Husband and wife are the two trees of a home, to be relied upon at all times. The child is a dandelion, and when it grows up, let it drift away with the wind. The couple is the companion, the child is the guest, don't take the child as the only one.
Yesterday, my friend said something about a phone call. She was introduced to a person to call, the other side of the phone, the other side said her child just fell asleep, what is the matter ah! The tone of voice is very annoying, I can imagine the phone on the other end of a disgusted face. If you don't know each other well, who knows what you're doing and how old your child is before you call? When are they sleeping? Even if they are awake, is it this caller's fault? If it is your leader to call, you will still be like this attitude? The first impression is that the child is the boss of her family! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
The principal of Beijing's fourth high school said: "Where the child is put first, it is mostly a tragedy. The most important thing in a family is the relationship between husband and wife, and when the relationship between husband and wife is very strong, it actually gives the child a sense of security.
I've heard a lot of moms say that they're really busy every day, and that their kids are a big reason for that. After having a child the center of gravity of life is shifted to the child all of a sudden, thinking that the future life is to nurture the child. The only concern is the child's growth and education, and neglect the normal communication between husband and wife.
A few days ago, said WeChat's avatar, I was thinking that if you have a child to change the avatar, it will not only be a child, but a cozy group photo. Because my life is not only the child alone, but also my family. Sometimes we sunshine children, often presented in front of everyone is the child running, the child is laughing, the child how so and so. There is no group photo in the camera, maybe photographed, but very little sunshine.
Children raised by one party, whether it is the father or the mother, will make the child feel dependent. Especially for boys raised by their moms, mom has to step in at all times, and when they don't know anything, they have to call out for mom. For boys, it is important that the father is involved. The growth of the child is the responsibility and obligation of both parents **** the same, is the result of the education of both sides.
The traditional audience is that the parent-child relationship is the centerpiece and the husband-wife relationship is the accompaniment. In fact, the husband and wife relationship is the most important relationship in the family, with the husband and wife will have the title of "parents", there will be father and son (daughter), mother and son (daughter) relationship. When you have a new family member, you shouldn't neglect the other one and focus only on the children. Harmonious relationship between husband and wife can provide a secure environment for the child to grow up, which provides a guarantee for the child's future happiness.
Always put the child first, to a greater extent, is to affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The son is her favorite, not a relative. The first thing you need to do is to take away your daughter-in-law's love and affection. So everywhere interference, big and small things want to do according to their own ideas, on the surface of the peace and harmony, privately changed the way. Perhaps she had experienced something when she was a daughter-in-law, so she put her hopes on her son.
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There's a kid on our side of the family who took part in a local variety show and became famous, or to be more precise, was made famous. To be honest, although he can imitate the movements, it all looks like he's doing the same square dance.
Also recommended to the central station, after his mother often take him to participate in activities around the world and some commercial performances. Family income is increased, but the sister of the family complained that the mother does not care about her, all day to take his brother out. The husband and wife relationship is not particularly good, there is not much communication, are training him this son.
Recently there was a video of him and Liu Xiaoqing in a program opposite, honestly really did not have much character. Many people also think that he should come back to study well, after all, no professional knowledge, no culture, the future will not be able to get a professional school. Of course, the grassroots origin also have success, but there are a few small Yue Yue, a few Wang Baoqiang?
The child properly to participate in some programs, in order to increase the child's insight, exercise the child's language expression ability, etc., of course, is desirable. But there are too many such children, the so-called talent in your eyes, people's children will also have. According to their own situation, not everyone can have the resources or opportunity to be a child star, to act in a movie or TV show.
The child is still imitating, talking like an adult, not having his own stuff, just acting there according to pre-designed lines. If you overexpose your child, to consume the child, the child, although can not fully distinguish between good and bad, but will have a sense of vanity, or will have a sense of superiority. There will also be a sense of frustration if ever they are not favored in everyone's eyes, and this may not be good for the child.
Although not all families have a disconnect because of their children, there is no denying that not a few put their children first. Learning what to spend money, in order to children famous, think of all sorts of ways. Wandering in the major variety show or a variety of child star school selection, communication between husband and wife is less, time is spent on the road and children all kinds of performance preparation.