There are so many scams that scammers call for. I've heard of an unspeakable online scam. I have a coworker's daughter who graduated from Nanjing University of Posts and Telecommunications and worked for a mobile company in our city. It is reasonable to say that people who do this kind of work generally online will not be cheated, but his daughter was cheated last year, eight thousand dollars, I heard that it is online dating was cheated. Although the coworker is not good at explaining the reason for being cheated, I do have to be a bit unthinkable. You were cheated online money, and it is difficult to say, certainly not entirely the problem of money, is not online dating was cheated money? If it is quickly cut off this unrealistic game. You anxiety is not to let go. This kind of thing there is a first time there will be a second time, you do not get out of the new words, there is a possibility that you will be cheated again. You need to realize the seriousness of the problem and break off the relationship as soon as possible. The amount of money you have been cheated is not much, so take it as a lesson learned.
I was cheated more than 20,000, the other side of her grandmother's illness, death, no money to send, her mother's illness, her brother's car accident, and other reasons one after another from me this borrowed from last August, has been said to say that also said that there is money to pay back, but to date, it does not pay! I reported to the police for nearly two months, the Public Security Bureau also filed a case, and now has not been solved. The other party has been saying that they will pay back the money, but they just won't do it! There is nothing difficult to say, is too good-hearted! The money she borrowed was all on my overdrawn credit card. Good intentions are not rewarded! If you can't get the money back, you'll have to call the police! And don't let scammers take advantage of your kindness! The online strangers as long as you mention money to you immediately pull the black, crooks are so unethical!
I also have such an experience, I was online cheated 2500 yuan, when it is to do Taobao, want to brush a single, and then find a single brush, at first I was a single single brush, a single to give a single money brush a few single, that brush single with me that this is very troublesome to let me turn more than one time, I believe him, did not expect a transfer of money, I pulled the black. So in fact, online too many pits, the results of my own pit,
The subject was cheated, in fact, let go of the idea is not a bad thing, as the so-called woe is the blessing of the blessing of the woe is the ambush, and no ridicule of the meaning. I've been cheated a few times because I've learned from my mistakes, and if I say that I've taken 100 fake ones in 04 years at the bank ATM, I've had them replaced by fake ones in 07 years at Changsha Railway Station, and I've had them replaced by fake ones at the kiosk in 13 years, and I've been extorted in 13 years in Xinxiang Railway Station, where I've been extorting money for buying things from the kiosks outside the train station, and I'm glad that the police dealt with it. I don't know if there is anyone to believe, there is the same experience.
That intersection there, I bought 2 bottles of Master Kong water 10 dollars, just turned around a box fell, said inside the things broken to 320. I said not so much it, he said that if I take you to buy elsewhere to accompany me. I spent money to buy, go to walk to the train station, but also has been followed by someone, I went to the square and asked others to say this thing is worth so much money, others said I do not know. Should have seen the man, because that behind me, do not know. I went into the train station and asked the staff how much this thing was worth, and said I had been cheated and knew which store it was. Called me to go over to the store door to call the police, because I am outsiders, so I do not know the address, the phone to the next man called to help say, I did not think that the man is a group of them, and then the boss said not to accompany what the police do not accompany, the money back. Finally, the police came, the store closed their own run. In the square public security pavilion to do a statement away.
I don't know if you have the same experience. At first, I did not know ah, and did not experience and did not meet, but also thought it was really their own touch down, I do not know is a set. Luckily feel that thing is not worth the price,
I worked in the factory before, a colleague every day in front of me to show off the winnings, behind the recommended to me, at first play to win, are some small money, behind the more and more addicted to the deeper and deeper into this year's wages are hitched, online gambling in nine out of ten are lost, just start playing, let you eat some sweet, behind the let you little by little to the send! The money, gambling is the pit, deeper and deeper,
What to do, cheated also have no way, as they pay a tuition, blame no one else, only to blame themselves! I remember I also cheated once, it was the nineties, business was cheated 10,000 yuan, said to order my goods to bait, and then step by step to set up traps to scam me on the hook, then the police also did not recover, can only blame themselves for greed is too heavy, can not be a fluke mentality, or to eat a big loss!
It is also likely that the scammers have seized this mentality of yours,
and feel that the reason is difficult to say, so you will not be too likely to alarm,
on the hard to harm you, in this case, in addition to the police,
do you have any other way to get back the money?
Your anxiety now is of no use to you in being cheated,
The most important thing is to go to the police and give them everything you know,
Trust the government, trust the police. 。。。。
The police have their own means, maybe they will solve the case.
My friend has also been cheated, is the earliest batch of tea women
A grandfather will be sick, a tea plantation to close down and so on, my friend is also a little bit of non-thinking
So overdrawn credit card to the woman, was cheated tens of thousands of people feel wrong
Later, in my persuasion to the police, itself does not have any hope!
As a result, over the past three years, the police told us that they had caught the man, a male liar,
saying that the possibility of recovering the money is not very high, but at least to relieve the hatred ah,
to avoid him going to cheat more people.
So, since it is cheated, no matter what the reason, to go to the police,
Your difficult to say the reason, choose to hold back words, it is the criminal's biggest connivance,
He will only use such means to cheat more people.
You have to believe that the evils of the world are not to be suppressed, and be brave enough to go to the police.
The difficulty of speaking up is a common emotional experience, and there is also a socialized meaning, so dealing with the "difficulty of speaking up" is a problem that everyone faces.
1, appropriate repression. Appropriate repression is needed, people can not always indulge in negative emotions. Ordering yourself to forget the shameful event, directing yourself to study or work, punishing yourself when you think of the shameful event (such as popping a kleenex tied in your arm) are all ways to consider.
2. Emotional experience. Repression often fails when the experience of being difficult to talk about is very strong, and at this point, you can change to a completely different attitude, that is, to face and experience. Put down the work at hand, in 5 or 10 minutes of time, let yourself experience the feelings of shame wholeheartedly, including physical sensations, emotional experience, psychological ideas, immersed in the experience of pain. When pain is confronted, it is often not as scary as one might think.
3. Live your life as you should with pain . This is a very important principle, time is the cure for psychological pain. Psychological pain is an experience that occurs when nervous excitement breaks down, and it takes repeated processing for those parts of the breakdown to be re-bound. Experiencing pain one at a time is also a process of restraining pain one at a time, so as long as the pain does not seriously interfere with daily life, then doing what needs to be done with the pain is always the basic principle of dealing with the pain
4, confide . Talking is important, although people are always shy about expressing vulnerable emotions. Too many children just report their feelings to their parents, not because vulnerability doesn't want to be expressed, but because human culture doesn't allow vulnerability to be presented (especially by men). Often times when vulnerability is presented, others may even be cynical. Find someone trustworthy, or failing that a counselor, to express those shameful experiences. When the experience is expressed, it is a neurological release process that helps to calm the emotions and relieve the pain. Talking doesn't solve the problem, but it does help to alleviate the pain. Suffering does not have to be eliminated, nor can it be eliminated without falling into the pain of perfectionism, which adds to it. In fact, what people need is for the pain to be alleviated, alleviated to the point where you can just do what you need to do with the pain.
5. Discover the positive aspects of difficult events. All pain has positive meanings, and discovering these positive meanings helps to cope with the pain better. "Vasily's words inspired his wife on the verge of despair when she said, "There will be bread and milk"; Cao Cao's declaration that there was a forest of plums in front of him restored the spirits of those soldiers who were tormented by thirst; Mao Zedong's idea of going north to fight against the Japanese and those who had been beaten to death by Chiang Kai-shek were not happy about it; Mao Zedong's idea of going north to fight against the Japanese. Mao Zedong's idea of "going north to fight against the Japanese" rekindled the Red Army soldiers who had been beaten by Chiang Kai-shek. One needs to develop the habit of anticipating the future well, and one needs to learn to inspire oneself with positive events. So you might want to spend some time organizing the positive meaning that painful events bring to you, which might help you develop a new attitude toward facing pain, or even transform pain into life wisdom.
There's nothing hard to say about this kind of thing, and scammers are particularly professional these days, so just think of it as a loss, and pay attention to this kind of thing next time!
Now many people are cheated the most important reason or interest, I was cheated more than 50,000, which did not remember, and then the network cheated a thousand, but also the police, nothing, only their own down to swallow!
Eat a lesson and grow wise, pay more attention to the future, thinking about this matter, the liar will not return the money, life will continue, I hope tomorrow will be better!
Think of it this way, the first liar cheated me 4,200 yuan, fortunately only so much, the second, only cheated a little money, nothing else, which is very good, the third, this kind of thing cheating people is not right, and we have not cheated, why are we sad, sad should be the cheater, sooner or later will be loaded on this kind of thing!
On the Internet was cheated 4,200 dollars, difficult to say why, now very anxious about how to do? In fact, in the journey of life, each of us have been fooled and cheated, just some people put things out, and some people bury things deep in their hearts.
I don't know what you experienced a scam, but things have happened, no matter how anxious you can't change the fact that the existence of the situation has become a certainty and can't be changed, why don't you choose to put down? No matter what age you are now, 4,200 dollars is not a big number, as long as a little effort, you can make up for it, why for such a little bit of anxiety?
The journey of life is also only a few short decades, must live a valuable, unworthy of things can be cleared at any time, so that they and their families live easily.