In this world, how many people can live up to what they want? Once a woman gets married and has children, she can not get rid of the fate of the family, some men feel at home with children, do housework, simply too idle, just hate themselves not a woman, but I think, if the conditions allow it, the woman would rather go out to work, but also do not want to surround the family all day long, coupled with her husband's lack of understanding, will only make her feel that every day of life is suffering, which is why, so many women will get postpartum This is one of the main reasons why so many women get postpartum depression.
Everyone wants to go to a higher level, but there are also a lot of necessity in life, so people have to learn to find fun for themselves, to find sweetness from the bitter, otherwise you see only endless darkness, feel tired but also is just your own self-inflicted.
And I found that most of the women who have a "life of work" have such preferences, and I hope you don't have any of them!
01. like to worry about
Life's worries are one after another, some things we can not worry about do not think too much, all day long for the unknown things and worry, necessary? The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. There is an inertia in human thinking, and it is always customary to think badly about things that don't happen, and the more you think about it, the more scary it is, and then you scare yourself, and then you end up with nothing.
Please ask you this kind of nature, you do not tired who tired? Are you capable of saving the world? The military to block, water to cover the earth, will happen you can not hide, impossible things do not blindly speculate, so love worry, you must have a lot of gray hair, right.
02.nosy
All things in the world can be summarized in one sentence, "off my ass" and "off your ass", skilled use of these eight words, your life will be less trouble and unnecessary burden. Some people may say that this kind of person is not close to the heart, can pull a hand on the help, but China is a society of love, you have to owe others a favor for the sake of other people's favor?
The most afraid of those who are enthusiastic sister, others have what difficulties she has to take on the body, things to be done okay, in case you stirred up, behind the scenes may be how to damage you, so less nosy, as a spectator on the right, there is this time to dance square dance can not do it?
03. too diligent
Diligence is a virtue, but too diligent, is the culprit of your life of work, really is the kind of very stupid woman, married in order to show themselves to be a good wife, the home of anything by her hand, in order to let the in-laws husband to recognize their own.
But later, they were you raised more and more lazy, you want to let your husband to help you a favor, at least to make three times he reluctantly asked what you do, you are busy in the kitchen in full swing, he was lying on the couch to play the phone, the home is you a person? What has he ever done? There are degrees of diligence, or you'll just get more and more tired.
I would like to advise women a, marriage is not the whole of your life, there are a lot of beauty in this world waiting for you to appreciate, do not let the children housework husband stumbled on your footsteps, when you are old, can not walk the road, looking back on their own life, in addition to the home on what is not there, it is really sad, really, the woman's mind do not be too slavish, you are the wife of her married into the door, not his family! Nanny, the family is the two of you, why should he do nothing, just enjoy your payment at ease?
The above three characteristics, there is a change, not to add encouragement, I hope you have, is the way you want.