Hearing her mother-in-law's irrationality, Liu Cunmei couldn't help but retort: "On what grounds? That's your husband, why don't you serve him? You do not want to serve, there is my husband your son, no matter what, it is not my turn, you do not always say that I this daughter-in-law is an outsider?"
Liu Cunmei married into the in-laws has been five years, and there is a three-year-old daughter, has been fostered in her mother's home. Since the child was born, her mother-in-law has not helped her bring up the child for a single day, and all of her mother's parents are helping to bring up the child.
Liu Cunmei is guilty of this, her parents have only one daughter, pampered from childhood, not less time and energy spent on her, hard work all her life, and now more than 60 years old, it is hard to get to the retirement, have not had a chance to rest for a few years, and then have to help her daughter with the baby, so that the heart of the people can not bear.
As a daughter, Liu Cunmei heart is very upset, but she can not help, when she was pregnant, a monthly salary of 20,000 husband said on the mouth to take up the responsibility of supporting the family, but really wait until Liu Cunmei resigned, her husband and changed a face, all day long chanting his wife and how to spend a lot of money.
Looked at the clothes and food for a long time, in the shopping cart "dust", Liu Cunmei or did not buy, all of her husband's salary was handed over to the in-laws, only occasionally to Liu Cunmei three to five hundred, Liu Cunmei hate a penny broken into two halves to spend.
All the costs of having a child, including the child's milk powder money, the in-laws did not pay a penny, the mother-in-law is always disgusted that she gave birth to a daughter, but also often put the "money-losing goods" three words hanging on the lips. Every time the mother-in-law loudly reprimanded Liu Cunmei mother and daughter, the husband is always like an outsider, wooden stood aside as a spectator.
In order not to look at the face of the in-laws, Liu Cunmei is still breastfeeding, in a hurry to find a job, while breastfeeding the child, while earning a living.
Some people may wonder, "Why don't you get a divorce when your in-laws and your husband are doing this to you?"
On the matter of divorce, Liu Cunmei has thought about it many times, but her daughter is still small, in order to give the child a sound family, she is willing to hold back, of course, this is only one aspect, on the other hand, Liu Cunmei is a traditional woman in her bones, she feels that divorce is a very shameful thing, even if it is really can not go on, she has to hold on to the shell of the marriage.
And, her parents have always advised her to put up with it for the sake of her children.
But just recently, something happened that made Liu Cunmei suddenly not want to continue to tolerate. The reason for this is that without any warning, my father-in-law had a stroke and was hospitalized, the situation was particularly serious, and he was directly paralyzed in bed, and at first, my mother-in-law took care of him in the hospital.
After she was discharged from the hospital, her mother-in-law didn't want to wait for her father-in-law every day, because she loved playing mahjong and was fashionable enough to go to the village playground to dance, so she asked Liu Cunmei to quit her job and come back to take care of her father-in-law.
Liu Cunmei a hundred not happy, Gong Gong's health when good, also never helped her take care of the children, now paralyzed in bed, why remember her?
Anymore, the father-in-law is not her own father, mother-in-law as his wife, should take up this responsibility, if the mother-in-law is not willing to undertake, and Liu Cunmei's husband, the son to take care of the father, is not the natural order of things?
To this, the mother-in-law gave the argument that she is old, have the heart, it is necessary for her daughter-in-law to share, and Liu Cunmei husband's high salary, quit his job is not cost-effective, counting, or she is the most suitable daughter-in-law.
Mother-in-law has always been aggressive, this time under the dead order, if Liu Cunmei does not resign to go home, let the son and her divorce. It was these words that enraged Liu Cunmei, she decisively packed up her things, went back to her mother's home, and divorce became her best choice at present.
Marriage is a practice, in this practice, men and women need to pay time and energy, a marriage can be maintained, the main thing is still the attitude of men and women, if the woman desperately want to hold on to the marriage, but the man is elbow to the outside, not with the pillow of a heart, sooner or later, this small family to fragmentation.
Taking Liu Cunmei's experience, her marriage continues to hold on, there is really no point. The husband does not act, even if the family, the father, payroll card to the mother, the pregnant wife does not care about, even the daughter is not care about, all stuffed to the mother-in-law.
Such a desperate man, you still expect to spend the rest of your life with him ****?
At 1202, divorce is not a shameful thing, it is much better than keeping the empty shell of marriage. People say, persuade and not persuade the separation, but from my personal point of view, Liu Cunmei such a situation, should decisively choose to divorce, timely stop loss.