Many people will feel that time passes too fast and we are caught off guard.
It seems that my front foot just passed 18' s birthday, and immediately passed the 20th. It seems that the 20th has just arrived, and it will be 25th in a blink of an eye. After 25, the days pass quickly, and 30 is not far away.
People are over 30 years old, and the days are basically brushed. Before you know it, you will be 40, and then you will be almost 50.
In fact, people speak very slowly in this life, but they speak very quickly. In just a few decades, they are fleeting. Have you done all the things you like to do? Are all the people you like together? Have all your unfinished dreams been completed?
After forty, you can run for five games quickly. We will expect the days to pass slowly, because time waits for no one. After 50, we are basically middle-aged and elderly people, and we will gradually get older. So after forty years old, I always hope that my life will go slower.
After 40 years old, your middle-aged life and the rest of your life are basically finalized.
But that doesn't mean you can't change it. In fact, as long as you are capable, you can change your life. As long as you and I agree, you can change your future life. You must pave the way for yourself.
So, what to do after forty? Let's discuss it.
It is impossible for a person to stand on his own feet in this society. From birth to the last job to old age, there must be a necessary process of contact with people.
You have to deal with others in everything. You need the care of your parents after birth, teachers and classmates after school, and leading colleagues after work. ...
In a word, we are. Maybe we can stand on our own feet in society. Therefore, everyone has his own life circle. With this circle, you will feel safe in this circle.
Because you have your own circle, you can do what you like with people and friends you like in your own circle.
You can't walk far alone. Because a person is lonely and has no motivation. We need the warmth of our family, the help of our friends and like-minded friends to go with us.
After forty, you must have your own circle. Only when you have your own circle can you gain a foothold in society.
Only in the right circle can you have something you like to do, otherwise you will be a very boring person.
A 40-year-old woman must have wrinkles on her face, and her figure and skin are definitely not as good as before. At this time, you should take good care of yourself.
Temperament and inner need to be maintained. Especially the body. Women's health is very important Many middle-aged women end up with female diseases such as breast cancer or uterine cancer. Look at Anita Mui. He was only in his forties when he died. Look at Bella. She died young.
So after forty, you must pay more attention to your health. If you don't like sports, you should go for a walk. If you don't like walking, you should at least take part in more activities or dance square dance.
Don't stay at home every day anyway. As long as you move, it is better than sitting at home every day.
Women should make themselves have temperament. Forty years old is not the time to spell appearance, but the time to spell temperament. Look at Dong Qing, Sebrina and Ma Yili. ...
These women in their forties are particularly temperamental and feminine. Such a woman will make people feel very comfortable.
Men, too, must pay attention to their health after forty. People's bodies are going downhill, and it is impossible to get older as possible.
Because the body is slowly overdrawn, after forty, men should also learn to maintain their bodies. Jogging, exercise, fitness ... all these sports should be done.
Don't drink too much, don't smoke, don't take these bad habits as your hobbies, in short, you must develop good habits and stop overdrawing your body.
Be sure to keep healthy, don't make yourself greasy, and don't let yourself have a beer belly. Nobody can like such a man.
Money is not everything, and you can't do anything without it. One cannot live without money, especially after middle age.
Some middle-aged people, at this age, have nothing, no money, are sick, or have changes, and there is nothing they can do. If you encounter such a situation, do you have to find someone else to introduce you?
Whether men or women are over forty, they should learn to save money. If you have a good relationship with your wife, you must learn to save money and put part of your income in your account.
Don't touch the money in this account unless there is an emergency.
If your relationship is not good, regardless of gender, you must leave yourself a way out and save some money.
In case something happens to your marriage, you are not as loving as before, and one of you abandons you, you can still have your own money to do what you want. At least, you can have some money to support your life.
If you are over forty years old and don't have your own money, you will certainly lead an unstable life for the rest of your life, because you didn't build a good life for yourself from the beginning. Who else can you rely on?
Who can people in their forties rely on for their old age? Of course, I care about myself.
Also, in your forties, don't learn to spend money lavishly. At this time, you should learn to open source and cut expenditure, and don't spend money you don't need.
Don't waste money. Sometimes saving is more important than making money. No matter how much money you earn, it's no use spending money recklessly.
Forty is not a terrible age. Forty years old is actually a very beautiful age.
In any case, any age in life is a beautiful age. Learn to enjoy life and take it seriously.
I hope everyone aged 40 can live a good life, especially the above three things. Only when you do these three things, and then something else blesses you, will your life be smooth sailing.
Otherwise, your forty years old is absolutely terrible.
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