Emotion is like a metaphysics, most of us have a little knowledge, and too many people are trapped by emotion.
Whether we are
Emotion is like a metaphysics, most of us have a little knowledge, and too many people are trapped by emotion.
Whether we are in love or married, or even those who are tired of marriage and go to other places to try new things, the true portrayal of many people's feelings is that they are reluctant to let go and are too tired to persist. Suffering from loss, disappointment and hope are intertwined, and they are hesitant in persistence and abandonment.
I want to let go, but I can't bear it, just because I can't bear to pay all the time. This is a cost that can't be ignored, and the more I pay, the greater the cost, the less I want to let go. With the passage of time, this sinking cost is getting heavier and heavier, and it is too heavy to let go.
However, if you persist, you can't see any hope, and you can see it yourself, so you will feel tired if you persist. Also, if anything is not from the heart, but needs to be maintained by persistence, this process must be full of pain.
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When in love, if the parents of the other party strongly oppose it, the road of two people's feelings is doomed to be bumpy. Although there is a "Romeo and Juliet" effect in psychology, it is also called "forbidden fruit effect": when external forces interfere with the love relationship between two lovers, their feelings will be strengthened and their love relationship will be consolidated. However, although the relationship between the two people has stabilized, they have deeply realized the fatigue. Love seems to be no longer so pure, but to resist the opposition of one parent. When energy is used in the wrong place, love is much less sweet.
After marriage, as the marriage becomes more and more dull, such as touching the right hand with the left hand and quarreling over trifles, feelings are as thin as oxygen on the plateau, making people unable to breathe.
But at this time, there are often old and small, and the tied things are as heavy as a thousand pounds. I have to keep more and more disappointments in my heart and comfort myself constantly. Maybe as the other person gets older, the problems and shortcomings I hate will change.
Later, the children grew up and reached the critical period of learning. The point can only be that everything is for the children's study.
Later, children began to step into the society, and they would worry about their mate selection. They are afraid that divorce will give their children a single family when they are in love, so they try their best to suppress those desires.
When children get married and have children, they should be busy taking their grandchildren and dancing in the square dance. As for thinking about countless divorces, it doesn't make much sense.
However, in the process of insisting on getting along with someone who has long hated each other, God knows how difficult and tired that day was and how desperate I was to let go.
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Some women who can't stand the test of plain marriage and men who grope in different cleavage have embarked on the road of derailment.
Cheating, this kind of thing that everyone shouts, will be accused once it is discovered. It's really hard to let go, and it's too tiring to persist. I finally thought I had found the so-called true love outside marriage. How could I just let it go? Especially when you are suppressed by your partner, the more you suppress, the tighter you hold, the greater your resistance, and the hotter your feelings are. Although you are all tired, you still enjoy it and try to be with your lover.
In the face of resistance, cheaters and lovers can be described by a lyric: "The stronger the wind, the more my heart swings." In cheating, it is often the woman who suffers the most. After all, most cheating men have no intention of divorce, but women are different. She thinks she has met true love and is obsessed with being together for life. She doesn't want to share a man with another woman all her life. So she must be forced, forced badly, and malicious. Men are bored and want to run away. At this time, women are faced with letting go and being particularly reluctant, but insisting.
Feelings are really unpredictable.
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Today's topic: What is your emotional state? Can you share it?