The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

Look at the video, send WeChat or call your husband, call and chat with your children's parents or friends and relatives, or read a book, or go to the square dance, get together with the hometowns, talk about your heart. It's boring to go out alone, but don't mess around with the sexes, or you'll be in deep shit sometimes, and you'll be in trouble. If you can, also ask your husband to accompany the side, working together.