An unhealthy personality will affect a person's life. Let's take a look at the movie "The Life of Poor Pine Nut", which should belong to that kind of pessimism, although the ending is tragic. This is to tell you that unhealthy personality will hurt us, but we should also learn to protect ourselves and face life positively.
It is said that after 80, no one is injured, and no one has been beaten. Don't worry, these are the words of people who have hit children or those who are not seriously injured. If you think these things have an impact on you, you must treat them immediately and see a psychologist.