Let's not talk about the kids, let's talk about our daily lives. We fight with the square dancers, we fight with the dog owners, we fight with the dog poopers, we fight with the people who watch me lose my passwords over my shoulder and tell them to back off a meter away? These take up the entirety of our spare time. It's that in any country in Southeast Asia that they despise, withdrawals are consciously lined up a meter away, quietly, and all know to line up, even if they're poor. (I went to Russia, customs see the nationals show disgust, because Thailand and other countries, although poor, but the basic social morals and etiquette or have; we are with a group of ducks in a mess, the surface strutting, in fact, is a lamb to be slaughtered)?
Many nationals go out like children without tutelage, especially to the country and their own shame. Our education family education school education and social education are messy, contradictory and contradictory to each other.
We were the same when we were children, the school told children to be honest and trustworthy not to tell lies, and then taught you lies to say. Then it turns out that you just have to say what they hand you, regardless of whether it's a lie or not, and that in itself is twisted. That's why we are taught things that are so hard to justify to ourselves, that we can't chew on them, and the more you chew on them, the more disgusting they become, so you have to swallow them in one bite, regardless of whether or not it spoils your appetite.
You teach your son to be too upright, he will suffer. You don't want your own child to go astray, so sometimes you really don't know how to educate. You try to make him study, buy him a school district house, spend money on tuition for him, all of this is to tell him to chase after utilitarianism with actions? How can you talk about ideals and sentiments, all actions are opposite, what is taught by words and what is taught by example are contradictory.
How do you explain to him how to accept the cruelty of reality and their own responsibility, the problem becomes very big. You can't be sure what kind of children are educated, just like ourselves. We are educated in school, in society, and in a self-reflective style. It's hard for me myself to unify this contradiction how to myself. The old saying goes that you can't be confused at forty, and I think I'm old enough, but I'm still a lot confused. Is it really a problem of my development? So it takes a very strong mind to say something that still makes sense.