First, use advantages to attract partners. If you want to win the favor of others, you often have to show your own advantages, because two people don't know each other or just ordinary friends, and don't know what the other party is and what the other party has. They want to really win the favor of the person they like, show their advantages to each other, and let him have the desire and impulse to know himself. A person with advantages can attract others' attention. A person who has no merits is not interested in knowing.
Second, express yourself actively. If you want to get love and affection, it is more important to actively express that you have many boys, because you don't like to get along with girls since you were a child. The influence of traditional educational environment leads many boys to feel very nervous and shy when they get along with the opposite sex, and they don't know how to get along. Only when you know how to express yourself positively and confidently and have a reasonable dialogue with the other party can you let the other party know what kind of person you are and walk into your heart.
Third, pursue boldly. We should learn from Wang Feng and have a spirit of bold pursuit. When you meet someone you like, don't always wait, and don't always look back and think that the other person won't like you, and excuse yourself for various reasons. In the end, it is possible that the other person likes himself best, but just make sure that there is an active excuse missing. Dare to pursue the person you like, even if the other person refuses, then you have no regrets. Life is about trying more.