Raul is coming.
However, the second grandson came unexpectedly without knowing it. Seeing her daughter being pushed out of the operating room, she became pale and unconscious, and great maternal love came to her: share her troubles with me!
My daughter had two pregnant women with pelvic stenosis. Because of her resistance and allergy to anesthetics, the anesthesiologist dared not take more drugs. The daughter said that the whole operation was suffering from heartbreaking pain. In order to let my daughter have a good rest, I took over after taking care of Bauer for two months. Pick up the boss from preschool in the morning and evening, and take care of the second child at night. I am tired and happy.
It's fun to remember the second child. I just ate and slept at night, but I woke up early in the morning. Spring in Beijing is beautiful, so I pushed him out to let my daughter sleep a little longer.
Strange to say, he came to the square to watch the aunts dance in the square dance, and fell asleep as soon as he heard the song "The most dazzling national style", for three days in a row, every day. Later, when I didn't sleep at home, I used my mobile phone to play this song as a lullaby.
Cultivate good habits
When the second child was seven months old, I went to housekeeping to find a nanny, and I happened to meet an excellent parenting sister-in-law, so I told the story of my eldest brother grinding people for more than three years and drinking milk twice a night. Sister-in-law said that's because you didn't train well. Adults can't eat at midnight. It will be very uncomfortable for a child to eat his stomach like this. In fact, a five-month-old baby can not let him drink night milk. I asked, didn't he cry when he was hungry? She said that as long as children form good habits, they won't cry. I asked if there was any way. She said, you just have to cry for three days.
I went home and told my daughter about it. The daughter said that the baby sleeps with you anyway, so it's good that you can settle down. I didn't make up my mind the first night, so I fed it once in the middle of the night. The next day, I woke up in the middle of the night for the first time and was fed water. The second time I woke up, I patted and cried, but not that kind of crying and shouting. On the third night, I woke up in the middle of the night and gave some water. I slept until five in the morning. After that, I slept for a long night every day and didn't drink milk until after five in the morning. Let adults and children have a good rest.
My boss is almost five years old, so he has to wait for food with his mouth open. Second, I learned my lesson. If I can sit on the dining table and chair at the age of one, let him exercise and take the spoon myself, I am not afraid to spill it. So the second child can basically eat by himself at the age of two.
While eating, his mother told him that his brother and grandmother were both involved, and they were not allowed to rob others. Sometimes when I see that the second child can't grab the slot, I deliberately give him what's in my bowl. My daughter said to me, "I don't remember for a long time." They are in the back when they eat. "
Many people say that having a second child at home feels better than being the boss. In fact, the second child is not born to kiss up, but the essence extracted from the boss's experience and lessons is used on the second child.
Erbao grew up healthily, and grandma quit appropriately.
The days passed day by day in the healthy growth of Erbao. Bauer's good habits are much better than his brother's, but the only regret is that Bauer doesn't know whether he is insecure or afraid of the warmth given by adults. He likes to be held when he goes out, instead of taking a car. So I can't take him out myself, and the treatment my brother enjoyed as a child was discounted. Plus, when I took Bauer, I was almost sixty years old, and my energy and physical strength were not as good as when I took my brother. Moreover, after having him, my daughter resigned at home for two children. I think his mother should pay more attention to early education.
Bauer also went to kindergarten when he was two. At that time, the boss was already in primary school. I told my daughter I should go back to my hometown and start my own life. But the prostitute said that the two children go to school at different times, so one person can't take care of them, and it's not enough to take two children at night. In this way, I persisted for several years.
Affected by the epidemic in the first half of last year, neither child went to school. I used to live in my hometown with my little guys. But then Bauer missed her mother very much, so we returned to Beijing in April. So I can take care of them with my daughter.
I wanted to cook something delicious for my children every day, but both of them were overweight before, and the whole family and doctors unanimously demanded to lose weight.
People who lose weight know that it is very painful to control their appetite from spirit, let alone children. It's easy to cook a good meal. There are all kinds of recipes on the Internet. You can eat like a pig and be happy when you see your children eating well. It's too difficult to cook diet meals for children. Order food in ration for each meal. Fortunately, I kept a diet record for Bauer for more than 40 days, and my weight dropped. Although I didn't reach the standard weight, I stopped growing.
In August this year, I didn't need much care to see Erbao. School started in September, and my aunt will be back soon. Although I have lived here for ten years, I always feel that this is not my home. I communicated with my daughter several times and finally agreed to leave.
Ten years, a long life experience and unforgettable memories. My daughter's position in my heart has been replaced by Erbao, and Erbao can't live without grandma. They cried bitterly the day I heard that I had left to find my grandmother. After I went back to my hometown, it was hard to think about those two babies.
However, after returning to my hometown, I have a girlfriend and friends. Looking at Jinzhou mountains and rivers that have been away for ten years, my mood suddenly became clear. This is my base!
Two precious grandchildren, you will grow up eventually. Your parents should accompany you when you grow up. Bye, babies!