0 1, don't just cater to it. Remember, a man's psychology is different from a woman's psychology, his thinking mode is different, and his attitude and method towards feelings are naturally different. It is very likely that when you are deeply involved in a relationship, it is difficult to master that mentality and can't control your heart. But if we want a long-term development trend, everything should have its regularity.
The reason why I met many women and didn't cherish them after I got them was because I was too casual about my feelings and had no attitude at all. Women are careless about themselves, and natural boys will not cherish them. There is also something that is too easy to get, and usually no one will cherish it. You think you can win each other's favor by pleasing him and pandering to him everywhere, but you don't know that this will reduce your personal value.
If a woman can keep her attitude in her feelings, not actively cater to them, have her own ideas and attract each other with her own style, such feelings can last for a long time. On the contrary, boys will have the desire to conquer you. Because people are born cheap, the more you can't get it, the more you will take the initiative to invest and cherish it.
02, have their own ideas in real life, women who can be held in the palm of a man's hand are generally better. They all have their own ideas, know what they want and work hard for it. Everyone will like a thoughtful, hardworking and excellent woman. Such a woman can be equal to each other and even help boys with some problems. Ask which man doesn't love such a woman.
If a woman doesn't have her own thoughts, she will be cranky when she is deeply involved in a relationship, and will be pushed around casually by men. Most of such women will not have any good results. On the contrary, women who have their own ideas and opinions will appear very attractive in men's eyes, making it easier for him to attract impulsively.
Once a woman loses her mind and is too casual, what a man says is what she wants. It is very likely that men will particularly like you at first and think you are smart. But after a long time, men will feel bored and will look down on you more and more. Even with you, they won't cherish it. Therefore, women should maintain their self-use value and have their own thoughts in order to pursue perfection in love.
03. Don't take the initiative to let the other party spend money. In the emotional world, everyone thinks that good love is love. Although this is also the most direct way to distinguish a man's feelings for you, it still needs the other person's willingness. If you blindly ask the other person to invest and spend money for you, it is very likely that he will be willing to like you at first, but when he really gets you, he will feel that you are worthless and will no longer be willing to spend money for you.
Love this thing is never what you want. It is meaningful to let the other party pay and make you conscious. Everyone thinks that those who love you will only think that you have too little, and those who don't love you will only think that you need too much. This is a very real example. If you take the initiative to get it yourself, naturally your position in the other person's heart will decline.
Remember, love is willing to invest. If a man really likes you and doesn't need you to say anything, he will take the initiative to spend money for you and always pay attention to your dynamics. He will pay attention to what you have said, and will buy what you want directly. But if you take the initiative to get it, the actual meaning will be different. This kind of love will not last long.
04. There should be some ways to sum up feelings. Love needs to be managed and maintained. In a relationship, if a woman wants to be in a man's heart, she must do these three things, not just cater to it, but have her own ideas and forbid the other party to spend money on her own initiative. If she can do this, natural men will take you to heart and cherish and love you more.