On the second day of the first month, the married daughter took her husband and children back to her family for the New Year. When a daughter returns to her mother's house, there must be a big bag of biscuits and sweets distributed by her mother to her neighbors, just like the scene of the New Year.
When the girl goes home, if there is a nephew at home, menstruation has to pay again. Although she gave lucky money on New Year's Day, this time it had a different meaning.
This ancient traditional custom is called "eating midnight snack" by Chaoshan people. As the name implies, it's just lunch, and the daughter must get back to her husband's house before dinner.
The fashionable new daughter-in-law is called "going back to her mother's house" and has been called "mothering" three times in a row, so there are three kinds of sayings: "going back to her mother's house for the first time" (three days after marriage), "going back to her mother's house for the second time" (twelve days after marriage) and "going back to her mother's house for the third time" (full moon after marriage). There are three days to look back, and there are twelve days or a full moon.