Life is a practice, short is the journey, long is the life.
Roadside view
First of all I would like to ask,
Are you a geek girl or a geek guy?
What do you do when you're on vacation?
Anyway, I am 80% stay at home.
On the ultimate question of "two points, one line", I've been thinking about it a lot, but I've only come up with a vague answer. Since graduation, it seems that the only friends left around are the ones at work, so life has drastically changed from sleeping, going to class, shopping, scenic spots, KTV, etc., to a two-point-one-line between the company and home; going to work, getting off work, eating and sleeping; and the next day is still a repeat of the same.
So, gradually found themselves more and more home, more and more reluctant to go out, that work is too tired, vacation should be a good rest, if not the need to buy essentials, is not going to step out of the door hall step; even if you stay at home, the bed accounted for two-thirds of the time. This is the first time I've ever seen a person with a disability who has been in a disability for a long time.
One day, there was a voice in my heart that said, "Are you going to live this monotonous life for the rest of your life?
Heart violently contracted, strongly expressed his resistance.
Today's state
They are in the training industry, and their vacations are not fixed, but they are just one or two days of vacation. Every time, I always outline various vacation plans in my mind - a short two-day trip, doing crafts or getting together with friends for dinner. But then, you realize that a rare nap is all it takes to derail your plans. You wake up, it's noon, you laze around, and the day is gone. When you realize that one day has passed, you get busy cleaning the house, doing laundry and cooking, and another day passes. So I slap myself and swear to the next vacation to make it meaningful and not to waste it. The truth is that cows can't change their ways, dogs can't change their ways, and the next time it's still a repeat. The world is not a place where you can't change your nature.
If you're not sure what you're looking for, you're going to have to take a hit and get hurt.
Doing food is also good
A chance encounter with high school classmates, has been the ugly duckling really turned into a white swan, speech and demeanor is all elegant, talked about the name of the country, can only be viewed from afar; so that I am the same nest of ugly duckling ashamed of themselves. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it again.
So I decided to set a small goal for myself, starting with going out and looking around.
Why would you want to "go out and see" yourself?
Nowadays, we are so busy with our work that when we get a chance to take a vacation, we just stay in bed for the rest of the day. I remember reading an article a long time ago that said something to the effect that "the way the gods rest is to stay busy. They never waste their time on boring sleep; working out, reading books, taking classes, traveling, cooking food, and raising flowers are their way of resting.
I think these are the ways in which my small goals are realized.
Getting out and seeing the world doesn't really need to be on a fixed schedule.
I think I can go to the neighborhood square to see the ladies dancing and feel the passion of life; I can lie on the railing to see the children laughing and playing in the play area, sighing for the lost childhood; I can stand at the bus stop and experience the haste of the line; I can walk in the woods where the sound of insects and birds is incessant and listen to the restlessness of life, and I can also talk to the old people who are enjoying the coolness and the traces of the past years.
When I go out for a walk, I will find many new things.
Body and soul have to have one on the road.
Well, I'm going to read a book
When we are physically tired, we can try a journey of the soul.
Choose a good book, it can be Keigo Higashino's deduction novel; it can be Dabing's travel memories; it can be Zhang Xiaoxian's love transcripts; it can be Gu Man's romance novels; and it can be Hao Jingfang's science fiction stories. Here you can experience a different life - that of the purest love, the stone god of the best trickery; the woman who plays with sharks, the little kidney bean; the bread tree of bread or love; Xiao Nai of the university owes me a big god; the Beijing Folding that sprinkles poetic sunshine to the sci-fi genre. All of this is a different experience, and every time I read a story, I seem to be experiencing a different life; when I read it, I can still savor the silence for a long time.
And maybe a craft assignment.
Doing crafts is not bad
From a young age, like crafts, as a child is to like to watch a straw in the hands of a grasshopper, a piece of bamboo leaves transformed into a lime green boat, a piece of bamboo was enchanted, turned into a bamboo basket. After a long time, also forgot the fun he brought, the novelty. Why don't you get back to your old ways? Waste reuse, origami, paper cutting, stone painting, non-woven fabrics, compilation are all good choices.
I'm going to raise myself to be a woman of texture.
Marbling? Hmmm, that doesn't sound too bad.
The university is right next to my neighborhood, so I'll go for a run on the huge playground; I'll take out my pedometer and crystallize my pace; I'll go home, turn on my Jung Doyan, and follow the videos to enjoy the sweaty feeling. Or, pedal a bicycle, go to the countryside to walk, see the wildflowers, smell the fresh air.
How about tidying up the house?
Beautiful flowers
Buy some cotton and linen products, delicate tableware, small fresh wall stickers, a table with flowers, and crisp wind chimes; will these make my room look a little more textured.
These are just to make my life look more than just a line between two points, there are poems and fields far away.
Big Ice said, "Any kind of long-term single-mode life is a crime against oneself".
I don't want my whole life to be a two-point-one-line life like work and home, a monotonous and boring life will make me even more uninteresting and monotonous, I want to be a woman with texture and interesting.
"May you can both nine to five, but also able to wander the world."