As we grow older, we grow more than just the body itself. More importantly, it is the growth of the heart and the growth of talent. Only a positive heart and the spirit of continuous improvement, can make us like a fish against the current upward, rather than being washed down by the current to follow the flow of mud and sand.
I've been studying interpretation lately, and there are white-collar workers and high school students in this classroom, and one of them has caught my attention as a girl who looks like a student and should be 28 or 29. One day, she came to the class with a guitar in her arms. And she chatted with her to know her, after learning English will also go to the guitar class, she said because she loves to sing so want to learn the guitar so that you can play while singing, she said in the eyes of the flashing light, and this girl also in the classroom to meet a very chatty boy, not only to improve their own harvest also gained a friendship and even a boyfriend.
There is also a big sister, bank work, and I chat always complain about her boss, however, her boss is also in the same classroom with us, talking about the reasons for the marriage staggered me, just graduated from graduate school landlord prices, think there is no place to live, but also coincided with someone to introduce her to a man, although the specialist graduates, but older than she is five years old, there is a house, so she agreed to go out with and then cohabitate for fear of The reputation is not good to listen to it is logical to get married. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on your own, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on your own. If you want to solve all the problems in your life, just get married and marry someone." This is also her life lessons and her heartfelt words, perhaps because of not familiar, so the words are more direct, but also more unobtrusive it. I was surrounded by classmates who claimed to have bonded because of love, and how many people in life can admit their hearts so frankly?
But is marrying someone really the magic bullet and cure for all the problems in life? I don't think so. If so, then why are there so many cases of divorce? If there really is no love, then how can there be compromise, humility and sacrifice in a marriage? I know of a middle-aged man in a working relationship who got divorced after his mistress interfered, and the house and car were his own, only the children were given to his wife, who left the house. The reason should also be the car and the house are their own before they have, so there is no emotion, the woman did not *** with the struggle to fund the purchase, so there is no talk of sharing to the woman.
And I always think that no matter whether it is a man or a woman, only to let themselves have been in the process of upward mobility, to become better people, the pursuit of a better life and material conditions, not only to give each other a better partner, but also can not be due to the lack of material conditions and aggrieved by their own choices, it is difficult to imagine that there is no love for marriage, relying on what to maintain, so the life of a short time to love my love, choose my choice. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure what I'm going to do.
I think the people who go to study, at least are willing to rely on efforts to change the status quo, some people will only complain, and some people to complain about the time and energy to achieve their own.
2 A person's most beautiful gesture is not to give up exploring and trying
Life has unlimited possibilities, and we are in a lot of opportunities and challenges co-exist in the times, you are willing to try new things to challenge themselves, or a stagnant only want to hide in their own safe area of the people are determined by your decision.
I did a test in a book called "Talk to Anyone", I am the kind of person who needs to participate in activities occasionally, and occasionally need to be alone, so that you can get the sustenance of life, and there are two other kinds of people who need to always participate in activities, and socialize with people to get energy, and one kind of people who need to be alone.
There are so many interesting things in life, don't you want to try them out, there are so many courses out there, don't you want to experience learning them, find something you like and are good at and stick with it? I like to try a lot of things, learned to do bow hairpin, baking pastry, found that there is not much talent. I learned flower arrangement and found it was not as hard as I thought. I've drawn colored pencil drawings, studied Chinese painting, and found that colored pencil is better to handle, and the key is to reduce stress and relaxation.
When I was a child learning to dance, early in the year by chance on the experience class, and found something I can put light on, not only like, but also relatively good at it, so it is very able to grow self-confidence, but also about a lot of friends, but some are too far away from the class, some feel that as a child did not learn for fear of shame, and some are simply no men, do not go. But I have an activity I know a very good at running a marathon friend came, although we have known each other for a short time, but she is also a simple and kind positive and optimistic girl, and also shared with me a lot of life lessons, and I also particularly agree. Sometimes we do a lot of things don't start to care too much about the results, care about making money or not, just go and try to pay, when you pay to a certain extent, those money, contacts, everything you want will come with, and at the beginning of the time on the silent plow to pay it.
And I think the dance class gave me a little inspiration is that the dance practice is also like life, some people will put the pressure of the hard leg on the face, from the mirror to see the expression of hideous, and some people no matter what kind of pain experienced, but on the surface is elegant and comfortable, cloudy and light, so that I thought of an analogy, like a swan in the lake, although on the surface seems to be elegant, but underwater feet constantly fluttering. So may we all be able to smile still in this journey of life, no matter what we go through.
3 A person's most beautiful gesture is to find their own really like things, and want to work hard for the determination
Like I used to think that you can participate in more, try to be good, in addition to work also like all kinds of activities, recording radio, reading books, dancing, painting, as a part-time contributor, wedding translation a bunch of hobbies. But after a friend's words, woke me up, he said: "a person or in a field to do to specialize in, rather than a little bit of everything, nothing is proficient, so I synthesize their own considerations, and found that I still like the English, or want to make a breakthrough in the field, there is nothing wrong with learning more, so now in the study of interpreting. "
Although I now spend part of my weekends in class and don't have as much time as I used to to try new things, and despite missing out on many invitations from friends who asked me to see shows, my heart is satisfied every day, and it's satisfying to know that I'm always in an upward posture. But it was also trying that taught me what I really couldn't let go of for myself, like dancing, like English. You don't know what you really like if you don't try. Life can't be all pleasure, all travel, play, but also have a favorite cause and be willing to work hard for it, don't ask for results, just ask for cultivation.
Finally, I have always felt that the most beautiful gesture of life is to seize all the opportunities in life to improve themselves, and on the way to improve themselves will meet more like-minded people, at least we have *** with the same hobbies and interests, to keep the core circle of friends, and more to know different people, interesting people may be from each other in the exchange of ideas, the spark of the collision, and every person met is a treasure of life, there are worthy of us. Every person we meet is a treasure of life and has something to learn from us. I now y feel that when you become better, around the people you meet, things will also be more beautiful, will be surrounded by strong positive energy and really support the people who appreciate you, the key is when you are busy, there is no time to get old, will not be particularly sensitive, will not be because of other people's words to affect their moods. Recently, I read a book that mentioned the 34 gold coins time management method. If you look at every half hour of your day, except for the time you spend sleeping, as a gold coin, how you spend this gold coin and what you do with this time will really have an impact on you. Use these gold coins to work out, study, and make friends, and you'll become excellent and radiate from the inside out.
Finally, may we all face life with a beautiful, confident and upwardly mobile demeanor.