2. Keep a low profile! Keep a low profile Keep a low profile
No matter how expensive luxury goods you bought, how awesome certificates you got, how excellent grades you got, and how high scholarships you got, don't tell your roommate if he didn't ask. If you did, you should try to say you were lucky. You have to believe that there really aren't many people in this world except your parents who want you to live better than her, and there will only be more jealousy and exclusion.
3. Never study in the dormitory!
If you are not in Xueba Dormitory, there are always some people who will be sarcastic in the dark: "Wow, so-and-so studies hard in the dormitory every day, but why didn't she win the first place in the exam?" If you don't want to hear something like this, you'd better go to an empty classroom or library to study.
4. Don't make phone calls in the dormitory.
Don't think that you can do whatever you want just because your roommate doesn't understand you when you make a phone call in a dialect, because you never know how much your roommate can guess from the words you understand intermittently and how many secrets you have.
5. It is really necessary to protect your privacy and buy anti-peeping film and computer anti-peeping film. Some roommates just like watching your mobile phone or computer screen, which is so annoying. If I told her, if she doesn't change, I suggest buying a better peep-proof film ... < P > 6. Accept the existence of small groups in the dormitory. There is no need to insist on who plays well with whom. If the other two or three people have a good relationship, you don't need to be too sad. This is very common. Of the four dormitories for girls in our class (we are six people), two are always two people walking together, one is four people walking together, and one is always five people walking alone. So whether you are one person or two people, three people are normal, just accept it, and there is no need to force things like personality and three views.
1. Roommates are not friends
Many times, you treat people sincerely, but others don't. Maybe you may be a roommate's courier porter, a rice porter, a taxi payer, a seat-occupying worker in class, a librarian ..... and a life hammer. If you refuse a help once, you will talk sarcastically behind your back. Why won't this person help me? Why did it change after a good start? 2. Respect each other and understand each other
I just went to college, have no accommodation, and have no experience in collective life. I may need to run in all aspects.
For example, some people like to go to bed late, take a bath before going to bed, and play videos outside, while others like to be quiet, wear headphones and go to bed early. Then it is best for everyone to discuss a specific time to turn off the lights, prepare a small desk lamp for those who go to bed late and an earplug for those who go to bed early, so that everyone can live in peace with each other, and those who like to play outside can reduce the volume, or wear headphones, and those who like to go to bed early can also prepare eye masks and shade curtains.
3. Don't always be a good guy
This may have some overlap with the first point, but I really want to say that having a good temper doesn't mean that you are the target of being bullied. Therefore, there must be strength in gentleness. Learn to answer different questions from different people with high EQ. When someone asks if you are here, you can say that you are busy. What can I do for you?
this may reduce some things that you feel troublesome. If you can do it conveniently, then help. If you need to waste your time and energy and feel troublesome, then don't help.
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4. Learn to be patient and understand
Don't let your sudden temper become the fuse of dormitory relationship. Everyone wants to live in peace, so communication is very important. Please say what you have, don't keep it in your heart. This is the place where you have stayed for the longest time. If you don't adjust well, you will have a very uncomfortable time for four years.
If you can't change other people's habits, try to accept them and don't take small things to heart. In this way, your heart will be much broader.
5. Share good things with everyone. Remember to buy food for your roommate's birthday.
Don't be stingy. Everyone lives together. You will find the food more delicious if you share it together. It is actually a wonderful thing to remember your roommate's birthday and celebrate it together. You don't need to buy any expensive gifts, and you don't need any special care. It's beautiful for everyone to get together, eat a cake and make beautiful wishes.
6. Don't have small groups
You can have close friends, but you can't have small groups. There are few people in the dormitory, and small groups always like to gossip behind people's backs, which is very bad. This habit is very bad, so keep your roots.
first, how to get along with people and fit in with the group. Here's my own example: there are six people in our dormitory when I was a freshman, and the head of the dormitory always likes to arrange "programs" for us. Playing cards, chasing Korean dramas, etc. In her words, after a tense high school life, college life is given to us by God to enjoy. The other four expressed their support and approval. Therefore, I am also embarrassed to "stand out from the crowd" and slowly get close to this group. I also play. I can't get along well with the dormitory in the university, but my heart is very uncomfortable, very empty and nothingness, because the purpose of my university is to study, not to waste my time.
Second, I learned the local customs and anecdotes, because everyone comes from different places and will share the beautiful scenery and delicious food with each other. At the beginning of the new semester every year, it is the time for food exhibitions in the dormitory and around the country. Now, I can't forget the smell of vinegar and ginger brought by my roommate in Jiangxi.
Third, we also learned to develop hobbies. For example, in our dormitory, there are some good singers, and we also fall in love with singing. Although singing is not beautiful, it can make us happy. Furthermore, some people like poetry reading and dancing. We will cultivate hobbies if we are healthy and improve ourselves.
Life in college is beautiful, and the relationship between college dormitories is not so bad. As long as you understand, you don't go to college for fun, not to fit in. But to learn, to achieve their dreams, and then find their own group, and have been moving towards the ideal.