"In your heart, flying freely, shining stars, wandering forever ..."
"I want to know that the fish is in your lotus pond, just to wait for the beautiful Bai Yueguang with you ..."
Phoenix Legend's songs once became the first choice of square dance music, and their bright rhythm and melody were deeply loved by everyone.
This has been working with the most successful male and female music groups in China for 18 years. After a long period of cooperation and getting along, everyone thought that Ling Hua and Ceng Yi were lovers, but they didn't expect to get married separately.
20 1 1 In March, Ling Hua and her boyfriend Xu Mingchao, who had been in love for 7 years, got married in their hometown in Inner Mongolia.
Why on earth did Ling Hua Ceng Yi get along with each other but didn't become lovers, and finally chose Xu Mingchao to spend his life together?
0 1, love at first sight, passionate pursuit
In 2004, Ling Hua and Ceng Yi formally formed Phoenix Legend to enter the music world. At that time, the two were still fledgling newcomers and often went to various places to perform.
At a concert, Ling Hua and Xu Mingchao formally met.
At that time, Xu Mingchao was a music editor and a concert host.
Ling Hua has just made her debut and is not as famous as she is today, so she sat quietly under the stage.
As the host, Xu Mingchao saw this beautiful girl at a glance.
Perhaps it was fate that Xu Mingchao fell in love with Ling Hua at first sight.
At that time, Phoenix Legend was just established. For the development of their careers, Ling Hua and Ceng Yi are inseparable every day. Many people doubt whether they are lovers, including Xu Mingchao.
In order to better understand their real relationship, Xu Mingchao intends to invite them to dinner, just to explore the bottom.
When he learned that they were just friends, he said to Ceng Yi when Ling Hua was away, "I'm going after Ling Hua. Do you think it is possible? "
Zeng Yi waved and said, "No way, Ling Hua won't like people like you."
At that time, Ling Hua's friends and staff thought that Xu Mingchao would not succeed and they could not be together.
Because Ling Hua had a bad first impression of Xu Mingchao, the three of them ate hot pot at that time. Ling Hua thinks Xu Mingchao's eating is so ugly that she doesn't like it very much.
Besides, Xu Mingchao was not Ling Hua's type at that time. She felt that her later partner must not be such a tall and clean man. In Ling Hua's mind, she felt that such a man was unreliable.
However, Xu Mingchao did not flinch because others were not optimistic, but began to pursue Ling Hua enthusiastically.
At that time, Ling Hua had just come to Beijing alone to develop his career, and the conditions were not very good. She is also lonely and insecure.
Xu Mingchao began to care about Ling Hua in every way, from career to life.
Ling Hua is a nervous and careless girl. Sometimes she always forgets things at work or on business trips. Every time, Xu Mingchao would help Ling Hua pack up.
Moreover, one is a singer and the other is a music editor. They have many elements in the same language. In the process of getting to know each other, they are getting closer and closer.
Xu Mingchao's friendship with Ling Hua is obvious to all. As a good friend of Ling Hua, Ceng Yi also intends to fix them up and often gives advice to Xu Mingchao. With the support of friends around, Xu Mingchao's pursuit of his wife went smoothly.
Gradually, Ling Hua was moved and attracted by such a reliable and steady man, which changed her original impression of Xu Mingchao, and the affection between them was slowly warming up.
In 2005, Ling Hua and Xu Mingchao officially started their love journey.
02. Long-distance running in love makes Jack better.
With the landing of love, my career has gradually begun to improve. June 5438+October 2005 10, Phoenix Legend successfully won the second place on the Avenue of Stars.
In 2006, a song "Above the Moon" made Ling Hua and Ceng Yi formally enter everyone's field of vision.
Many well-known songs, such as Free Flying, The Most Dazzling National Style and Moonlight on the Lotus Pond, have given the music scene a "musical style" belonging to Phoenix Legend.
With the development of their careers, Ling Hua and Zeng Yi are getting busier and busier, and sometimes they can't go home for months.
If others look at their girlfriends and other men so inseparable, they will be jealous and angry, but Xu Mingchao is just the opposite.
Instead of being angry, he was very supportive of Ling Hua's career, and there was more running-in and rehearsal between Ling Hua and Ceng Yi.
Ling Hua once said that Xu Mingchao is very generous among men and knows himself very well.
Ling Hua and Ceng Yi's efforts for many years and Xu Mingchao's difficulties can be seen from their eyes. It can also be said that he accompanied Phoenix Legend step by step.
As the closest person to Ling Hua, he naturally understood the importance of this profession in Ling Hua's heart, so support and understanding were the greatest help Xu Mingchao brought to Ling Hua.
Time flies, Ling Hua and Xu Mingchao have gone through a 7-year love run hand in hand. It's time to give each other a new answer sheet and identity.
2011March16th, they got married in Ling Hua's hometown, Inner Mongolia. After holding their children, the sweet and happy couple became loving couples living with them.
Before the wedding, Ling Hua had been preparing for the concert, busy with her career and worried about her family. During that time, Ling Hua's body was a little overwhelmed.
Xu Mingchao looked at his wife's hard work and said to her, "You don't have to worry about the wedding. I can prepare it myself. "
Under her husband's understanding, Ling Hua became the happiest bride.
Eight months later, Ceng Yi also entered the marriage hall with his girlfriend who had been in love for many years. Ling Hua and Xu Mingchao attended his wedding.
Although Ling Hua and Xu Mingchao have been together for many years, many people don't know the story between them.
Many fans were very surprised when they learned that Ling Hua and Ceng Yi had separated. Why didn't Ling Hua marry Ceng Yi?
In fact, their tacit cooperation at work does not mean the same in life. There are great differences in living habits between Ling Hua and Ceng Yi.
Moreover, the two have known each other for many years and have long regarded each other as brotherly friends. It is impossible to get together.
On the wedding day, Ling Hua made a family rule for Xu Mingchao and hung it on the wall at home to remind her husband at all times.
"The wife said is right, the wife at home with his wife, work hard when not. The wife has the right to modify the family rules, and the husband only needs to implement them. "
Although this family rule seems to be Ling Hua's "squeezing" of Xu Mingchao, between the lines is Xu Mingchao's love and tolerance for Ling Hua, which is their deep feelings and testimony for many years.
03, love as before, happiness.
After marriage, Ling Hua became a happy little woman, and Xu Mingchao took good care of her.
As a singer, Ling Hua's voice is her weapon. Xu Mingchao gives Ling Hua a glass of honey water every morning, and has been insisting on it for ten years.
Although this may be a small matter, it is not easy to live for ten years.
Whenever Ling Hua recalls, she will feel from the bottom of her heart that Xu Mingchao is really good to herself.
Because of work, Ling Hua often travels. Every time, Xu Mingchao helped her pack her bags, checked her papers and guided her health.
When she comes back from a business trip, Xu Mingchao will greet Ling Hua in advance and prepare for her in advance. As soon as I get home, Xu Mingchao always puts the food prepared for her on the table.
But there are not only sweetness and warmth in life, but also contradictions and quarrels sometimes.
Ling Hua and Xu Mingchao almost quarreled many times because of driving.
Whenever Xu Mingchao drives, Ling Hua always likes to sit in the co-pilot and nag him, turn off the high beam, turn on the turn signal and stay away from the car in front. ......
Sometimes Xu Mingchao felt bored and collapsed, but he never yelled at Ling Hua.
He said to Ling Hua, "For the safety of our marriage, don't divorce us because we drive. Let the driver drive in the future. "
And Xu Mingchao is also good at coaxing his wife. Sometimes when Ling Hua is angry, she will say that she broke up and divorced, but Xu Mingchao knows that this is her angry words.
So he said to Ling Hua, "I have been making honey water for you for many years. Now you make me a hundred cups and we'll get divorced. "
Ling Hua was amused by Xu Mingchao. Where do you remember anything about quarreling and getting angry?
20 13 Phoenix Legend was invited to perform in the variety show "Sing Together" of Beijing Satellite TV. Later, the host released a surprise video prepared by Xu Mingchao for Ling Hua in advance.
In the video, Xu Mingchao sang a song "old boys" to express her love for her wife.
Ling Hua was also moved by Xu Mingchao's singing. She said: "It is said that it is a blessing for thousands of years that two people can come together. I hope we can grow old together. "
The two have been loving each other since they got married, but the sweetness of their world is not as sweet as that of a family of three. Xu Mingchao wanted to have a baby, but it put a lot of pressure on Ling Hua's career.
Xu Mingchao said to Ling Hua, "I know you are ambitious, but think about it. Ten years later, when you two are singing on the stage, there are two children sitting under the stage. I think that is the happiest thing in life. " .
20 14 April, Ling Hua announced that she was pregnant. Three months later, Ling Hua gave birth to a daughter, and the sweet couple finally ushered in the most precious wealth in life.
Life is like a dish. From the moment it is served, it contains the ups and downs of a family. But no matter how hard and tired life is, a sweet love is always the best seasoning.
Ling Hua and Xu Mingchao's seven-year long-distance love race finally came to a happy ending. Now they have been married for 1 1 year, and they are still happy and sweet.
Maybe Ling Hua didn't think she would be with Xu Mingchao, but love is like this. No one can stop fate.
As Jacky Cheung sang in You Are the Most Precious: My dream will be more real only if you are beautiful in the future. I will learn to indulge in your love, and I will not shrink back.