Is this love and this life what you want? Of course not. We just want to be warm to each other, snuggle up to each other, and live an interdependent life in love. Why are we so nervous?
Honey, there's nothing wrong with you being nice to him. You are wrong in being too kind to him. Your love is like a bow that is about to open. If you tremble a little, you will go off track. Tired is tired. Why not give yourself three points? Go shopping, go to fashion, go to work and enjoy.
Know how to love yourself before you love others. This is a classic love strategy. It always reminds us that in the face of love, we should learn to be stingy and selfish, and leave love to ourselves calmly. This is life-oriented love. Look at those people around us who finally get love. How many of them don't love themselves first?
Love is full, seemingly perfect but no one can bear it. Five points is limited, too thin and too cold makes people stay at a respectful distance from sb. Only seven points of love has a little regret, so little deficiency, but love is comfortable and intimate.
Love is so, so is life. A complete stranger has nothing to do with you. A familiar person has no feelings, but it is always the familiar and impenetrable person who hangs on his mind.
The ultimatum is verbose again. Love easily and simply, love him for seven points and love yourself for three points. Wouldn't it be more enjoyable?
Love is like a cup of bitter coffee without sugar, you have to taste its bitterness slowly. People always have to face different ups and downs in their lives. Everyone has had a hazy period of youth, and they all came from that era. When you are over 30, you will know that love is not as sweet and beautiful as you think. In fact, love is very bitter, and sometimes it even brings you terrible pain. There is very little true love in this world. This is a complete game to deceive young and ignorant teenagers.
When it comes to feelings, there is usually no logic to follow. If you accidentally get involved in other people's stories, it is an embarrassing frustration and unspeakable loneliness for anyone to play a role without identity, dialogue and voice in a plot that is not tailored for you. Your scene is attached to another person, sad because of his sadness and happy because of his happiness. At this point, your emotions have no so-called self. In that script that doesn't belong to you, you can't expect equal treatment, and grievances can't be perfect, so don't force it! Let go of everything and leave smartly, which makes the plot turn around. Maybe there is another beautiful scenery waiting for you at a fork in the road. If the man you choose can't even guarantee your food, clothing, housing and transportation, then please think about it and let go of this relationship. After all, this is a reality, not an imaginary dream, and the dream should wake up. You will understand that it was only yesterday's dream, and you still have to face this reality, which is still a cruel reality. Well, do you think everyone is willing to face it? Let go, maybe tomorrow will be better. On the one hand, it is a lifelong love dream, on the other hand, it is a real life as tangled as breathing, on the one hand, it is a beautiful aura in the future, on the other hand, it is a plain reality. People can only run forward in this life and can't look back. One can't step into different rivers at the same time, nor can one have all the happiness. Now that it's over, let it go with the wind. Put your love away and put it in a corner of your heart. I hope that when you are old, you can quietly open it and have a look, which will be more memorable. Actually, love is really bitter. Once I tasted the vast sea, I felt that the water in other places was pale; Once you have experienced the clouds in Wushan, you feel that the clouds elsewhere are eclipsed. Growing up, we will always meet many people we don't like, and they will always have all kinds of problems that are incompatible with our preferences and cultivation. Even if we don't say it, we are still suffering. Talk privately when you have the chance, or deliberately embarrass him. Do you have any grievances and deep hatred? Of course not, it's just that those people who don't like it, big or small, are a thorn in their hearts, which makes people feel uncomfortable.
However, we need to clean up those misplaced thorns, pull out those nails, let go of those things that make us unhappy, loosen the soil and fertilize, plant lawns and let a hundred flowers blossom. He said, "One foot crushed the violet, but it left incense on the heel. This is forgiveness. " The first time I saw a sentence with such a pronounced meaning, I was deeply moved. Yes, we need forgiveness.
A chef said that in this world, no matter how hard you try, it is impossible to suit everyone's appetite. Cooking is the same, and being a man is the same. From your own standpoint, others may not be to your liking, but from others' standpoint, how can you be to everyone's liking?
Everyone is different, just like those angels. Sometimes, from another angle, you can appreciate each other easily, just like those beautiful violets. Forgiveness is sunshine, warmth, the best concealment under the boundless sky, a clear sky of one's own mind and the best weapon to love oneself.
Life will never be smooth sailing. There will always be all kinds of unexpected encounters. If you don't pester yourself about what you have said, the road you have traveled, don't give up when you encounter bumps, don't complain when you encounter mud, and uphold a forgiving and tolerant heart, you can get happiness anytime and anywhere.