Happiness is doing what you're supposed to do. The things one wants to do are often the things one should do. By doing these things well, often a person can find great fulfillment.
Happiness is doing what one can do. The doing of these things well can enrich one's confidence little by little.
Even people who have nothing can be happy, why can't we?
It is not easy to appreciate happiness when there are too many hang-ups. It can be said that it is too many ties that close our eyes to being able to discover joy.
Happiness is not only self-directed, but can also infect the environment and spread to others. Happy people are more socially acceptable and more likely to build harmonious relationships.
Many people mistakenly believe that celebrities have no worries. Or that successful people are happier.
In fact, happiness has nothing to do with money, nothing to do with success. That only depends on a healthy and upwardly mobile heart. Optimism, motivation, tolerance.
Human happiness is the affirmation of oneself from time to time. This can be done by increasing the likelihood of task completion through the proper breakdown of goals, thus increasing the recognition of oneself. The limit of this direction is complete happiness.
It is important to note that in real life this limit does not exist due to all the risky uncontrollable factors. Although 100% happiness does not exist in the world, we can be happier, and gain more happiness by reducing risk through better information, or optimizing our own behavior. That's what we're trying to do.
There is a saying that "the capable man works hard and the wise man is sad", which is because the wise man can see a lot of things that other people can not see, and some of them are even a huge disaster under the cloak of harmony, and his efforts, but because of other people's short-sightedness, he can not be recognized by other people or help. His inability to be happy is an inability to intermingle with society, or sometimes to watch things progress toward destruction.
However, I would like to mention another category of wise men. While they also have eyes that see the world differently than normal, they are more respectful of other people's choices. They tend to believe in the way of cause and effect, believing that intention is fate, that all causes have corresponding effects, and that all effects are bound to have an incoming cause. Although they also warn the people, they do not force others to agree with them. In fact, they are often in a higher realm: they have broken through the relationship between creation and destruction according to the law of reciprocal generation of resources. One life is one death, one gain is another loss, one creation is another destruction. They no longer grieve over life, death, gain and loss, and therefore emphasize more on grasping the present moment and pursuing the harmony of the present.
Many people think that indulgence is happy, can indulgence really be happy? That is just a short time to forget about the emptiness and boredom. After the indulgence, the person's emptiness and loss will often be heavier. Because he did not really solve the actual problem