Sometimes, instead of seeing their praise in a circle of friends, or leaving a message in a circle of friends, they will be in a daze. Have we really met these people?
Although there are more and more social software now, it seems that the contact between people is more and more convenient, and there should be many friends around, but this is not the case in real life. In the past, when there was no internet, it took ten days and a half months to get information about a person through letters. But while waiting for the other party's reply, we will repeatedly review his previous letters and recall our previous dribs and drabs. It feels real and nostalgic.
Although the contact information is convenient now, I always feel that the distance between heart and heart is far away. The more familiar people become, the stranger they become. Moreover, there are fewer and fewer sincere friends, because everyone seems to be very busy, which is really unbearable.
Many people who often leave messages in the circle of friends but don't talk privately are former classmates. Because they haven't contacted for a long time, there is nothing to talk about, so if there is nothing special, they won't talk to you privately for no reason. It is said that the relationship between classmates at school is the purest, but now many people leave home in the process of learning. Those classmate relationships, with the growth of age, all exist in memory.
If you leave a message in a circle of friends, it will be very casual. Like the photos you send, and he will comment on any funny stories you send. It doesn't hurt, and he doesn't need to wait for your reply. But private chat is different. Private chat needs to find a topic. It will be embarrassing if the other party doesn't reply in time. Private chat should wait for the other party to reply, for fear that you will embarrass the other party if you don't reply in time. So, if we talk privately, there will be a lot of blx.
In addition, the circle of friends has changed. Not everyone is a friend. Some people who leave messages for you in the circle of friends may be people you don't know at all. For example, one day, because of work needs, you add someone you have never met. For example, a friend introduces you as a friend on WeChat business, which is not conducive to refuting friends' face.
These people will appear in your circle of friends from time to time, but there is nothing in life except appearing in your circle of friends from time to time. So you won't talk to him privately, and he won't talk to you privately, because you don't know each other at all, so there's nothing to talk about.
Therefore, in the virtual online world, some people will leave messages in the circle of friends to prove that they are your friends, but rarely talk to you privately.