What is a really good girl? Nowadays, people are more and more unconstrained by morality, so both men and women have immoral behaviors. Therefore, with the rapid update of the concept of the times, a truly outstanding girl is particularly precious. So what is a really good girl?
What is a really good girl? 1 1, responsible for the family. In marriage, she doesn't shirk the responsibility that she originally belongs to and should bear, and she doesn't ask for everything to be done absolutely. At least she puts family first.
When the family needs it, it is obligatory, and at the same time, it can put family interests first.
Take the family as the center, no matter what the environment and circumstances are, don't forget that this is your choice, and then be loyal to your choice and have the ability of self-discipline. Instead of just having fun, eating and drinking, and directly forgetting the important task in marriage.
In addition, the most rare thing is a down-to-earth and simple attitude towards life. I don't want to be easy. There are good things in the sky to avoid bringing disaster to my family.
2. vanity is not strong. Don't compare your life with others all day. You should know that everyone's life has his difficulties, and what we see is superficial.
Vanity can be, at least not the type that can't see others living better than themselves.
In fact, in a sense, everyone has vanity, but as long as she is not vanity and can adhere to her own principles and bottom line, she is a good woman worthy of respect.
As long as she is alone, there is always material vanity. But she can strive for what she wants through her own efforts and struggles, without taking shortcuts, and will not impose her pursuit on her partner and force her partner to realize it for herself. As for spending money, she will do what she can.
3. Be content and grateful. Lack of human heart, endless desire. If a person can't find the balance between unlimited demand and limited gain, he will become a group of irrational anger.
Some just criticize, criticize and dig at their partners, questioning their original decisions again and again.
Then the heavy life will make both of them breathless. In addition, in this case, no matter how much your partner has changed and achieved, it is difficult to get her approval.
There is nothing wrong with thinking about a better life, but the premise should be to cherish the present and regard a better life as a pursuit, not a pursuit that must be realized. If it can be realized, it will only be an unexpected gain. If it can't be realized, there will be no chagrin and doubt.
An ungrateful person is as terrible as a poisonous snake, because she will take everyone's kindness to her as a response.
4. Be kind and tolerant. A truly excellent woman will have all kinds of shortcomings, or deficiencies, but it doesn't matter, even if she has a bad temper, even if she has insufficient housekeeping ability, as long as she has a good heart.
Definitely not the kind of person who bears grudges, is insidious and likes to calculate people. Getting along is tiring and troublesome.
A kind-hearted woman is compassionate. When doing things, she will put herself in others' shoes and consider others' difficulties and positions. Once we only look at the interests, or do whatever it takes for personal interests, it will directly determine the direction and future of a family.
As for tolerance, I don't like to dispute with others, and I won't always talk about it because of a little thing. Tolerance of others is also saving herself, including tolerance of her partner's shortcomings, because she can understand that no one is perfect, and the most important thing is respect, acceptance and tolerance, so it always gives people a feeling of spring breeze.
What is a really good girl? 2 standard 1. Independent girl.
An independent girl does not mean that having a job of her own is called independence, but also depends on whether her personality is independent enough and her thoughts are independent enough. Don't rush to deny it. I know some girls can't even be financially independent. With a salary of 3000 yuan a month, I want you to give her a bag of tens of thousands of dollars. When chatting with you, I can always seize the opportunity to hint that they don't have enough money. If you give generously because you like her, in the long run, you are the real eater!
Girls who are not economically independent often have another feature, that is, they love vanity and comparison. My girlfriends all use the latest mobile phones. My colleague Xiaoli's husband drives her to work every day. If these conversations often appear in your chat, congratulations, 90% of them may be the targets of gold diggers. Let's see what a truly independent girl looks like.
At the beginning of her acquaintance, she was not very good at talking about money with you and would not ask you for a lot of help. At the beginning of the relationship, if you invite her to dinner and she invites you to a movie, she will also look for opportunities to give her gifts in return. If you give her an expensive gift, she will feel psychological pressure. Is it obvious, boys? Independent girls know how to be grateful and are not used to attachment and debt; The dependent girl is like a bottomless pit, which is taken from you indefinitely until you are drained.
Is it true that a girl will be fine as long as she is financially independent? Of course not! Apart from economic independence, personality independence and ideological independence are equally important. The former determines your present, and the latter determines whether you can go on for a long time in the future. In psychology, we measure whether a person has an independent personality, mainly by whether he is out of the family, whether he can adapt to the environment and whether he can control his emotions. The most obvious counterexample is the mother treasure girl.
We often say horse-haired men, in fact, there are more horse-haired women, but the horse hair of girls is more difficult to be detected.
With such a girl, you can predict how many problems will exist in the future with your eyes closed. Life is a long road. Only a truly independent person has the consciousness and ability to solve problems, and she will be willing to make progress with you and run a long-term intimate relationship together. Who put aside, also don't want to find a girlfriend who turned against her for three days?
Standard two, don't hang your girl.
In your long pursuit of history, if a girl has clearly rejected you, don't cry. Come on, give yourself a compliment first, young man You have a good eye. She is a good girl. Some boys may think that girls don't explicitly reject themselves because they are gentle, kind and considerate, so the more vague people's attitudes are, the more sober you are. She's just raising fish.
Really good girls are those who know how to reject boys who are not interested in being single; Be loyal to love and keep a sense of proportion when getting along with other members of the opposite sex; Not ambiguous, not raising fish, not hanging you, such a girl may seem a little heartless, but compared with those girls who can be charming no matter who gie gie is, this is a really good girl!
I kept in touch with my predecessors for three days and two nights, chatting with them, from colleagues to neighbors. No matter how old the man around me is, she always calls her brother. When she is with you, she is also doing "boyfriend" things with so-called "male friends". Do you chase such a girl? Maybe ... do you want to be her, too, giegie?
Third, girls who can attract you.
I don't know if you have heard the saying that boys are realistic and can marry people they don't love. No matter what you think, Chestnut very seriously advises you not to do this! I know that some boys will choose to stay with a girl because she is obedient and sensible and suitable for marriage, but such a marriage is often difficult to maintain and happiness is difficult. The reason is the lack of attraction between you.
I believe every boy has been asked this question by his girlfriend or someone he likes. Why do you like me? And often you can't give a specific answer at all. This kind of metaphysics that we call "feeling" is the so-called love. If a girl makes you feel so superior, what are you waiting for? Go after her! What? Do you feel this way about many younger sisters? Come on, you're just greedy for her body.
Here, Chestnut sincerely suggests that the attraction you are looking for should be a long-term, stable and unchangeable trait. After all, looks will age, money will pass away, and only personality, ability and morality will shine forever like diamonds. Only by being attracted by this charm can your relationship be stable and long-lasting.
What is a really good girl? 1. Her appearance is clean and tidy.
As a girl, we should pay more attention to appearance. Pay attention to hygiene, wash your hair frequently, wash your clothes frequently, dress appropriately, be clean and tidy, and avoid untidiness and unsanitary.
Second, inner positive sunshine.
In addition to leaving a good impression on the outside, you should be more positive and sunny on the inside. Face the setbacks and ups and downs of life optimistically with a sunny attitude. Calm, calm and sincere.
Third, kindness and love
A kind-hearted and caring girl can think of others everywhere, put herself in other people's shoes, be open-minded and generous in life, making people feel like spring breeze and win the love of others.
Fourth, gentle and virtuous.
"My fair lady is a gentleman." Gender roles determine that girls should be soft-oriented, considerate and considerate of others. Being virtuous means caring for your husband, educating your children and playing your role well after marriage.
Five, knowing the book and reaching the ceremony
Is to be smart and sensible, distinguish right from wrong and be reasonable. Compared with boys, girls are more delicate and emotional, but don't obsess over trifles all day, be nosy and importune. But to respect the old and love the young, and to know how to be courteous and humble.
Sixth, life tastes healthy.
It is a good choice to cultivate beneficial hobbies, such as music, painting, dance, musical instruments, handicrafts and so on. Your spare time is rich and colorful.
Seven, lead an honest and clean life
In life, you can properly manage your degree, especially when interacting with boys, you should be reserved, keep an appropriate distance, and don't be too frivolous and casual. What should not happen will never happen.
Eight, economic independence
Only economic independence can realize personality independence. Girls must have their own jobs or careers and work hard to support themselves.