A person can be happy in her old age. Although she has paid a lot, she has gained more.
First, take care of your own money and don’t live too poor.
To spend your old age peacefully, you must "have enough food and clothing". If your children cannot provide for them, you must find a way to leave a pension and a certain amount of savings when you are young.
If you have money in your hands, you can have the final say in anything you do, and you can also do what you want to help your children. If an elderly person living alone has no money and calls his children every day to ask for money, he will most likely be ridiculed.
Second, always care for your children and bring warmth to the big family.
“Having an old person in the family is like having a treasure.” Happy old people do not always wait for their children to help them provide for themselves in old age, but they also care about their children and bring happiness to them.
My second aunt tied the family closely together by sending "cross stitch" and making hometown specialties. Making phone calls every now and then to ask about the situation can also warm your heart.
Third, develop one or two hobbies to enrich yourself.
The ancients said: "If you don't have a hobby, you can't make friends."
Elegant hobbies can make your life more fulfilling and make yourself more elegant. For example, reading can improve a person's temperament, playing chess can make the brain more flexible, playing and singing can make life more lively, and growing flowers and grass can cultivate one's sentiment.
An old man who has no one to chat with and doesn’t know what to do. He eats three meals a day every day and becomes more and more irritable. Use your time to forget your worries.