On the Internet, there is a pair of father and daughter, their daily life has attracted the attention of millions of fans, but also by the CCTV named praise, look at the daily life of this pair of father and daughter, have to sigh, the father is really a master of parenting.
We think children are here to return the favor, but in fact most children are here to take revenge.
Most parents choose to use authority and force to suppress their children, but this is often poor, sometimes useful, sometimes useless. The real masters of the parents, and the children over the fight, can do no sound better than the sound.
Other people's children grating time, parents will urge, will yell, will be more anxious than the child, the father is just the opposite, he does not urge, do not yell, not anxious, at least his surface is not anxious, he slowly and methodically holding a large clock, standing quietly in front of his daughter, a helpless expression to watch his own daughter, Yul a grain of rice a grain of rice to eat.
Obviously angry liver pain, he still have to pretend to look indifferent, psychological ten thousand horses galloped past, the surface of a you slow you do as you please. The netizens on the sidelines felt that San Shi was going to be suffocated from internal injuries, but he just looked like I don't say anything, I don't rush, I just don't get angry.
Daughter Xiaoyu not only eat slowly, everything is slow.
Other children after school are the first time rushed out of the school door, but his girl Xiaoyu is never in a hurry, not only do not squeeze out with everyone, or the last one out of the school. Dad's video, the little girl stood alone in the school square thinking about the big things in life, outside the school dad can only sit on the steps of the school entrance to watch slowly.
Daughters are always too slow, and dads have a way of getting around that.
The daughter has packed her bag, standing at the door with a cup of water, waiting for her father, but the father has learned from his daughter, picking up the socks and shaking them, and then folding them again, allowing the daughter's mouth how loudly complained, the father is not red in the face, not jumping, a face that you want to hurry you go first.
A move to subdue the daughter love late problem. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Did you realize that the blogger Sanshi is never in a hurry? Whether his daughter is late for school, too slow to eat, or doing crafts, this old father is always waiting helplessly, but not a word of urging and complaining, not to mention a word of blame and yelling. This is the highest state of being a parent, no matter what kind of child, we accept it in its entirety, he is a snail or a tortoise, we can only follow him behind the body.
We all understand the reasoning behind this, but when it comes to doing it, we are always anxious, and it's easy to rush the shipment.
A carpenter is a person who makes things fit together. Carpenter-type parents, treat their children, always hope that the child can grow in their own hands in accordance with their own mind, anything has a standard of measurement and size, the product is carved out of a mold.
The gardener, with a pair of large scissors, he will go with the flow, pruning up the flowers and plants is in accordance with the original shape of the flowers and plants to modify, like orchids, each plant is different.
Carpenter parents prefer to change their children, while gardener parents prefer to respect their nature.
Blogger Mishi explains what a gardener parent is. Give children enough respect and full development.
Xiaoyu always slow to go to school, he did not complain, wait a little longer; Xiaoyu like to do handicrafts, slow on slow, he sat next to the child with the child, watched her put the eyes to the turtle; other children visible playful playful, Xiaoyu alone lying on the ground looking at the book.
The child has her style and temperament, her temperament and preferences, and all parents can do is respect and support, give her time and space, and let the child grow freely.
We all know that companionship is the longest confession, but how to have meaningful companionship is really a problem.
Xiaoyu practiced Latin dance at home, in order to cooperate with his daughter's practice, his father dedicatedly borrowed his grandmother's professional clothes for square dance, and practiced with his daughter at home wearing short sleeves and skirts.
Although the action can not keep up, the expression is not enthusiastic, and even some indiscriminate feeling, but full of seriousness can not be covered, the key is that the daughter did not pay attention, but also sent the dad this look to the dance group, forcing many parents to ask the teacher in the group, the child's performance still need to be dad on the stage?
Dad's companionship to Xiaoyu is never a mouthful, much less a commanding parent standing on the sidelines, this companionship is a kind of physical force, regardless of their own line, the form and the power of the example is always to do.
Think about how we always educate our children to play less cell phone and read more books, let the children do more exercise, but when the children come home to see the parents, always in the hands of the phone, Ge You lying on the couch, such a gap between words and deeds, how to persuade the children.
We've found that the real masters of parenting never talk about skills and reasoning, because the way they educate their children has been integrated into their own words and deeds.
To summarize, the master parents raise children, their experience is summarized in the following points:
If you also encountered the difficult problem of disciplining children, you may want to look at the video of this master father, and instantly be able to release.