Family second: be a responsible person! Be responsible for your family and yourself! All virtues and filial piety come first!
Career third: I personally think that the most basic commitment of a man is to support and take care of a family! The reason is that you and your family or all your relatives or all the poor people live a well-fed life! Be grateful whether you are poor or rich! Have a compassionate heart! Make contributions to society! Personally, I think the biggest cause is charity! Sure! Look at personal ability! Anyway, come on. Be a valuable person!