The best way to love is to meet the best you at the best time. Two people "hold your hand and grow old with your son" and have a happy marriage.
However, there are always some regrets in love, just as the poem says, "I was born when you gave birth to me, and I was old when you gave birth to me." Two lovers meet at an inappropriate time, some choose to let go, others choose to be together, and different choices have made different lives.
The 59-year-old aunt married a 35-year-old boy. She said frankly: it is normal for him to want my property, and I am willing!
Ms. Jiang has been married to her ex-husband for more than 20 years. They often quarrel over various trifles. The relationship between husband and wife is very bad. Ms. Jiang has long had the idea of divorce. In order to give her son a good growing environment, she will endure it again.
At the age of 49, she found out that her ex-husband was having an affair with a woman and filed for divorce in a rage. When she divorced, she got a large fortune. She used the money to open a clothing store in partnership with some friends, and she made a lot of money these years.
After retirement, her life is better. She doesn't worry about food and clothing, and she has enough money to spend. She often plays with a group of sisters. They go shopping, dance in square dance, sing in KTV and travel all over the country. How can she be happy?
During this period, many people introduced her to others. Those men are either not very good-looking or pretend to be poor in front of her. She despises all of them. She feels that if she doesn't find the right man, she would rather stay single.
20 19 Ms. Jiang is 59 years old. That year, a bad thing happened to Sister Sun. Sister Sun's wife went to the toilet in the middle of the night, and he suddenly collapsed in the toilet. If Sister Sun hadn't found out in time, the consequences would have been unimaginable.
Sister Sun told everyone about it, and everyone turned their attention to Ms. Jiang. At this time, Ms. Jiang deeply felt the necessity and urgency of finding a wife.
During that time, she had frequent blind dates. Most of those blind dates are over 60 years old and in poor health. Ms. Jiang doesn't want to be a nanny after marriage. She picked and picked and didn't meet the right one.
Ms. Jiang usually likes to buy lottery tickets. She often patronizes the lottery betting station at the gate of the community. The lottery seller is a 35-year-old boy. His surname is Song, and he is from the countryside. His family is poor. He went to work in the city. He got a job selling lottery tickets at a lottery betting station.
Mr. Song is warm and generous, always smiling. He has a sweet mouth and is polite to everyone. Everyone likes him very much. Every time I meet Ms. Jiang, he will be called "Sister Jiang, Sister Jiang", and Ms. Jiang has a good impression on him.
That day, Mr. Song took the initiative to confess to Ms. Jiang. He said that he liked Ms. Jiang for a long time and he wanted to have a normal relationship with Ms. Jiang.
Ms. Jiang thinks he is joking. After all, the gap between them is too big, but Ms. Jiang is a little touched, because Mr. Song is very handsome, and besides, he is not married. She has nothing to lose by marrying such a young man. Driven by this idea, they began to try to communicate.
Mr. Song is considerate. He cooks all kinds of delicious snacks for Ms. Jiang every day. He also walked and went shopping with Ms. Jiang, trying to make her happy. With Mr. Song, Ms. Jiang has a long-lost sense of happiness. She felt suddenly young 10 years old.
After half a year, their relationship became more and more stable. Although many people disapprove of their being together, Ms. Jiang thinks that Mr. Song is a good marriage partner, and she has the idea of marrying Mr. Song.
Perhaps in order to block others' mouths, or perhaps to express his sincerity to Ms. Jiang, Mr. Song specially notarized the property before getting married. He said to Ms. Jiang, "I love you, and it doesn't matter if you have money or not." I am very comfortable with you and I want to stay with you all the time! "
Ms. Jiang was deeply moved and married Mr. Song without hesitation.
After the marriage, Mr. Song moved to Ms. Jiang's house. He volunteered to do all the housework. He washes her feet, rubs her back and massages her. He takes good care of Ms. Jiang. Under his love, Ms. Jiang is getting younger and younger.
Usually, Mr. Song sells lottery tickets as usual. Ms. Jiang goes shopping and plays mahjong with her sisters during the day. In the evening, the couple got tired of each other. They are inseparable, sweet and very happy.
At first, the neighbors were not optimistic about their marriage, and some even asserted that they would divorce sooner or later. Seeing their happy and sweet appearance, everyone gradually accepted this special couple.
Ms. Jiang's brother never recognized Mr. Song. He often reminds Ms. Jiang: "He married you for a purpose. Although he is very kind to you now, you will become an old woman in 10 years. Will he still be with you then? " Even if he accompanies you to your old age, he is greedy for your property and house! "
Ms. Jiang is very open-minded on this issue. She said, "His willingness to stay with me shows that he really loves me, and it is normal for him to want my money. We are husband and wife. If he can always accompany me, I will give him all my property, even if he doesn't want it! "
Now that Ms. Jiang and Mr. Song have been married for two years, they have hardly quarreled or quarreled, and their feelings are as good as ever, which is really commendable.
To be fair, there is a huge difference between Ms. Jiang and Mr. Song. Ms. Jiang is a city resident. She is divorced and her son is about the same age as Mr. Song. Mr. Song is from the countryside. He is so poor that his income can hardly support himself. Such two people can't be together anyway. The reality is that they are not only married, but also happy.
Many people find it intriguing, but the reason is simple. They look down on material things, and they value feelings more. Moreover, they share the same interests and views. They always have endless topics together. They have overcome the age gap. Life is not empty and boring, but full of freshness and fulfillment, which is the key to their long-term happiness.
Some people say that Ms. Jiang coveted Mr. Song's youth and vitality, and Mr. Song coveted Ms. Jiang's superior life. This statement is not unreasonable. Everyone has selfishness, and Ms. Jiang and Mr. Song are no exception. Apart from their deep affection for each other, both of them want to get some benefits from each other. It is understandable that they each take what they need and keep each other warm.
In reality, many "young lovers" finally choose to give up because of various obstacles. Ms. Jiang and Mr. Song are not. They break through the secular vision and resist external pressure. They fell in love and got married. Their courage and courage are very valuable.
More importantly, they have clear plans and arrangements for the future. They enjoy the present life and cherish every day together. They are kind to life, to each other and to everything around them. Their attitude towards life is admirable.
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