This topic is heavy. The question is: the more you walk, the more lonely you get ... can't you find the meaning of living? Life is a hundred years, more than 30 thousand days. When I was young, I felt very far away. When I was white-haired, I only felt a moment of looking back.
Feeling more and more lonely, physically and mentally exhausted, there are generally several types of people: old people who have lost their wives and children, unmarried and helpless people who have never been married for life, people who are withdrawn, have no social circle, people who have no friends, people who have no house or savings, people with financial difficulties and so on.
The only way to overcome loneliness is to keep an optimistic attitude towards life. Be sure to:
First of all, we must cultivate the ability to live independently. We can cook, wash clothes and do housework.
Second, don't expect too much from relatives and friends, and try to minimize the burden on children and relatives and friends.
Third, we should find something to do every day. It is best to have one or more hobbies, such as calligraphy, painting, photography, etc. Or other skills.
Fourth, we should take good care of our health, get rid of bad living habits, exercise properly and live as healthy as possible for a long time.
Fifth, we should have a few close friends, use the WeChat platform, often chat, or go to the square dance.
The meaning of people's living is more or less to contribute to family, others and society, not the size of contribution. As long as you are happy, you will feel that living is meaningful.
Borrow the last sentence that Cui Ge sums up every day: Life is too short to live, so we should cherish this whole day and be happy and busy until we get sick and die.
This state is a little depressed, so you need to take some antidepressants to adjust it.
It's not easy to live, so many things go smoothly, and they are constantly blocked and falling, getting up and growing up. Loneliness also depends on one's personality. Some people still enjoy loneliness. In fact, many people say that loneliness is not really loneliness, but loneliness without spiritual support. Without an independent mind, you can't find your own direction of survival. Seriously speaking, losers in life, such as lost dogs, are very decadent.
I don't like this kind of person. Once frustrated, it will never recover. Who should I tell my frustration to? Everyone's life is on the road, and their own difficulties are being endured. They all grew up and stood up in this kind of suffering. This is a positive life! Not a loser who lost his life!