People, don't be too stubborn. No family needs a "stubborn old man" but an "old boy".
Looking at my second aunt, I can see that a person's old age can also be happy, although she gave a lot, but got more things.
First, take care of your money and don't live too poor.
To spend the twilight of life, you must be "clothed and fed", and if your children can not provide, then you have to find a way to leave a pension and a certain amount of savings when you are young.
They have money in their hands, do anything, are able to say, to help their children, can also be done. If you live alone, if you don't have any money, and you call your children every day to ask for it, you'll probably be taunted.
Secondly, they often care for their children and bring warmth to the extended family.
"There is an old man in the family, there is a treasure", the happy old man, not always waiting for their children to help their own old age, but also will be concerned about their children, to bring happiness to their children.
My second aunt, through the delivery of "cross-stitch", do hometown specialties, the family tightly linked together. A phone call every now and then to check in on how things are going can also warm the heart.
Third, develop one or two hobbies to enrich yourself.
The old saying goes, "You can't make friends if you don't have a hobby."
Elegant hobbies can make life more fulfilling and make oneself more elegant. Let's say that reading improves one's temperament, playing chess makes one's brain more flexible, playing and singing can make one's life more lively, and raising flowers and grass can cultivate one's sentiment.
An old man, no one to accompany the nagging, and do not know what to do, every day is three meals a day to repeat, will become more and more irritable. Put your time to good use to forget your troubles.
Fourth, insist on treating people kindly and getting care from the society.
As one grows old, helping others as much as one can is a way of accumulating virtues and blessings, as well as interacting with outsiders.
Look at your own home, what things have not been useful for a long time, is it possible to give to people in need; there is no time to help neighbors do what, especially those who do not have time to manage the children's families, you ask more, the children come home from school, the adults do not worry about; their own house, if you **** with the enjoyment of people, the family will also have laughter, not so dull.
On ordinary days, the elderly go out, pay attention to their own image. His own virtue, like a light, leads the way for others, and he himself is happy now.
Just like my second aunt, giving up her room to the parents who accompany her. It doesn't matter how much you earn, it's the sentiment that counts, and it's rare.
Elderly people who live alone and have evil hearts, then don't expect anyone to help them. Even if you can't walk, others won't give you a hand. It needs to be a wake-up call.
The fifth, to be a person with the fate, do not refuse twilight love.
There is a very heartfelt quote from Zhihu: "Older people, if the partner is gone, parents are gone, children have to work, ask who will give him comfort? He also wants a hug, also want to suddenly once in a while pampering cry ......"
People, accept twilight love, not for the old, but for the rest of their lives, looking for a dependence. As long as you keep your eyes peeled and don't get cheated, there will naturally be warmth in your heart.
"A full house of children is better than a halfway house".