There is a little difference between my mother and Fan Meisheng. Many times, my mother took my father and began to make self-sacrifice spontaneously and consciously. My grandmother has three children, my mother is the eldest and the other two are sons. The old man dotes on his little son. The economic condition is that grandma and uncle are better. They are all civil servants, and their parents are employees of state-owned enterprises, struggling to live in the tide of layoffs.
Say a few things. My little brother's daughter was brought up by my parents and grandmother. Grandma pays tuition and living expenses, and parents are responsible for school and interest class transfers, laundry and cooking, and tutoring. My little cousin learned to play the electronic piano. She played the piano while I was listening. I want to learn, too, but my mother won't let me. It's no use talking about learning. She asked me to go to the square dance and said it was a musical activity anyway. My father said that my mother was a little maid in the family. But there is no way, he can only help her. Later, my brother gambled, misappropriated public funds, borrowed usury, lost his job, and lost two houses at home. One of them is my grandmother's welfare room for retired cadres. The house has been returned, but the usury has not been returned. Grandma cried and asked my parents for help, and then my parents helped pay off the usury. There was no money at home, so I borrowed it from my father's brothers.
After my little cousin committed suicide, my little brother finally gave up gambling. Relying on grandma's capital, contracting fish ponds and orchards has gradually become popular. But refused to pay back my parents' money and the money my parents borrowed. My father asked my grandmother why, and then my grandmother said that my brother had no money and couldn't afford it. He has just bought a car and has to save money to buy a house. Ps: We never had a car at home. The house is a dormitory for employees of state-owned enterprises and has no property rights. Although the little brother has no room, he has always lived in his grandmother's room and will be his in the future. Then my dad exploded. After several years' delay, I finally began to pay back the money slowly, and I haven't finished yet.
From then on, I made up my mind to cut with this family. This relationship should not continue to my generation.
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