Don't worry too much, after all, Hanbok disappeared for too long, at first parents and other elders are bound to feel that it is alien.
First of all, a notion of it, the ancients wore Western-style clothes very much to pay attention to, because of the strict rules on clothing, what kind of people are eligible to wear what kind of clothes, are the state regulations are very clear, once the clothes wear the wrong clothes, but also may have to kill the head of the big crime, in ancient times to wear clothes is not a small thing, from the style of the decorations, are a set of very complicated procedures, with the Modern people's concept of dressing is completely different things, modern people dress is to look good and comfortable, clothes have lost the ceremonial function.
The style of the clothes reflects the spirit of the times, such as hanbok, basically loose-based, reflecting the spirit of the ancients that Confucianism, courteous and polite, wearing such clothes are not in a hurry, gentle and elegant, gentleman as jade is the highest level of people and clothes with. Modern people are completely without the ancient kind of calm and elegance, clothes are also tight-fitting, mainly to facilitate work and study, the kind of wide decorative a lot of clothing is not suitable for modern people's pace of life. The reason why modern people wear hanbok, looks not pleasing to the eye, especially parents of such elders, is because they can not see from their look on any gentleman like jade feeling , hanbok design purpose is to let a person have the spirit of etiquette, and now just casually do a style of ancient times, but do not understand at all why the ancients will be so designed, so wear up always feel It's weird.
Modern society, as long as other people's hobbies do not violate the law and do not hinder others, are worthy of respect. Nowadays, the promotion of hanbok is also a fashion, you can wear some women wear hanbok, temperament is immediately different. Chinese dress and cheongsam is a product of two cultures, cheongsam this kind of thing embodies the original lines of women's beauty, is left behind by the Manchu Qing Dynasty (here there is no meaning to disparage the Qing Dynasty, but just to give cheongsam a name, many people will mistakenly think cheongsam is Chinese dress, in fact, it is not at all). Cheongsam is a wild uncut wild beauty, Chinese dress is such as cutting such as cut such as faceted such as grinding the beauty of Confucianism, Chinese dress better reflect the traditional culture, the kind of introverted, put the cultivation of the spirit of the first temperament. Personally, I feel that if a man does not leave long hair, wearing Hanfu basically belongs to the unorthodox completely unattractive, or do not wear, women wearing Hanfu can still show the usual rare Confucian beauty.
Because the Japanese kimono is to learn from us, so now a lot of seriously designed Hanbok look a bit like Kimono, this we must have cultural confidence, is that they copy us, we are the source, the most important thing is that we have the cultural genes in it, know why so designed, embodied and what is a kind of spirit.
Wearing hanbok as long as they like on the line, but since they wear it, we must take it seriously, so that they slowly cultivate, up to the original intention of the designers of hanbok, and really show the excellent traditional culture of my people. I hope that this kind of excellent cultural heritage can be more and more about good. Pretentiousness is there, but to learn to tolerate, after all, Hanbok is still a niche, to let them slowly develop and grow, so that Hanbok can flourish.