The word "good" should be regarded as the simplest and simplest recognition of all beautiful, healthy and positive people and things.
But I don't know when, some words related to "good" gradually changed their taste, and even appeared the opposite meaning to the original intention.
For example, "good guy" and "swearing guy" seem to express different contextual meanings from "good guy".
A good person or a bad person originally refers to a gentle and honest person who doesn't know how to refuse others, doesn't want to offend others himself, and doesn't want people around him to have disputes and contradictions.
However, in daily life, work and network environment, people always seem to have a prejudice and misunderstanding about good people, mistaking them for "two-faced people", that is, people who are duplicitous, unprincipled and unable to make ends meet.
The film to be told today tells the story of a good man named Liu Hao who did good deeds all his life.
The movie "You can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient" is a comedy movie starring "good professional" Feng Gong. The film tells the story of a tricycle master whose career and marriage are "laid off" in the process of blind date, but he always sticks to his sincerity, does a good job to the end, and finally finds a happy marriage, and his unrelated son Liu Xiaohao finally recognizes him as a father.
There are many good things and many good people.
Liu Hao used to be a worker in a state-owned factory. He is honest and kind, and his work is rigorous and serious.
He bravely drove away the gangsters and wolves who harassed the "flower of the factory" and won his heart.
After that, Wen Lan suddenly begged Liu Hao to marry her. Although Liu Hao was very surprised, she also wanted to treat Wen Lan sincerely and form a happy family.
But it was not until the wedding night that Wen Cai told Liu the truth. She was raped and pregnant with someone else's child.
Liu Hao not only didn't give up this marriage, but also happily accepted the result of "fatherhood" and was willing to raise children with Wen Lan.
After the reform of state-owned enterprises, a large number of workers were laid off, and dual-income families could only keep one job. Liu Hao chose to be laid off by himself, gave the quota to Wen Lan, and then started riding a tricycle to make a living.
But Wen Lan didn't appreciate it. Seeing that the wolf who harassed her made a fortune, she left Liu Hao and her son Liu Xiaohao and ran away with the wolf.
On the one hand, Liu Hao can only raise Liu Xiaohao by himself. On the other hand, he is also looking for someone who can live together safely through a marriage agency.
So, Liu Hao started a blind date trip on a tricycle.
He met a divorced woman named Yang Qian. While they were chatting happily, they saw a woman pass out on the side of the road. Liu Hao did not hesitate to take her to the hospital, but also dug out her passbook and paid for her medical expenses.
The woman who fainted was called Chen Hong, who came to work in the city. She wanted to find a reliable person to entrust her life, but she was abandoned after she became pregnant. This time she fainted because of ectopic pregnancy.
Neither Chen Hong nor her sister, who sells vegetables, can afford the medical treatment paid by Liu Hao. Seeing that they were really difficult, Liu Hao took the iou and waited slowly.
Yang Qian, who is skillful in calculation, intends to sell the house in Liu Hao for a better one, and hopes to open a tailor shop at his own expense.
Liu Haogen, who is not rich, can't afford so much money, let alone ignore his son Liu Xiaohao. After learning that Liu Hao had a baby, Yang Qian flew into a rage and kicked Liu Hao out of the house.
The courageous people also brought people home, just in time to see Chen Hong coming to thank them. She even had Liu Hao's home smashed and Liu Hao injured. Liu Hao can only give up this marriage completely.
With each passing day, the relationship between Liu Hao and Chen Hong has gradually warmed up. Although, knowing that Liu Hao has children, Chen Hong just blames him for not telling the truth, not only has no bad feelings, but also regards Liu Xiaohao as his own child.
The wolf was arrested and imprisoned for speculation and fraud. Desperate, Wen Lan contacted Liu Hao and wanted to meet him.
This scene happened to be seen by Chen Hong. While pursuing Chen Hong, Liu Hao was in a car accident while riding a bicycle. Fortunately, there is no serious problem, and the misunderstanding is resolved.
Finally, Liu Hao and Chen Hong got married, and a grand tricycle wedding opened a full and happy road to happiness.
It's good to be fake, and it's fair in my heart.
As the name implies, Liu is a person who likes to do good deeds and help others.
He can stand up and defend justice when others are threatened and infringed, and he can also lend a helping hand when others are dying and give generously to save people from the quagmire.
He is willing to bear the stigma of "Pick-up Man" and treat a girl in prison wholeheartedly. He is willing to raise his son who has nothing to do with himself alone.
Compared with Liu Hao's kind character, those selfish and indifferent people become uglier.
Even so, Liu Hao's image will inevitably be mistaken by the audience as a nice guy, saying that his "goodness" is not true and he is a coward.
Having said that, I want to talk about my understanding of good people. I thought to myself that a nice guy is definitely not the kind of swing that gets angry, flatters and flatters.
Give a typical example. There is a workshop director, Lao Lu, in the movie "Don't treat yourself as a cadre" starring Feng Gong.
His mantra is "Yes, yes, that's right". When he said this sentence, he deliberately followed other people's words to show his position of approval, but that's what he told both sides of the contradiction.
It seems that a bowl of water is flat, but in fact, it is pleasing to both sides, and it is slick and sophisticated.
If you can't get the satisfaction of the other party just by agreeing, then you can sacrifice another killer, say a jingle: "Good shoes don't step on smelly shit", and directly demote the other party as "smelly shit", really to get angry and do whatever it takes.
Put a bowl of water in front of people, be a peacemaker, splash dirty water behind people, and kiss up to the "yin and yang teacher". If people like Lao Lu can also be counted as good people, it is really a capitalized "good" word.
Obviously, the kind old Liu Hao would not agree with such a hypocritical good man.
Good and evil, good and evil, justice is in people's hearts. False good, false good will eventually expose the clues and ask for it.
But to do good, don't worry about gossip.
"But doing good deeds will lead to the future of Mo Wen". In fact, doing good deeds and being a good person is not to gain any benefits and benefits for yourself, but to have a clear conscience, stick to one's true intentions, convey goodwill and maintain harmony.
To be really nice to a person is not to covet the return and gratitude of the other person. It is enough to gain a kind of understanding and recognition and convey a kind of true feelings and sincerity.
Just like Liu Hao treats Liu Xiaohao in the film, he treats him as his own child and loves him.
Liu Xiaohao never called Liu Hao "Dad" when he was growing up, but always used "Hello, I said" instead.
Until the end of the film, after Liu Hao had an accident and chased Chen Hong, Liu Xiaohao ran home like crazy and found a photo of himself and Liu Hao when he was a child.
In an instant, the father and son played together, and the intimate picture came into view frame by frame.
Liu Xiaohao burst into tears at the photo and shouted out "Dad" who came late.
Although they are not close relatives, and there is no feeling that blood is thicker than water, the kindness of parenting and companionship still makes them go through hardships and grow together like real fathers and sons.
Liu Hao not only got his son's understanding and recognition, but also deeply infected Chen Hong with his consistent kindness, giving her hope and courage for a new life.
Not only that, Wen Lan, who was ill-fated but always pursued self-interest, finally fully realized the kindness of Liu Hao, a kind of kindness that did not change his original intention.
It is not difficult to do a good deed all one's life, but it is difficult to do it well all one's life. "You can't eat hot tofu in a hurry", and you can't be too anxious to be a good person.
There are always people who say that it is difficult for a good man to be a bodhisattva, and there are always people who look at the so-called good man with colored glasses, but so what?
Doing good deeds and being a good person is not to cater to other people's comments and opinions, nor to abandon one's own principles and destroy the bottom line of life, but to speak with one's conscience and be a man with one's own heart.
If you can, if you have good intentions, be a good person, don't worry about gossip, prejudice and misunderstanding, do your job well and keep your kindness.
To be a person who is never too old to learn, such a "good guy" can have a clear conscience, no regrets and be fearless in life.
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