1. A restless mother cannot raise a relaxed and happy child. Writer Zhou Zeng said: Parents' anxiety is the heaviest burden for children. If the mother is too nervous about her child's performance, it will not only shield her love for her child, but also undermine her growth motivation.
A father who doesn't participate can't raise a confident and firm child.
Many families around me can also find that almost all fathers love children and know the importance of education, but their participation in daily parenting is low and their contribution is small. I am used to leaving the power of education to my mother and not participating myself.
3. Conditions for children to grow up happily:
Mother is in a good mood, and a calm, warm and comfortable family atmosphere can make children grow up freely. The mother's mood determines the child's mood and affects the future of the child. Dad's enthusiastic participation symbolizes order and discipline. The longer he spends with his children, the easier it is to cultivate their positive attitude and higher happiness.
The most important thing is that husband and wife love each other, and the father shares it for the mother.
A survey asked children of different ages from kindergarten to college about the definition of a happy family, and the first one was: the love of parents.
The most important thing is the love between husband and wife, which is shared by mom and dad.
After having children, parents' love is particularly obvious in taking care of children. It is the secret of family happiness at this stage that both husband and wife devote their love and time to taking care of children, especially that the father actively shares the responsibility of taking care of children.
Dad is willing to participate in family affairs and give his mother enough support, so her mother will naturally be less anxious. Only when the mother is calm and the father is positive and enthusiastic can the child be steady and confident in every new stage of life!