Wish to win the heart of one person and stay together forever

Zhuo Wenjun is willing to win the heart of one person and never leave each other

As white as the snow on the mountain, as bright as the moon among the clouds.

I heard that you had two opinions, so I came to resolve it.

Today’s drinking party will be tomorrow’s ditch.

The ducks are dancing on the ditch, and the ditch water flows east and west.

Desolate and miserable, there is no need to cry when getting married.

I wish to have the person of my heart and stay together forever.

Why are the bamboo poles curling up, and the fish tails are so sticky!

A man cares about his spirit, why use money and a knife!

Translation and Notes

Love should be as pure as the snow on the mountain and as bright as the moon among the clouds. I heard that you have second thoughts, so I came to break up with you. Today is like the last reunion, and we will part ways in Goutou tomorrow. I moved my steps slowly along the ditch. My past life was like water flowing eastward, gone forever. When I left home with you, I didn't cry miserably like other girls. I thought that if I married a sweetheart who was affectionate and devoted, I would be able to love each other till old age and be happy forever. The love between a man and a woman is as light and long as a fishing rod, and the fish is as lively and cute. Men should put affection first. The loss of sincere love cannot be compensated by any money or treasure.

1. 蹞耀xi di: The appearance of walking slowly, walking in small steps. Xu Qiunong, Qing Dynasty, "Hearing Strange Words, Shaping Gods and Suppressing Ghosts": At the third or fourth watch, a girl suddenly walked out of the northwest corner, walked up to the two of them, and seemed to bow down.

2. 簁簁shāi shāi: like a leaping fish.

Appreciation

The source of "Wish to Win the Heart of One Person" is "Baitou Yin" by Zhuo Wenjun, a poet of the Han Dynasty.

This poem is definitely a folk song. It is written in a woman's voice as she expresses her decisive words after seeing her abandoned husband. The first two sentences are a starting point for a poem, saying that the love between a man and a woman should be pure and spotless, like the white snow on the mountains; it should be bright and eternal, like the bright moon in the clouds. This is not only a beautiful symbol of human relationships in general, but also a testament to the original vows made by the heroine and her husband. Just as Wang Yaoqu, a native of the Qing Dynasty, said: As pure as snow, as bright as the moon, it is a metaphor for the brightness of the oaths made in the past. But there are also interpretations that the snow on the mountain and the moon in the clouds are easy to disappear and obscure, compared with people with two minds.

The four desolate sentences are suddenly interrupted, saying that when a woman gets married, she always cries sadly and sorrowfully. In fact, this is unnecessary; as long as she marries a man who is devoted to her, they can grow old together. , never separate, even if we are very happy. The implication is that being abandoned today is the most miserable and sad thing. This is a feeling that a newly married woman cannot understand. The author talks about others in general but also implies himself. His words are graceful but frustrated. He is on the verge of decision-making but still hopes that the man will change. His feelings are painful but gentle.

The last four sentences use two metaphors to illustrate that love should be based on the congeniality of both parties. If the relationship relies on money, it will not last long, which points out the reason for the sudden two-mindedness in the previous article. Bamboo pole refers to a fishing rod; Niao Niao refers to the soft, long and gently swinging appearance; 簁簁 (shī) is a borrowed word for 氇氁, describing the fish tail like a wet feather. Qian Dao is an ancient knife-shaped coin, which generally refers to money. The long and light swing of the fishing rod and the moist and freshness of the fish tail are used as a metaphor for the courtship of men and women, and the harmony between the two.

This poem creates the image of an abandoned woman with a distinctive personality. It not only reflects the marriage tragedy of women in feudal society, but also praises the heroine's noble attitude towards love and her beautiful sentiments. She values ??friendship and despises money; she demands single-mindedness and opposes two-mindedness. When she learned that her husband was emotionally unprofessional, she showed no compromise, no crazy curses, and weak sorrow, showing a woman's own personal dignity. She buried her pain deep in her heart and bid farewell to her heartless husband calmly and gently over wine. How calm and open-minded she was! Although she has nostalgic memories and fantasies about her old love, she is more of a deep reflection on life. Therefore, she is very different from the general image of abandoned women in ancient poems, showing her personality.

The whole poem uses metaphors and parallels, and the metaphors such as snow, moon, ditch water, bamboo poles, and fish tails are vivid, vivid, and thought-provoking. Sentences 1, 2, 5, 6, 13, and 14 are all correct and natural. In addition, there are four sentences with one interpretation, and each interpretation changes rhyme, and the poetic meaning also fluctuates accordingly, and the voice, emotion and diction achieve a perfect unity. On Chinese Valentine's Day, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl's touching words about love, I wish for the rest of my life, deep love, white hair, and fine water

For the rest of my life, no one else will enter my heart, and my heart will be filled with you. , but where are you now? The rest of my life will pass with or without you. I wish you happiness every day!

Do you know the kind of figure that can only look at you but cannot get close? Do you know that sometimes when I dream about you, I hold you in my arms and say I won’t let you leave? You said you would never I broke up with me. I joked about breaking up that day and you agreed. I neither cried nor made a fuss and left quietly. I said that as long as we are separated, I will live the rest of my life by myself. I wish you happiness for the rest of your life.

I only hope that your heart will be like my heart, and you will live up to my love. The rest of my life will be long, and I hope it will be you for the rest of my life.

The only heartbeat is always you. It was you before, it is now, and it will be you for the rest of my life

Everything is for her, but it is not her for the rest of my life!

Decades of time have passed, and I met you half a lifetime later. We got to know each other and fell in love with you. I will always be with you for the rest of my life.

I'm not afraid of waiting. I don't care about the process, as long as it's you in the end. You are more important than my heart.

I have understood that you are not the person I am looking for, but I still wish you happiness for the rest of your life.

You will be charming in everything for the rest of your life. No matter how hard it is to have you, it will be sweet. Yes, in this life I just want to be your arm, to rely on when I am tired, and to have a warm hug when I am sad

It is also a kind of romance to live together with you, because I love you, so I am willing to do this with you. Trivial things, I hope you will accompany me for the rest of my life!

I once felt that I wish I could look back some time and grow old with deep love. No matter what I did wrong, my self-control was not enough, or my heart was soft, I always believed that my little mango would not leave. After all, you said that if I don't leave, you won't give up. What I always look forward to is spending time together day and night, cooking together, and walking together. When I am making trouble, you are laughing.

My greatest happiness has always been that I am really like a child in front of you. We stay together, laugh together, make faces together, and look at each other's sleeping faces, so distressed. But all this is too fragile and can be lost irreparably with one's life. After all, the memories are too beautiful and I am too fragile

I have sadness and my heart, but there is a lot of helplessness in the world! Face it calmly and everything will be fine! Good night, dear!

After experiencing the ups and downs of life, and being hurt so badly, I still hope that the rest of my life will be you!

When you meet someone, you will grow old, and you will keep someone until you grow old! The most true feelings in this world are often reserved for kind and honest people! Therefore, fate is fair, and those who love you will spend the rest of their lives protecting you.

Love is a kind of responsibility. No matter what, I will move forward bravely

Many times we always like to Give your good temper to others! Give consideration to others! Smile to others! Only the bad temper is given to the family! We always think that our family members can talk as they please and lose their temper as they please! You can do whatever you want! But we forget that the ones we need to take care of most are our favorite family members!

How many people can do this in real life? Take home hygiene as an example. After a hard day of cleaning, just because someone lit a cigarette and left ashes everywhere, you will definitely feel uncomfortable. He said it softly over and over again, but in the end it was strange that he still refused to change his temper despite repeated admonitions. Between husband and wife, if they don't change for each other, even their good temper will be erased by the details of life.

How many couples’ relationship is based on blaming when things happen, and gradually becomes colder,,,

Marriage is not 1 1=2, but 0.5 0.5=1 .

After getting married, both parties must get rid of half of their personalities and be mentally prepared to make compromises and concessions, so as to form a perfect family.

Every time after a quarrel, my husband will take the initiative to admit his fault. I know that sometimes I am wrong. I asked him why you always admit your fault. He said that when he quarrels with his wife, he loses the relationship when he wins. Home is not a place for reason. Thank you for always tolerating me and caring for me.

In life, how many couples really do this? Some people are always impulsive and will say those disapproving complaints without thinking. As the saying goes, the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. Maybe Your casual words and glances will make her (him) sad for a long time. I hope there will be more understanding between husband and wife in the future, so that they can go further!

The two people are deeply attracted to each other, and one day is like three autumns after not seeing each other, and then they are in the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar of marriage. They argue endlessly over trivial matters, and they never get tired of looking at each other. In the end In the end, everyone fell silent, causing too many marriages to come to an end. In fact, when we were arguing, why couldn't we remember the desperate emotion at the beginning, the love that would come out of our eyes even if we covered our mouths? Poems about patriotism

1. Cherish the passion and diligently, and it will still turn into blue waves when it is spilled. Qing Qiujin's "Pair of Wine"

2. I smile to the sky with my horizontal sword, leaving my liver and gallbladder intact! Tan Sitong

3. The husband vowed to marry the country, so why should he be angry and sad? Du Fu

4. With the sound of He Manzi, tears fell in front of the king. Zhang Hu's "Gong Ci Homeland Three Thousand Miles"

5. The sword and trombone are returning home, and the wind and rain are roaring across the thousands of mountains. Kang Youwei's "Leaving Farewell to the Dukes after Leaving the Capital"

6. With cold eyebrows, he points his fingers at thousands of men, bowing his head and willing to be like a ruzi ox. Lu Xun

7. There is no one in this world, I am afraid that it will be difficult to satisfy the heart of a strong man. "On the Sea" by Gu Yanwu

8. The country is broken by mountains and rivers, and the city is full of spring vegetation. Du Fu's "Spring Hope"

9. Worry about the world's worries first, and rejoice after the world's happiness. "The Story of Yueyang Tower"

10. Night vision is too white to collect the light, and there is no battlefield to serve the country if you want to die! Lu You

11. Fan Zeng left without a plan, and Han Xin turned out to be the exiled minister. Yan Suicheng's "Wujiang King Xiang Temple"

12. I am smiling towards the sky with my horizontal sword. Go and keep the liver and gallbladder. "Inscriptions on the Wall in Prison" by Tan Sitong of the Qing Dynasty

13. The rich men sang and danced solemnly, and the horses in the stables were fat and dead, and their bows were broken. "Guan Shan Yue"

14. Since you have the emperor's heart, how can you disdain the last generation's criticism. Xie Lingyun's "Qilise"

15. Running north and south to report the Lord's love, the rivers and lace grass laugh all their lives. Qi Jiguang's "Making It Immediately"

16. Those who care about the country do not care about themselves, and those who love the people do not care about their superiors. Lin Bu

17. Think back to those days, when we were strong and strong, we could swallow thousands of miles like a tiger. Xin Qiji's "Yong Yu Le"

18. On the day when Wang Shibei fixed the Central Plains, he never forgot to tell Nai Weng about family sacrifices. Lu You's "Shi'er"

19. Looking at my hometown every day, I sing in the sky with white ramie lyrics. Zhang Ji's "Thoughts on Traveling in Jibei"

20. I sigh as I travel to my homeland, and remember the flowers I spent before. Liu Chenweng's "Lanling King Bingzi Sends Spring"

21. The spring breeze brings the whole country to cut the palace brocade, half of it is made of mud and half of it is a sail. Li Shangyin's "Sui Palace"

22. Although the three households of Chu can resist Qin, how can China be empty and deserted? Lu You of the Song Dynasty, "The Art of the Golden Knife"

23. Xiaolai wants to serve his country, not to become a marquis. Cen Shen's "Sending People to Anxi"

24. If you want to benefit the country's life and death, how can you avoid it because of misfortunes and blessings? "Going to the garrison and Dengchengkou"

25. Let's rely on the anger of the emperor and rely on the general's hero again. Gao Shi's "Song of the Past"

26. Everyone is responsible for the rise and fall of the world. Gu Yanwu's "The Beginning of Rizhilu"

27. When singing during the day, you must indulge in alcohol. Youth is a good companion for returning home. Du Fu "I heard that the army was taking over Henan and Hebei"

28. Worrying about Li Yuan in the poor years, sighing at the heat in the intestines Tang Du Fu "Going from Beijing to Fengxian and chanting five hundred words"

29. Changing I breathed too much to cover my tears, mourning the hardships of the people's lives.

Qu Yuan's "Li Sao"

30. The survivors shed tears in the dust, and looked south to Master Wang for another year. Lu You's "Feelings of Coming Out of the Fence Gate to Welcome the Coolness at Dawn on an Autumn Night"

31. The plum blossoms in my homeland return to their dreams, and the green skirts are damaged with sorrow. Kong Yi's "Nanpu Travel Huai"

32. Only when I was young, my wife was there, and it was a mistake to make a double cut. Liang Qichao's "Golden Thread Qu Ding Wei Returns to China in May"

33. Four or five sighs in the middle of the night are often worried about the great country. "The Enliu Yelang after the chaos"

34. When he was born, he showed his true name in the world. Who can be compared to others in a thousand years? Lu You

35. Jun Moxiao lies drunk on the battlefield. How many people have fought in ancient times. Wang Han

36. Today, Handan is far away from Daliang than the city, and there are more than three people discussing the ministers. I hope the king will check it out. Liu Xiang's "Three People Become a Tiger"

37. Disappointing one hundred thousand soldiers in one's heart, relying on poems when bored. "Reading the Collection of Lu Fangweng"

38. It is not a pity to kill oneself and gain land at first, but it is always a worry to serve the country. "Climbing the Pavilion of Huizhao Temple" by Lu You of the Song Dynasty

39. The hatred for the country's subjugation is all in the east of the Yangtze River! "Moling" by Qu Dajun

40. Every man is responsible for the rise and fall of a country. Gu Yanwu

41. Treat the country as the country and the world as the world. "Guanzi"

42. The rich wine and meat smell, and there are frozen bones on the road. Du Fu of the Tang Dynasty's "Five Hundred Words of Ode to Fengxian from Beijing" sent Li Qing as a gift, and he got the Gudao Stone (with the word "Li")

Cen Shen sent Li Qing as a gift, and got the Gudao Stone (with the word "Li")

A piece of other mountains and rocks reflect the small pond. The green nest is covered with peeling moss, and a cormorant is sitting on a sharp peak.

It often looks like it falls down under the water, and the lace is full of force. If you can't change your mind, how can you be separated from me?

Appreciation

Cen Can, about 715-770, was a frontier poet in the Tang Dynasty. He was a native of Nanyang. He was the great-grandson of Cen Wenwen, a hero of Emperor Taizong's reign. He later moved to Jiangling. Cen Shen was lonely and poor in his early years, so he studied with his elder brother and read all the historical records. In 744, the third year of Tianbao reign of Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, he became a Jinshi. At the beginning, he led Cao to join the army. Later, he served in the army for two frontier fortresses. First, he served as Gao Xianzhi, secretary of the shogunate in Anxi. In the last years of Tianbao, Chang Qing was granted the title of magistrate of the shogunate when he was envoy to Beiting, Anxi. During the reign of Emperor Daizong, he served as the governor of Jiazhou in what is now Leshan, Sichuan, and was known as Cen Jiazhou in the world. He died in Chengdu in 770, the fifth year of Dali.

Cen Shen's poems are good at seven-character songs. His representative work is "Baixuege Sends Judge Wu Back to the Capital". Three hundred and sixty poems exist. He has a close feeling for the scenery of the frontier fortress, military life, and the cultural customs of ethnic minorities, so he has many excellent frontier fortress poems. His style is similar to that of Gao Shi, and many descendants call him Gao Cen. There are ten volumes of "Cen Can Ji", which have been lost. Today, there are seven or eight volumes of "Cen Jiazhou Collection", which has been published throughout the world. "Complete Poems of the Tang Dynasty" is composed of four volumes of poems.