People first old or heart first old, the state of life is very key
Neighboring a grandfather, more than 60 years of age, but a look of old age, every day in front of the children to yell: oops, the old and what can not be done, every day is not here pain is there pain.
Children chat with him, looking back: hard to bring you up, it is not easy, think of the past?
The children said to him: these we know, you have said 800 times. You should go out and talk to your friends more often. Don't keep yourself cooped up at home all day thinking about this, go out for a walk every day, and I'll take you to the hospital if you're not feeling well.
But what the neighbors love to do every day is to sit in front of the house and look back at the past and tell the children to be filial to him and take care of him when he gets old.
Naturally, the children will be able to take care of him, but if they say the same thing more often, they will be able to say the same thing, and the children will not want to hear it.
This is the first time I've ever seen a person who has been in the same boat as me, and I'm not sure if I've ever been in the same boat as you.
Compared to the neighbor's oldest single boring old age, a relative's approach is very worthy of reference, he himself is not at all convinced that the old man's negativity and pessimism, but instead, like young people, know how to please themselves, so that they can live a happy life.
Seeing that everyone uses a smartphone, a few years ago, he also asked his children to buy one for him, and had them teach him about video, reading the news online, and searching for problems on Baidu, among other things.
The square near his home, every night people are very happy in the square dance, relatives feel very comfortable to go dancing every day, so he joined the square dance team, met a group of sisters, but also often together about afternoon tea and chat.
These two years, the relatives also fell in love with travel, whether it is around or a little farther away from home, as long as the timing is right, will from time to time and the old companion to go out together, to see the outside world, contact with nature to feel the life.
The children are hundreds of kilometers away from home, the relatives do not feel that the children are not filial, the children occasionally come back, the old couple is also very happy to open up to open up that, to do a table of good food.
When the children go back, although not reluctant, but will soon return to their normal life, the old couple of their own days of living color. That's why we often see relatives with happy smiles on their faces, living a contented and satisfying life.
Why is there such a big gap between people in old age?
Everyone will grow old, but the state of life in old age will be different.
And this state of life is determined by a number of factors, such as the family situation, personality, exposure to personnel, their own state of mind and so on.
Su Daqiang's old age in the TV series "It's All Good" is a perfect illustration of what it means to be a father. I'm not sure if I'm a father. , who can obviously live well on his own, but has to cry and mess up his children.
Then look at the "Parents Love" in those people in old age, every day cooking, with grandchildren, to participate in community activities dancing, the whim of the heart, but also to return to once lived in the place to see, sick, we help each other to take care of each other.
A group of elderly people live not far away from each other can be accompanied by each other, but also have a care, although most of the children are living outside, but there is a in the side of the life of an additional dependence.
People will eventually be old, frankly face the fact that they are old, more important than anything else.
As long as you can settle well in your old age, as long as you live in the present, as far as possible to please yourself, take care of yourself, make yourself happy, to do what you want to do, then no matter who's old age, will not be too bad.
The old saying goes: the phase is born from the heart.
Many times, how you look at the world, the world is what it looks like, how you look at life, life is what it looks like. Similarly, how you look at your old age, your old age is what it looks like.
Dou Wentao once said on the program: In fact, I think, now more of this old mood is pervasive, not physical. Let's say what does old after 80 mean? It means kind of not wanting to do it anymore.
Yes, a person's real old age actually starts from the feeling inside, when you start to feel that you don't have the energy to do anything, it means that your heart is starting to get old.
It's not easy to live your life, so why not make your old age a little more comfortable?
An old man's heart is not old, is the direction of every old man should strive for, I hope we can all have a full, happy old age.
People old heart is not old 10 phenomena, in more than 6, that you are not old
Life is never too late to start, the more a person lives the younger and younger, people old heart is not old 15 phenomena, come to see how many of you, very accurate!
1, like lively, like and friends, family together.
2, love to chat, like to talk to others, have the desire to communicate and listen.
3, willing to try what young people like, such as smart phones, such as playing WeChat.
5, stay at home for a long time, sometimes have the urge to go out to play.
6, insist on walking, every day to go out for a walk, go to practice Tai Chi or go to play chess, a day do not walk all feel uncomfortable.
7, began to spend money, like to buy their own once could not buy things, know live in the moment, know how to please yourself.
8, began to look down on a lot of things, become open-minded, no longer care about so many things, and no longer go to fight with others.
9, cherish their own bodies, annual physical examination on time.
10, like to stay with the children, enjoy the fun of bringing grandchildren, cherish the time with the family.