I would choose to grow old alone. Along with the increasing age, unmarried people also tend to fall into anxiety, true love has not yet appeared, and even the possibility of appearing is still unknown, according to the probability of speculation, there is a real possibility of dying alone. Everyone will be anxious, most people around the slowest are starting to talk about marriage. When meeting with unmarried or even single friends, it always seems that there is a dark cloud hanging over everyone's head. This dark cloud is a kind of group anxiety, which may condense into a rain of tears and flow from everyone's eyes at any time. Some people can't wait to face the age hurdle, swearing that they will take the marriage within a year, and vowing that they will not rest until their ambition is fulfilled.
I have a friend who is like this, along with a long run of love ended badly, in the top of the multi-dimensional pressure, finally in the dating army to kill a bloody road, met a "can be married" man. Drinking celebratory wine, she said with a bitter face, her boyfriend is nothing more than a partner in life, all conditions are very general, can not talk about liking is just not hate, the two can not be anything in-depth exchanges on the topic, just get along with each other down to feel very honest, the age of not small, as mutual help to solve the problem it. The fact is that the company's products and services have been widely recognized by the public as being of high quality.
In fact, I am very confused about this, and even have a kind of sadness. We do our best to get better, just to make do for the rest of our lives? Your standard for yourself has never been to settle for less, and your requirements for life have never been to make do, but in front of the big event of marriage, you bowed your head. You'll be able to choose a person you don't love to join hands with for the rest of your life, and you'll be able to dream about it in the middle of the night. Although I don't think you work so hard just to find a better husband, but so good you don't deserve a better person, a better life?
You can lie to yourself about your true needs, you can repress them, you can look forward to the future, but can you hold on to that for the rest of your life? In my opinion, a marriage that can't communicate can only lead to self-defeating frustration. Apart from the trivial matters of wood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea, if there is no spiritual communication at the same frequency, it is nothing more than a lifelong legitimacy partner or benefit **** same body. Our life, meet love, meet sex are not rare, rare is to meet understanding. Your aesthetic interests or your thinking logic, if he can not understand, even if the day and night together, will feel lonely.