as nervousness and shyness. The idea of feeling out of date and wearing old clothes shows that people who pursue fashion will have such an idea, or more. In fact, clothes don't have to be fashionable, as long as they conform to their own style, look good and have their own characteristics and characteristics. If you don't follow the crowd, just like a movie star has his own clothing style, if you let him blindly follow suit, maybe he will be disintegrated by fashion and completely lose his own characteristics. In fact, clothes don't need to be exaggerated, and of course they shouldn't be too old, because our age is an active age. I don't think the fashion line of clothes was two or three years ago. I still wear snowshoes around 2005, which are warmer. Last month at the mall, a girl behind me said, er-are these shoes in fashion again? I can't even look back. I met a careful policeman this time. Why does she question it? Because the bag I carry is a business bag from the year before last, it still looks rather unfashionable, so she will question, if I carry a photo of Mao Zedong and print a coarse cloth bag for the people below, I don't think that person can speak, because she knows it is out of date, so there is no need to pay too much attention to this aspect, and there is not much difference in clothing for two or three years. Of course, if you think this will seriously affect your behavior and self-confidence, moreover, dress yourself up. Generally, boys don't need to dress themselves up unless they especially pursue higher image quality. In fact, if you look at the collocation of star costumes and sum them up carefully, you will understand. Why? Because people who stay at home or introverts are smart, why? Because they are good at thinking. Otherwise, are there other social people who are often in a certain space? If they are not good at thinking, they can't stand going out to play. In fact, if they look more and think more about their clothes, they will go back completely. If they really can't, they will look for relevant books. Otaku reading is easy, because the heart is not outside, it is not easy to be influenced and decomposed. The most important thing is to be introverted and unsociable. Boys have many things to do, including supporting their families and so on. This introversion must be overcome, otherwise their survival will be threatened and they will never be alarmist. Although they want to reach the level of public relations experts at once, you can take it slowly, instead of going to the gathering place of hundreds of people to contact them at once, which will make them retreat and dispel their confidence. For example, go out for a few minutes today, go out to see the supermarket tomorrow, walk around the big shopping mall the day after tomorrow, or try to chat up strangers, and then add up bit by bit. Better have a plan. I think it is not difficult to make a plan, because introverts are good at thinking, and the plan comes from thinking, so try and practice slowly. Over time, you will feel that this kind of social fear will be reduced a little, and shyness and nervousness will also be reduced, so you must persevere. You can't say that you practiced well today, but you will stay at home lazily tomorrow. This is absolutely impossible. In a few days, I will be nervous and sensitive again. I will overcome it every day and walk more every day. After a long time, you won't feel sensitive and nervous. It takes practice, just like a spokesperson. Not everyone can be a reporter. If you find someone to do it at random on the roadside, he may be flushed and speechless. Why? Because of the lack of relevant exercise, your situation is the lack of social interaction exercise. If you don't communicate with people for a long time, you will be particularly sensitive and nervous, and even forget how to deal with the world. In fact, dealing with the world is very simple, which is human nature and natural, but you have too many frameworks when implementing it, such as nervousness, shyness, sensitivity and so on. When you overcome social tension and integrate into the society, you will find that the future is in your own mind. Why? Because introverted people's thinking ability will not get worse. Trust me; Your question now has four aspects: 1. Clothing collocation and personal image dressing, 2. Strengthen social skills, 3. Planning for future life. Ways to shape extroverted personality. This is what I think you need to strengthen, and the fourth item can be ignored. Now I think the most important thing for you is to solve the dress problem first, and then it is suitable for social occasions, that is, to move towards a communicative society. After that, after the first two items are solved, all the problems will not be too difficult. The first two items are the foundation and the most important foundation; Please remember, you must integrate into society, because your future and the wealth you depend on are all drawn from society. No one will be satisfied with everything just because they can't move. Come on, don't know how to ask at any time; Having said so much, I wonder if you have the patience to finish reading it?