Square dance, my parents.

Maybe there is no one to talk to. You said he was talking to outsiders, afraid of being laughed at, so he could only tell you. But to be honest, it is really inappropriate for parents to talk about these things in front of their children, which has a great influence on their children. After all, it has nothing to do with their children. As an adult, he should have the ability to bear emotional problems and find some other ways to ease his emotions.