Veteran teacher.
Husband and wife.
Son is studying in college in Qingdao.
Cousin is a rural woman, have the intention to send something to the teacher, but have never been out of the door, do not know these rules, so the things sent to me, I hope that I can help to send, talk to the teacher, see what the child has a problem, let the teacher to take care of the teacher more, should be hit the scolding.
Mr. Miao, I'm not familiar with her.
It's the same system, so I can only say that I know her.
In my impression, he is the kind of person who is very board, the so-called board, that is, dress is very decent, most of the time are formal ......
It is very coincidental.
When I went to the school family home, I happened to meet Mr. Miao downstairs, he was tanning quilts, school teachers seem to have the habit of tanning quilts, the square pulled a lot of wire.
Anyways, how to describe the first feeling?
Think this quilt doesn't go very well with Mr. Miao's image.
This quilt is a bit like the cotton quilts of rural families, of course, not very dirty, can only be said to be some years old, in the past, rural people's quilts are really a cover for a lifetime, cover a few years in the middle of the cotton are gathered into a ball, and then go to find someone to process a little bit, do not you see the wall of the countryside are written: processing quilt cover, telephone XXXX.
It seems that Mr. Miao is also a rural origin.
Miao teacher's home on the fifth floor, there is no elevator, climbed half a day ......
One pushed the door, it is the standard rural families, sister-in-law's bra is still hanging on the sofa, the style is also a little old, should be worn for many years, the side of the garter are hairy, originally should be white, right? It's already a bit yellowed.
Yelling at me to sit down.
I'll sit.
I looked at the coffee table, the coffee table under the mess, screwdrivers, pencils, poker ......
The coffee table?
The bowl that I hadn't had a chance to brush after eating, and it looked like I had noodles in the morning? The point is that the bowl is still missing a little bit of its mouth, and the bowl is one of those rural style ones.
I just don't feel any sense of "modernity" in the whole family, and it doesn't match the income of both of them.
I asked when the house was bought.
It's been 20 years since I bought it, it cost 18k then, and now it's worth 200k.
It's not a disappointment.
It is my expectation that he is too high, I think he usually dress, home should be very modern and clean, I did not think it is this way, some contrast, they are not low income, two people a year how to earn 200,000, right? Not to mention when the classroom teacher, large and small gifts a year also not a lot of income, I once asked an experimental classroom teacher's child, New Year's Day received how much New Year's money? He said it was more than 20,000 yuan.
Of course, the clutter in Mr. Miao's house is not an exception.
My sister's family is in a similar situation, and I categorize this phenomenon all as the second generation of farmers, that is, they have just started to enter the city and enter a period of transformation, but because of limited income, limited thinking, everything is to get by and save money as a starting point, so even if the status is good, it is still a rural living.
It is impossible to talk about taste in life!
For my cousin's nephew's problem, I'm not too concerned, I just give the gift to the delivery on it, but Mr. Miao is very concerned, with the machine gun like with me said a pass, let pay attention to this, pay attention to that, but also said that this child has the behavior of early love ......
I have been nodding my head and said, yes.
After sending down, I gave my cousin a call and said to send things down, the teacher said very grateful, the child also praised half a day, said the child is very obedient, promising, work hard, no problem to get a second degree.
The cousin expressed her gratitude.
On the way home, I was thinking about a problem, in fact, rural habits are not harmful, you follow the way you like to live, the country advocates less salt, you eat all the time pickles, and nothing, you like it on the line.
But the rural thinking is the most terrible.
It will make you go round and round in your own class, that is, I wrote before the predestination said, the abbot said what is predestination?
I remember when I first started fixing, I was always losing money.
It must have been a loss for most of the year, from July 2018 until January 2019, it was a loss, and then in February 2019, it started to make a profit, into a positive profit of $50,000 dollars.
My sister called me, meaning you finally made money, take it out, 50,000 will do.
My dad was of the same opinion.
It means that stock market speculation is gambling, how can you play this? Our days are not good or bad, don't get involved in gambling ......
All advised me to withdraw.
I agreed, but did not.
I have my own logic, they do not, they only have fear, at that time the little sister and the little Dr. have found me, asked me to financial matters, my point of view is that speculation in the stock market is no future, if you want to be stable, you can invest in the fund, choose a reliable fund manager, hold a long line, the so-called long line is ten years eight years, there will certainly be a very good return, I recommend that both of them to buy the Xingquan Heping, when a share of less than 8 The first time I saw this, it was a very good idea to get a good deal of money. (Now close to 1.2 yuan)
Small Dr. bought 300,000, which 300,000 is then married to the county to give the settlement fee, she does not need, I told her so, if it is held for more than a year, lost, lost how much I make up to you, but there is a premise, you can not move.
She promised.
Today this 300,000 has turned into more than 400,000 yuan.
The little sister part-time micro-business, do not see such a low yield, so she did not enter, but because she went to open an account, and thus the crooks through the WeChat precision marketing, took her to speculate on what the futures or what the thing, not only did not make money, but instead of losing into the more than 200,000, I have been asking her, why you do not ask me? She said, I know ask you you will certainly oppose ......
Be killed by the killing plate.
Killed after the mood is very unstable, see who all want to be angry, light pull black me no less than 10 times.
You're greedy, there's someone waiting for you.
My sister also has 300k, can I make her buy it?
Can't!
Even if I hold her down and make her buy on it.
Either she sells as soon as it goes down, or she dances around, steals the increase, and ends up taking the whole family home.
It's that she's not a qualified investor.
99% of the people, are potential gamblers, is the main delivery army of stock market bullets, only to be able to do anti-gambling layout of the people, can be considered an investor, investors are also betting, but betting on the probability of the probability of the probability of both the fundamentals of, and human nature.
Why is Dr. Little suitable?
First, she doesn't know anything.
Second, she trusts me, absolutely.
Third, she came from a good family and didn't think the money was much.
Yesterday, the inexplicable popularity of standing broom, a brush of the circle of friends, all, in fact, it is equal to each person opened a window for others to pry into your home, your life.
No need to look at anything else, look at the floor seam to know what stage of life you are in.
Mention quality of life.
What is the first thing that comes to mind?
To have money!
Yes, to be rich, in fact, the county has a lot of rich people, but why can few people live out of high quality?
The reason is.
Backward habits and backward thinking!
I thought about it carefully, in fact, there is another point is also very important, is that each of our aesthetics are left to us by our parents, we have only lived in our parents' home, in school, we rarely go to our friends' homes, don't know what beauty looks like, for example, dishwasher, dryer, we have never seen, how do you let us have the sense to go to buy?
You say that kind of toilet that you don't have to wipe your ass, we haven't even sat on it, how can we possibly like it?
Everyone is closed-minded.
One time when I was listening to a class, a participant asked the teacher a question, what is the specific manifestation of poor people's thinking?
The teacher said, is the pursuit of everything cost-effective, that is, parents often educate the children of the sentence, we do not want that, that is too expensive.
At that time, as an observer, I felt that this statement is too far-fetched, but after careful thought, there is really a little bit of truth, for example, the village people let me help choose a house, I gave the choice of their eventual did not buy, the same price in our neighborhood can only buy 80 square feet, in other neighborhoods can buy 130 square feet, and ultimately chose to 130 square feet, I told him about the property, about the management, about the value of the talk about, useless! The company's website has been updated with the latest information on the latest developments in the industry.
No need to say that others, my sister is an example, I helped her to bring the keys, and ultimately back off, when housing prices are relatively low stage, the buyer's market, picking and choosing, this set did not see, that a set did not see, and suddenly the prices of housing a rise? Hand and foot to chase up, spent more than 500,000, now being set to death, the house did not pay, the price of housing fell again.
Can I do it for her?
If it was a brother, I would have done it for him.
Sister can't.
Because the head of the family in the sister's house is the brother-in-law.
A brother-in-law is a brother-in-law.
I wrote earlier that what is taste?
Making the best enjoyment, a habit!
You only experience it, you know more about life, after sitting in first class you are not willing to sit in economy class, you learn by ear also enter a new aesthetic, including the waiting room in the decoration, cups, plates, including the service staff dress, which is training your aesthetic.
We can easily get into inertia, that is, inertia, live and live, it is more and more like our parents, my father year after year to steal the water in the heating, I criticized every time I went there, and I even took the initiative to denounce him, so that the property to discipline him, but the property embarrassed.
This year, I went to my parents' house for New Year's Eve.
My dad said that this year, the water in the heater hadn't been drained once.
I said, quite good, you want to use hot water, use is, water ah, electricity ah, are tied to my Alipay, you do not have to think about what to save and so on, the TV is on every day you do not have anything.
He said, your mother did not allow.
No matter what you do, it's all about savings. There's a list on the coffee table, a pair of cotton shoes, 29 dollars, and I've sent it to my friends, my mother went to the supermarket to buy it.
Before that, I just gave them 20,000 yuan in cash to buy something for the New Year.
I've instructed that when you buy something, you buy it by liking it.
Don't think about the price.
But it's hard for them to step over the threshold ......
Wealth value-wise, it may be true what my dad said, that he thinks a million isn't a lot of money, which he should really mean, after all, he has seen it and experienced it, but when it comes to spending, it's still the poorest of the poor mindset.
Always trying to save.
What do you save for?
I don't care about your two cents, why do you always expect me to be down and out? Is it because you think you'll save me when I'm finished?
You're overthinking it.
I won't need the money when I'm done.
The teacher in class asked a question about how there are quite a few dishes in the refrigerator, some fresh and some about to go bad, so do you eat the freshest or the one that's about to go bad first?
Most chose the fresh ones.
The teacher said that this is the difference between a questionnaire and real life.
In real life, most people choose to eat first to rot, and thus always eat to rot, which is also the poor people thinking, so how to transform thinking? Take the initiative to stop and throw away the ones that are going to rot, then you can always eat the fresh ones.
Is this simple?
Sounds simple.
Doing it, it's too hard.
My parents' house doesn't suck or eat anything.
The teacher Zhao Defa told me a little bit, living in a small city has the advantage of being more urbane, seeing people and things in a more three-dimensional way, which is helpful for becoming a writer, but there is also a disadvantage, that is, it is easy to be assimilated, and you have to look at yourself outside the geographic constraints from time to time, and ask yourself if you are also integrated into this pattern.
That is, we have to move to look ahead.
Can our quality of life be improved a bit?
Couldn't the car, for example, be better? Couldn't the house be bigger? Couldn't the bed be more comfortable? Couldn't the toilet be a high-tech one? Couldn't you have chosen a bath with a massage? Couldn't the sofa be softer? Couldn't the washing machine be a Siemens? Should I choose an open kitchen? Shouldn't there be an aunty at home? Should there be a chauffeur? Shouldn't there be a secretary in the office? Should I have a better figure? Should I learn how to dress? Should I make an annual travel plan?
Couldn't a daughter-in-law be better?
You have to think about it, and then you feel that life is really good, especially when you have time, go to visit those villa model houses, sigh, this is called home.
You have to know what is better.
To have this upwardly mobile heart.
Instead of living in inertia, forget about it, this is fine ......
The four words of hard work and simplicity are actually toxic and put us in a weird circle, for example, how do many people buy stocks?
Which is cheaper to buy.
This is actually an internal projection of choice.
Actually?
Which expensive to buy which is right, you think Maotai expensive, a share of more than 200 dollars, sky-high, and some stocks? A share is only 1 yuan, you are so fantasized, Maotai is likely to fall from 200 yuan to 100 yuan, then the waist cut, if 1 yuan of stock up to 50 yuan? Then it doubles 50 times.
The result?
Moutai went from $200 to $1,200.
And your $1 became 50 cents.
Turning this corner, for rural children, but also a sharp turn, the whole person will be on a grade, including playing ball is also the case, usually we play the ball is 65 yuan a tube, a ball can be used two or three innings, I went to Shenzhen and found that everyone either with red super, or with Unix, the stability of the ball, the degree of endurance are higher than the 65 yuan we usually use, so I have also changed to the Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix, a Unix. I've also switched to Unix, and one Unix is better than two $65 ones, so think about it, why not use a Unix?
It feels better to play, and it costs about the same as a $65 one.
Why can't people turn this corner?
It feels like the Unix ones are expensive at 100+ a tube.
This one is a weird one.
Sort of like whether the chicken or the egg came first.
Is it because you have money that you choose this way, or is it because you have money that you choose this way?
Not definitive.
And one more thing, taste is relative, is a comparative level, you can't always take yourself with the Dubai tycoon than, take yourself with the British royal family than, that's also inappropriate, is a gradual process, for example, you live in the countryside, other people's homes are more dirty, your home is cleaner, this is the taste, other people listen to the "love for sale, you listen to the" Liangzhu "which is the taste, you if it is not in the home to listen to The first thing you need to do is to listen to the "Moonlight Concerto" at home, which is not necessary, after all, we can't reach that level of appreciation.
That is to say, we not only want to know good, but also know where the good.
That's called taste.
What is the aesthetic equivalent?
The ugly.
Aesthetics is a threshold, the need for a certain aesthetic cultivation, life experience, for example, I went with my father to choose floor tiles, the two of us will certainly choose very different tiles, I think I am higher than my father's aesthetics of a few levels, I learned more than him, see more than him.
These two years, the ugly more and more popular, for example, jittery, those rural, scruffy, and even scruffy to the extreme can become a netizen, for example, said "crouch, ruthless" of the second brother, a person who is very difficult to survive, overnight fire, the teeth are also almost lost, burnt as if never brushed, as long as the one appearance on camera is almost always a drunken state.
Human beings are naturally averse to ugliness, so why would there be a group to scrutinize it?
Because, aesthetics defines the upper middle class already.
Since they can't compete on that surface, they go antagonistic, thus rebelling against, and provoking, the aesthetic standard, and I'm deliberately disgusting you.
So progress is threefold.
One, constantly learning new things.
Two, keep making money.
Three, constantly improving the quality of life.
Single progress is not really progress, I wrote Mr. Miao is not an example, I should say that the majority of grass-roots life on behalf of the norm, that is, with an iron rice bowl of the new rural life, knowledge, income, but the quality of life has not been a major improvement, especially during the New Year's festivals, you look at everyone basking in the family feast... ...
We are familiar with these scenes from our childhood.
But when we see them, we still ask, "Is this edible?
So it's back to that story of the Shanghai girl who followed the rural guy back home for New Year's Eve and broke up because of the New Year's Eve dinner, back when the public was particularly fond of writing about similar subjects.
Everyone was cursing the Shanghai girl.
If the girl grew up as a rich white girl, she could not possibly hold hands with the rural guy, not the question of whether the guy is good, daily habits are in conflict, a young man who wipes his nose on his sleeve is unlikely to gain the favor of the rich white girl.
If the young man is indeed excellent, for example, the future of the big BOSS, is a person in the dragon phoenix, then he chose this Shanghai girl even if it is really a rich white beauty, will tolerate these, it is not possible to be angry away, not to mention or meals, there are some things are very bad smell, the girls did not eat a bag of strength? For example, that Shaoxing stinky tofu.
A very simple question, your girl, you would like her to marry a guy who grew up in the countryside? Not showering for a week, wearing his underwear front and back.
Why did you suddenly think of writing this?
It was Lao Xu who wanted to buy a car for his son, an SUV of about 200,000 yuan, and asked me.
I said, according to the sales charts to buy, is the most suitable.
He said, is to let you give a recommendation, think you know, ten years eight years do not have to change.
I said, I really don't understand, my advice is based on the sales charts, 500,000 cars, can't talk about personality, and can't talk about any feelings, let's come to some of the most practical, according to the market to decide, what sells well means what retains its value.
He said, if you buy it yourself.
I said, "I wouldn't buy an SUV for home use, and if you're buying one for fun, I'd buy a Jimny, but it's certainly not for you.
I've been in a new mode since my sister bought the house thing.
It's just a matter of asking questions.
No choices, no recommendations, no statements.
Ask me what my opinion is.
I have no opinion.
Look at those real estate V, all of them are popularizing what kind of house is good, then why the crappy house is also sold?
Two reasons.
First, everyone has a different aesthetic.
Second, everyone has different conditions.
My rural children, but also for the younger siblings to go to school, I can spend 100,000 yuan to buy a penthouse to get married is good, you talk to me about what the penthouse is not good? Too sunny? The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money.
Can I not know?
Why are there so many brands of cars?
Each brand has its own specific customers, if a certain brand or model can satisfy everyone, then there is no question of diversity, Apple's cell phone once almost realized this, and then there is still Huawei and Samsung, isn't it?
Everyone chooses what they think is right at the moment and that's it.
I just think that one thing, which Lao Xu is passing on, is the need to be thrifty and frugal, such as not replacing your car for ten years, and thinking that this is a virtue.
Is there another angle to think about it?
It is also stifling a child's imagination.
Why not do it differently? Let him paint himself a picture, such as changing cars every two years, and all these young people who change cars so often are not doing the right thing in our eyes, yet are often the best at what they do.
What does that explain?
What does it mean?
Our thought patterns are wrong.
If it's right, why aren't we the ones who succeed?
These days, I feel this gap again, I joined a new car club last year, including the group I bought my Raptor with, everyone has three or more crossovers, the worst model would be the Land Rover Discovery 4, and everyone started out as Discovery 4 enthusiasts.
What?
Isn't the Land Rover Discovery 4 more expensive than a big Raptor?
Yes!
But the performance isn't in the same order of magnitude.
The big Raptor's performance is on par with, if not more reliable than, the big G. Including the fact that some of our enthusiasts drove big G's, and then they all joined together in the Raptor group buy.
On the issue of the Wuhan epidemic, no one in the entire car club mentioned the donation.
It seems that everyone is over the novelty.
Just a few videos were forwarded by some car enthusiasts, what did they do? Didn't the community block it? Then with a few friends in the neighborhood, you donate potatoes and I donate rice, and then sent door to door, really like Lei Feng, do not leave their names, and then the property company to do a short video.
My car friend donated 10,000 pounds of rice.
This kind, it's heartwarming.
Warming the hearts of neighbors makes the whole neighborhood feel especially cohesive.
Other than that, it is a daily study of the modification of the car, including the owner of the modification store we pulled into the group, to directional modification, for some days to cross the no man's land ready, which I count the poorest, they are afraid that I don't want to give up, offered to send me to modify to add an additional 170-liter sub-tank, that is, each car can carry 300 liters of its own, of course, really go to the modification of I don't need to be sponsored! It doesn't matter if it's over $10,000 dollars.
In addition, is the study of maps, tips, recruiting team members, generally feel that the lack of a photography, every time we go out to play so high, the result we did not fire, those who play the level of the lower level of the other people? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a camera, and you'll be able to see the camera.
Of course, we each have a lot of fans.
Especially female fans.
We have the most fans inside is not me, I only about 10,000, they have 5 million, I send a car wash video have a group of girls to add, there are asked me how to do the license plate, there are asked me where to buy a car, there are also girls to ask me to cybersex is not? I'm not sure if I'm a professional drinker, but I'm sure I'm a good one.
And?
It is that occasionally we will sneak to the river to wave a circle, in the group about good, each other who do not take people, to go to the circle and then go home, after all, it is a sensitive period, usually a group of people urged me: understand, you do not send, you sent us to sell.
I'm just going to promise towards the sky that I won't send it.
They all suffocated and exclaimed on the group, "OMG, when can I go out?
Men have a charming career, the family is generally very harmonious, we will occasionally get together a few families, women with women, men with men, get along very well, except for me, seems to be very able to give birth to, a lifetime is three or four.
Besides, it's all original.
Yesterday, a car friend suddenly looked for me, talked about a little, idle is idle, why not do something for the community to contribute to it, we in the county on a mask production line, the advantage of two points:
First, the entire epidemic should continue for several months, mask gap is still huge.
Second, the current just in the green channel period, all kinds of approvals are the green light, and even some of the mask factory aseptic workshop has not yet begun construction, the certificate has been obtained, there is news as a proof of Guangxi, a poor county.
A line was 200,000 yuan a year ago, and now it is 600,000 yuan.
You can produce 80,000 masks a day, the cost of about 30 cents, according to the current market, 3 dollars is sold on ......
He is not analyzing the feasibility, but everything is ready, the second day of the year to start to engage in, just engaged in the same, he was trying to two-handed preparation, that is, on three lines.
Donate one line, leave two lines.
This line of donations, it is necessary to find a suitable department to take over, for example, the production of the first for local use, to give or not to give the processing fee can be, but relying on this as the basis for the first time to get the legal formalities, and upgraded step by step, from the civilian formalities to the medical formalities.
How long does it take to make a return?
As long as there are procedures, ten days.
It is hoped that I will operate this matter, by me to find the BOSSes to talk about, then I'll talk about it as a matter of business, the BOSSes are also a few schools of thought, some believe that the price of masks rose then raw materials followed, it is impossible to still have such a good profit margins, there is also after the fact is certainly oversaturated industry, there is also a class of BOSS that there is no need for such an operation, it is better to do it in a boredom, just make a profit on this wave! , check the time to calculate the cost of the offense, if you have to use the model of cooperation? Then the result is that everything is on credit.
The whole thing, really stunned me.
I seem to be very smart, but a lot of things are just think, and they? Then at the first time of action, even if nothing is done now, the light of the equipment a dump hand, there are 1.2 million profit margins, there is to be, queuing up to grab ......
If you can not solve the legitimacy of, will certainly choose to sell the equipment.
Because everyone ranks legality first.
What is it that you really want to get into? Take the mask as an entry point into the medical production qualification, so as to do hand sanitizer, after this fiasco, wash your hands diligently will become a national habit, hand sanitizer will have a wave of opportunities, people will be superstitious what hand sanitizer?
Medical grade!
The gap between people is too big, they will give it away, give you the opportunity to share the pie together, and the most critical point, always see a new windfall.
Afterword, this afternoon, we visited three mask production enterprises, that is, the local, two have been deserted, reminds me of a friend told me some time ago that, Shandong is a large province of mask production, masks is a surplus industry, the daily output of up to 20 million, these enterprises can continue to live have been a very bull. For example, we visited the three, either a temporary resumption of work, the dead horse, or the equipment was seized by the bank, and one just yesterday was bought out of the equipment.
We are trying to lease the procedures, do not want the equipment, the three legal persons two can not be contacted, are in the blacklist of the old bad guys, after the visit, several of us came to the same conclusion: make money on this matter, or rely on life!
What if we live today? Maybe a Spring Festival on top of the past few years.
Life and death have their own destiny, wealth and fortune in heaven!
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Special note:
A, the article is not documentary literature, I am not necessarily me, you are not necessarily you, do not be right!