-Nietzsche
In Nietzsche's view, the health of human soul is the first. People often say that "you can win beauty by living beautifully". Indeed, all achievements and all wealth begin with a healthy body and mind; A sound mind and a healthy body are the basic guarantee of success. If a person's psychology is unhealthy, it is difficult for him to evaluate himself correctly, to respond to society properly, and to handle interpersonal relationships correctly. The behavior of these people often goes beyond the social ethics and violates the law or disturbs others. If a person does not have a healthy mind, he will pay for it sooner or later.
Maybe you've heard of the American two-gun thief in the 1930s. His name is Gloria. From the outside, Gloria is quiet and thin, and she doesn't touch alcohol and tobacco, which is completely unlike the evil people think. However, it is such a person who is called "the most vicious and stubborn criminal in new york's history" by new york police chief Menoni, because "any trivial matter can cause his cruel murder".
1932 On May 7th, Gloria staged a shocking cold-blooded shooting in the streets of new york, killing two people and injuring more than twenty others. After weeks of escape, Gloria finally fell into the French Open.
After being arrested, Gloria wrote a bloody book, which even wrote: "Although my heart is very tired, I have always been kind and kind, and I have never intentionally hurt anyone." The police were shocked by his confession and sentenced him to death according to law. At the moment when he was sent to the electric chair for execution, he was still saying, "This is so unfair! I killed in self-defense! That man is too bad! "
Gloria never communicates with people. She is angry and jealous. When she was inferior to others, she complained that the world was unfair, and finally she took extreme measures to solve her grievances.
Later, criminal psychologists analyzed Gloria's criminal motives and found that the essential reason for Gloria's murder was his psychological defect. Psychologists demonstrate that Gloria is an inferior, introverted, withdrawn and self-centered person from different angles. Because Gloria has personality disorder, she belongs to split type and aggressive type. The former makes him indifferent to people and his language is weird and ridiculous, while the latter makes him grumpy and aggressive. Nietzsche said in human nature, too willful: "We must check whether we have such psychology, get rid of these bad psychology in time, and prevent abnormal psychology from destroying our bodies." Indeed, a person with imperfect body and mind is actually a person with fragile heart. Such people are often afraid that others will know that the fundamental reason for doing things is themselves, and they are afraid to face things and problems, so they will tell others that they are not trying hard, but that others are not good enough. However, things will not change because of this. All this just changed you and your future life, leaving you alive with scars.
A healthy person will never lose no matter what challenges he meets.
In a shipwreck, A and B were washed to a desert island. B was already dead when people found them.
Someone asked the living A: "Why did you come back alive? Is it your physical advantage that keeps you alive? "
So, A told people what happened after they were washed to a desert island by the waves.
This desert island is full of wild fruits. A confidently said to B, "Great, at least we won't wait for help hungry." So I tasted the wild fruit happily. But b is worried. He had no appetite for delicious wild fruits, but said pessimistically, "Winter is coming. Without wild fruit, we will starve to death sooner or later. "
Soon, there were fewer and fewer wild fruits on the desert island, and B was so desperate that he began to write his last words to his family. And A built a hut to prepare for the winter and began to store food.
Every day, they hope that passing ships can only see and help them, but as the days go by, few ships pass by, even if one or two cargo ships pass by from a distance, no one will find them no matter how they shout.
One day, when they came back to look for food, they found that the newly-built hut was on fire and all the food was on fire. In an instant, B's spirit completely collapsed. He suddenly fainted and never woke up.
A looks depressed, too, but he believes that a rescue boat may come to save him after seeing the smoke rolling.
The next morning, A was awakened by the sound of a boat coming to save him.
"You must have seen the smoke before you knew we were trapped here?" He asked the rescuer.
"Yes, we saw the smoke and came all the way here." The rescuer replied.
Sure enough, the fire that almost made him desperate saved him.
In this way, two more rescue boats went home: one was alive and the other was dead.
A has a sunny mind and can go back alive. Many times, the situation of life has a great relationship with body and mind. If a person does not have a healthy psychology, even if he has a certain opportunity, he will waste it in vain and even make himself worse.
A man was lucky enough to meet God. God said to him, I can give you any wish, but at the same time, your neighbor will get twice as much as you. This man is very happy. However, this man is very jealous. He thought: if I get a herd of cattle and sheep, my neighbor will get two herds of cattle and sheep; If I want a box of gold, my neighbor will get two boxes of gold; What's more, if I want a beautiful woman, my neighbor will get two stunning beautiful women ... He thought about it, didn't know what to ask, and felt that nothing he did was appropriate, because his neighbor would get much more than him. He really doesn't want his neighbors to take advantage of him. Finally, he said cruelly, "God, cut off my leg, so that I can feel at ease."
Can a person really feel at ease when he loses a leg? I don't think so-mental disability and physical disability, he will get into trouble again because he is jealous of those healthy people. The man had a better choice, but he lost what he could get because of jealousy. Therefore, advantage can be a kind of ability or a kind of mentality. Even if you have nothing now, as long as you have a healthy body and mind, you have a person's greatest capital.