It has been said that a husband and wife are inseparable for a hundred days, not to mention the elderly who have been with them for most of their lives. Although we all know that old age and death is a natural law, but really face the parting, or inevitably will be sad. On the question of what is the inner world of the elderly who have lost their partners, I think it is more desolate and lonely! After the old partner is gone, usually fall into endless remorse and self-blame, hope that the loss is their own, so that the old partner to live well. Incredibly nostalgic for the time spent together **** place, more remember the old partner's good.
Recently has been to the headlines to see a net name of sunshine town of the man, because of the premature death of his lover, so that he more than a year, has not been able to himself. He commutes to work every day, on time, updated content, talking to himself, nostalgic and his wife's previous life of the bits and pieces, so that people read a particularly touched and particularly difficult. That is a man with true love and true feelings. So good so good, but on him prematurely lost the opportunity to hold hands with white head, let a person especially regret and heartache.
When my grandfather left, my grandmother's hair turned white all of a sudden, from a particularly talkative person, into a day without words, not smiling, uncles were frightened, but busy at work, there is no time to accompany her, want to pick up my grandmother to go to their city, but because of the difference between the north and the south, my grandmother did not agree. After discussion, finally decided to hire a person to accompany the grandmother, but that did not help ah, because after all, is able to take care of the living, but spiritual communication is not ah, although the sister is also a lot of efforts, but the grandmother's character, is not to a stranger to reveal the heart. The sister took care of it for a few months, and then the grandmother let her go back, saying that she was doing her own thing slowly, firstly, to pass the time, and secondly, to exercise. Hey, we all couldn't help her, so we let her be. Several of us later generations are mostly working outside. I'm the only one in the neighborhood. Because I work during the day, I go over every day at night to talk with her, cook dinner for her, take a bath, wash clothes and bed sheets. I also listened to her telling stories about her grandfather and his past. Slowly, the grandmother day by day better, take the initiative to talk more time, longer. Sometimes, I go back to grandma after work, she has been the meal is ready, so that companionship is very important, grandma spent a year to slowly come out.
Old companion old companion, old companion, old companion are not, that is the most painful thing, if, you also have a loved one in the family went to the spouse, or as much as possible to take the time to accompany, so that he or she try to come out earlier. Especially now, there are square dances and other activities. Men and women can be more sports sports, where the companion is also quite a lot, to pass the time, the mood is good, there will be less sad.