Most of humanity’s troubles are related to relationships. As long as we live in this world, we will inevitably have relationships with people. After all, who makes us social animals?
As an office worker, you must handle your workplace relationships well with your bosses and colleagues; as a student party, you must handle your campus relationships well with your tutors and classmates; as retired adults, you must dance side by side with the people who dance in the square every day. Dance with other people in a friendly manner.
In addition, as a member of our own family, each of us also needs to properly manage the relationships among family members, relationships with relatives, and relationships with friends. These relationships are vital to each of us.
After the college entrance examination ended a few years ago, and after finally being liberated from the fulfilling but stressful and boring life of high school, I didn’t know how to deal with the interpersonal relationships that I was about to face when I entered college. He also went through many detours with single-minded focus.
Share a scene with everyone.
After studying in the library for a day, you return to the dormitory and find that you don’t know where the other three roommates are talking. Entering the dormitory at this moment seems to break the harmonious atmosphere. As an outsider, you may be the only one present who feels a little embarrassed.
At this time, what will you choose to do?
Go and wash up silently? Or take the initiative to integrate a little bit?
In the past, I may have felt that the most important thing was study, so I did not handle interpersonal relationships properly. So if it were in the past, I would choose to seize the time and continue to do what I should do, but I still feel that my heart is not so smooth. These emotions were not noticed in time at the time, so we did not take immediate measures to adjust them. Later, they slowly accumulated in our hearts and will come to you in a concentrated way one day.
So if I were to choose now, I would take the initiative to stir up relevant topics, or take the initiative to share food with everyone, and integrate when it’s time to integrate. After practicing this, the effect is very good, not only to let others Being with you is less stressful and makes me feel much more comfortable.