Maybe a girl likes a boy for a long time and wants to talk about a love affair with him for a long time, but the boy has never promised the girl to associate with the girl. In fact, it's not the boys' fault. It's just that boys don't want to promise girls anything casually, because boys feel that their careers are unstable and need to work hard for their careers. Maybe boys can't give girls happiness.
People who are obviously single but refuse to associate are sometimes better people. Maybe he hasn't found the right person yet, and his quality is not bad, but also excellent. Such a good man doesn't fall in love, but he doesn't realize the life he wants.
Boys also like this girl and want to have a vigorous love affair with her, but he can't make a promise at will, because he feels that he can't give this girl happiness yet, and two people must be in contact. The boy must be in a hurry to get married.
Although we have waited for so long, we are not together, and we are still single. Sometimes seemingly contradictory is actually a normal phenomenon. Sometimes men are out of reach in women's minds. Girls like relationships, boys like to use relationships, but boys and girls have different views on feelings.
Maybe boys can promise girls to date, but this kind of contact is not necessarily what boys want. The association he wants is not easy. The boy is very good because he doesn't want to promise anything to the girl easily.
Sometimes you can't communicate easily, even if you are single, because you must be rational in the face of feelings and don't be carried away by beautiful and sweet feelings.