Mr. Yan, who is 68 years old, says he has learned from his youth that there is no one in the world he can count on more than himself.
In addition to their own efforts, other people's help may be available, but you also have to give back to be able to.
The benefits of sitting on the sidelines are almost impossible to fulfill, except for your parents, who may have given you a gift that will not last you a lifetime.
So he believed that you should not count on others for everything in life, and that includes old age.
Your own preparation in advance, always be prepared, favorable, and the end result is beneficial to you.
He said that his own life experience in the past 6 to 70 years, he has also seen a lot of older people who rely on their children and count on them to live a miserable life, what "sleeping in a pigsty", "eating leftovers" and so on, is simply to take the anger as the The first time I've seen this, I've seen it in my own life.
Since then, he has made up his mind that this will never happen to him.
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02 Keeping the money
To achieve this kind of comfortable old age, he understood that the most critical point is: the elderly have to keep the old age money.
Don't let your children say that they are in trouble here and there, and your parents will give all their savings to them without complaint, just to make sure that they are doing well.
Adult children must rely on their own efforts, parents too much in the money and material to meet each other all the requirements, will make them lazy, lack of motivation, resting on the status quo, develop dependence and so on ......, these for their future life, not necessarily love, but may be the opposite is harmful.
The material support for children, but also have to follow the "help not poor" such a rule: they really have temporary difficulties, parents to help a help will be enough, the rest of the normal circumstances, the elderly spiritual care, action on the care is far more appropriate than just give money.
For the elderly themselves, your pension fund is sufficient, the burden of children in later life will be reduced a little, they also live a little happy, why not?
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03 Selfishness to children
There is another situation: many elderly people in exchange for the right to stay in the old age of their children and grandchildren around the right to retirement, in addition to money, material will try to meet the requirements of the child, but also in the case of their own physical strength, incarnated as the other side of the twenty-four hours of the gold-medal personal housekeeper and free babysitting, to take up the The first thing you need to do is to take care of your children and grandchildren.
After marriage, raise children, raise to each other to get married and have children and add grandchildren on the list, toiling to their sideburns gray, deaf and blind, can not do, in turn, the children and grandchildren do not have the same idea of the feedback to the elderly, then you produce helplessness and bitterness will be far better than those who have always been more than the old man with the idea of normalcy.
Appropriately selfish to their children, do their part, there is room for them to help at the critical point of need, to provide some help and care, it is enough.
In addition to taking care of yourself, don't be so uncomplaining and spoil the other person, they may not even think that this is the love of parents and elders, but will only think that it is your innate responsibility and obligation.
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04 No one away from the health can still have a good old age
The last point of the old man that, as the old saying goes: long time before the bed, no filial son, no one away from the health can still have a good old age.
So don't neglect to manage your health when you are young and strong: pay attention to diet and rest, and exercise more when you have time.
Don't rely on the young to develop all kinds of bad habits that harm the body, health is the root of the human being, without it, the rest of everything will become empty talk, into a bubble.
Anyway, he is still in good health, and there is no need for him to run to the hospital for three days.
This is also a particularly important asset for the elderly, and is something that even more money can't get back, a feeling of being able to feel comfortable and at ease at all times.
He is so grateful for the decisions and arrangements he made for his old age that he is now enjoying a leisurely life.
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