A truly happy woman

The Characteristics of a Truly Happy Woman Financial Independence Financial independence is one of the most important prerequisites for a woman's happy life.　This does not mean that you have endless money to spend, but that you have the ability to secure your most basic life when you lose your parents, husband and children to provide for you. That's why the first thing Luo Zijun did in her divorce was to get a job and support herself.　You have an income, you can not reach out to others, do not have to beg, means you have the basic freedom of what you want to do and what you do not want to do; you can afford to buy what you want to buy, such as seasonal clothes, skincare products, go out to eat with friends, able to generously AA, you can occasionally go to the place you want to go to travel without having to look at other people's faces.　Even better, you have your own set of small house. The famous writer Woolf said, "For a woman to write, she had better have a room of her own." In fact, this is true for any woman, not just for women who write.　That way you have a place to go when you're fighting with your husband and a place to go when you want to be alone.　The security that a small house provides you is the strongest backing a woman can have for what she chooses and what she doesn't.　 No More Procrastination Outside of financial independence, the most important thing a woman should be able to do is control her time.　Human life is actually made up of countless days, to be able to do every day to live well, in fact, is a good life.　The best way I can think of to control your time is to stop procrastinating. Try to think of how many things in our daily lives are ruined by procrastination.　Because of procrastination, the candlelight dinner date with my husband on Friday night was delayed; because of the procrastination in leaving the house, it resulted in not catching the train; because of procrastination, those things that we originally wanted to make and fulfill our dreams, are they still lying in the drawer now?　Finish your work as soon as possible and leave work early; get up early and get ready when you have an appointment; take a little something out of your day for something you want to do; life would be so much better if we could all do what we need to do in the allotted time.　If you control your time, you control your life.　 Stick to Exercise What is the best makeup and skin care product for women? In fact, it is exercise.　For women, beauty can be said to be the cause of a lifetime, the best way to keep beautiful is never plastic surgery, use expensive skin care products, but exercise.　The benefits of exercise for people in their 20s may not see much difference, with the passage of time can be seen, exercise for a woman how important.　Women who are able to exercise consistently stay in better shape and are in better spirits. The older the body is good, the more obvious the benefits will be, such as the lack of pain and suffering, the mood will be more optimistic and calm, more positive state of mind and so on.　Adhere to exercise, also does not mean how much exercise, but have the habit of exercise, you can go out every week, play ball, hiking, running, and even square dancing can be. To look younger and more beautiful than your peers, start now and go exercise.　 Regularly organize clothes It is often said that your state is reflected in the details of your life, and there is actually a lot of scientific basis for this statement.　Take a woman's closet as an example, a messy closet may be the owner's personality, but it may also be the owner's bad habits and a busy, busy life.　Not only the state of the person will affect the state of the environment, the environment can in turn affect the state of mind of the person. A clean and tidy closet can remind a woman how good it is to live an organized and healthy life.　Seasonal time, you can no longer wear a short period of time the clothes, wash and dry, put into a special organizer or storage bag, both to prevent the clothing dust, better maintenance of clothing, but also to ensure that the room is tidy.　No longer use the clothes, you can organize the clothing recycling box, now many cities in the country are equipped with clothing recycling boxes, or the city also has a similar 'recycling clothing place.　I sometimes feel that clothing is the most intimate partner of the woman, your underwear know your body, a variety of materials to help you modify the body, cold cover body, they are worth us with a tender heart to properly placed.　With a gentle heart to treat their own intimate things of the woman, especially gentle.　 Read half an hour before going to bed If a woman is like wearing armor during the day, fighting with the work, with the world, then when the wash is good, an hour before going to bed, it is the time for women to spend with themselves.　For a woman to be in good shape, she needs to spend that little time with herself every day. Let yourself return to the real, ask you, happy? Happiness? Let the messy mind calm down.　Can be writing a diary, write down those heartfelt moments, moving things, some feelings. It can also be reading for a while - stories, essays, novels, fairy tales, picture books, just to make you happy and gain something.　The famous writer Lin Qingxuan said that he would read for a while every night before going to bed, and when he saw something that touched his heart, he would go to bed, so that he would go to sleep with a sense of fulfillment. That's how the day ends.　 Hobbies and Interests If work provides us with an economic base, then hobbies and interests can create a lot of fun and beautiful moments in our daily lives. Especially hobbies that you have been doing for many years.　I have a friend who plays the guitar well, friends go to the beach together to see the sunset and sunrise, in the dead of night, the sound of the waves of the moment, he took out the guitar, shallow playing and singing, really is a very beautiful moment; Christmas time, he will also be held in the home of a small concert, three or five friends, point their own want to listen to the songs he practiced ahead of time, accompanied by beer, cake, we spend a lot of good moments, more than simply dinner, KTV is much more interesting.　A friend is good at making cakes, every time there is a friend's birthday, she will prepare a small cake at home, and the market to buy completely different, from the flavor to the shape are very distinctive. Will be full of their own hearts are hidden in this cake, many friends receive such a gift, are very happy.　Cultivate a hobby with your heart, add a splash of color to your ordinary life, open up another world outside of work, and make friends with like-minded people.　 Regular Traveling After staying in one environment for a long time, we always feel bored and feel that life is not interesting, in fact, what we need may just go to a distant place.　Gao Xiaosong said, in addition to daily life, we also need poetry and faraway places. I have an experience that after going to poems and faraway places, you will love your daily life more, and after traveling for more than ten days, I miss that little nest of mine.　Just like what Eva Chen sang in "The Meaning of Travel", "You leave me, that's the meaning of traveling", leaving your daily life in the moment may be the meaning of traveling.　Traveling twice a year to visit the mountains and see all the natural beauty, or it can be a city tour to experience the people of the city and see how other people live in such a big world.　Jiang Xun once said, "On the way to travel, you see different landscapes, different people and lifestyles, which will make you better recognize your current culture and life, and use the foreign culture to check your own culture a lot of things that should be reflected on."　This also explains why many people, when they are unhappy, go out for a trip and come back in a better frame of mind.　If you can't make the trip in the short term, reading, writing, chatting, companionship, sharing, singing, painting, are all great ways to do it-whatever makes a difference in your life and avoids stiffening your brain and numbing your heart.　 Have like-minded friends People are social creatures, and in life, they are in all kinds of relationships - relatives, friends and lovers. Which loved ones can not choose, but friends can choose their own, you choose what kind of friends, to a certain extent, can decide your life.　Love is unattainable, no matter how old you are, a group of like-minded and sincere friends is the most precious thing in my opinion.　Whether you're single or in a relationship, and especially if you're married, it's important to carve out dedicated time for your friends. It can be a cozy afternoon tea, opening your heart, relaxing and chatting, pouring out your worries, sharing life's insights, or sharing a list of life's goodies; or meeting up for a trip together, getting together regularly, doing fun things, and experiencing joy, passion, and other rich emotions together.　When you are young, encourage each other and **** together to inspire and grow. In later years, you can also hold a sunset travel group together, together to see the outside world, not happy.　Really happy woman 2 Really happy woman characteristics Believe in love No matter what kind of turbulence and harm experienced in the emotions, they still believe in love, looking forward to true love.　They never settle for anything, nor do they cling to it, and they are brave and determined when it comes to love.　And the right person together, the day happy and satisfied. Wake up every day, open your eyes, love and sunshine are in, is their greatest happiness.　 Know how to show weakness Women are made of water. Women who are too tough will turn themselves into cement, making it impossible for people to love them. If you know how to show weakness in front of the right person, you can make men love you more.　Life requires skill. For your lover, appropriate pampering is a love interest, which can not only exude your femininity, but also make the other person feel needed. When the other side feel needed by you, will naturally pain you, you can also feel happy.　 Always keep self-discipline Self-discipline is self-restraint. The woman who can always self-discipline, get the achievement is often higher than others, the harvest of happiness is often more than others.　A woman who maintains self-discipline at all times will set a goal for herself and work hard to achieve it. Time and time again, the accumulation of achievements, will naturally bring more happiness.　Really happy woman 3 really happy woman, not married to love, but married to the right In fact, for women, the greatest happiness, nothing more than to find a peace of mind to rely on, the two people from the beginning to the end, not afraid of any challenge, not afraid of any hardship, single-mindedly guarding a person, over the life of such a really married to the love of the woman is very little, there are a lot of women, the choice of that one person, are not The woman who chooses the one, is not the one that she really loves.　Things are like this, there are too many reasons, so that you do not have the means to love each other, you can only choose another person, to start a marriage.　In fact, women should understand one thing, you love that one person, perhaps not the most suitable for you that one, just this one reason, can let you do not regret the decision.　-02- There are too many women, thought married to love, is like talking about a never break up in love, a lifetime can be very happy, do not know, not suitable for two people, and then love each other, there is no way to keep each other. Marrying a person who is suitable for you is better than marrying a man who loves you.　Sooner or later you will know, those really happy women, not married to love, but married to fit.　Marry the right person, don't have to go and change your habits for each other Xiaoqing and Lin Wen met on a blind date, and after knowing each other for three months, they got married, and everyone thought they were perfect for each other.　They both had jobs and had been in love, only to marry hastily when their marriageable age came up.　The country has always been about the right family, which is not really an old idea, because then you both grew up in basically the same environment and received basically the same education, and it is easy to be recognized.　Door-to-door will be more suitable, rather than dim love, marrying the right person for you, unnecessary to change their habits.　Xiaoqing and Ah Wen's life after marriage is happy and peaceful. It is as if they have found their missing other half, and their life is calm and cozy.　Married to the right, two people will not divorce because of quarrels Once Lin Wen work home, Xiaoqing and sisters went out shopping, she bought a lot of things to go home, are not much use. Lin Wen asked casually and didn't say anything. Xiao Qing said she wanted to go eat hot pot, Lin Wen had to go home after eating a little bit casually because he had some work left to do.　Xiao Qing was very angry, feeling that there is no love between them even if, but their marriage, no companionship no comfort, no thoughtfulness, not even care. Xiao Qing finally couldn't help but get angry, then ran to her best friend's house alone, not wanting to go home.　The next day Lin Wen came to him, brought a bouquet of roses, said: because I let you suffer, miss the little flower when you come back, it also misses you. Little Flower, a stray cat they adopted together.　Married to the right person, you do not have to look y into each other's faults, because you will work together for this marriage.　Marry the right person, and you will gain love in the details of your life Lin Wen and Xiaoqing's marriage, like all marriages, had the fruit of their marriage, and they gave birth to a cute little daughter.　When Xiaoqing was pregnant, Lin Wen accompanied her almost every day, he didn't want to grow stretch marks, he would help her massage every day, he would make breakfast for her every morning before he went to work, he would wait for Xiaoqing to go to sleep at night and then go to bed again, he wouldn't put pressure on Xiao Ai no matter how busy or tired he was.　On the day of the birth, he held the baby, Xiaoqing cried and cried, she felt so hard, but Lin Wen didn't even hold her, Xiaoqing felt that he didn't love her, he just loved his daughter.　Lin Wen comforted her, "Wife, don't think nonsense, you'll get better, I'll always be there for you."　Xiaoqing realized that the two people, without realizing it, had already developed love.　Married to the right person, will be in the cracks of the years little by little, slowly harvest love, and then, more and more love.　True love, not love at first sight, but over time.　The real fate, not the arrangement of God, but your suitable.　Sometimes, married to the right, far more likely to get happy than married to love.　As long as you treat your marriage with care, sooner or later you will cultivate a deeper relationship than love.