Some people say, "The best way to live the rest of your life is to spend money hard, because it is a pity if you don't take money with you alive or dead."
Some people say, "The best way to live in the second half of life is to be carefree, live with children and raise children to prevent old age." .
Others said, "The best way to live the rest of your life is to smile at live high."
On this issue, everyone can be described as "different people have different opinions", and they all have different opinions. What they said was very reasonable, but what impressed me the most was the answer of an old man born after 60.
The 60-year-old man said: The best way to live in the second half of life is actually to "know how to be content"!
The following is the original statement of the post-60 s old man:
I was almost six years old before I knew it, and half my foot had already entered the coffin board. A pair of children have already married and established their own small family, and I don't need to worry about it anymore. I can live a leisurely and moist life.
People around me often envy me for learning from me and ask me if I have any secrets to live so happily.
Actually, I don't have any secrets. I just understand the word "content".
Our generation after 60 actually came through a hard time. At that time, our family was poor and there were many brothers and sisters at home, so we developed the habit of hard work from an early age. Because our family is poor, it is common to be cold and hungry since childhood. So I know how to be more satisfied when facing the good times now. We all had a good life in the past, and now the life of food and clothing is naturally not bad.
In my opinion, most elderly people who have a bad life in the second half of their lives are not really bad, but do not know how to be satisfied.
A few days ago, Zhang, a 65-year-old woman, cursed her daughter on a street corner, saying that her daughter was a baiwenhang, that her daughter was ungrateful and unfilial, and she was driven out of the house.
Although Mrs. Zhang scolded badly, there was no one around to say a word for her, because as we all know, she was driven out of the house. It is no wonder that her daughter can only blame herself for being insatiable and unsatisfied, and her daughter's family can't hold her.
In fact, all the neighbors know that Mrs. Zhang's daughter is very filial. Over the years, she has fully fulfilled her obligations as a daughter and is particularly good to her. She pays her living expenses on time every month 1500.
But I don't know, Mrs. Zhang always likes to compare with others, because her daughter didn't give enough money, and then forced her daughter to ask for money for various reasons, and even almost ruined her marriage. Because of these reasons, she was kicked out of the house by her daughter, because her son-in-law said that if Mrs. Zhang didn't leave, he would divorce immediately, so it was her own fault that Mrs. Zhang ended up.
If Mrs. Zhang knew how to be content from the beginning, she must have a good life now and be happy for the rest of her life.
It is also from Mrs. Zhang's affairs that I deeply understand that the best way to live in the second half of my life is actually the word "know how to be content".
Bian Xiao has something to say:
To tell the truth, I felt a lot after reading the answer of the 60-year-old man and agreed with him very much. I think the word "knowing how to be content" is the foundation for me to settle down in my later years, and it is also the best way to live for the rest of my life.
I have heard such a story:
A farmer found a big pearl with a good color at the seaside, but the fly in the ointment was that there was a small black spot on the pearl.
Farmers know that such a large pearl can be sold at a good price without this black spot and no defects, and pearls with this black spot can be sold at a good price, but they will lose a lot of money.
So the farmer focused his eyes on the black spots, took out his knife and tried to scrape off the black spots on the pearl, hoping to make the pearl perfect and sell it for a big price, but he knew that when he peeled off the surface of the pearl, the black spots were still there, and he peeled off one layer after another, bent on removing the black spots.
In this way, he did not do any work all afternoon. Finally, although the black spots disappeared and the pearls did not exist, he worked in vain all afternoon.
This pearl, which was originally an unexpected surprise, was lost by him, not only losing property, but also feeling bad. It was because he didn't know how to be satisfied that he lost what he should have got.
It can be seen from this story that if you don't know how to be satisfied, you will be empty in the end. Because life is unhappy, nine times out of ten, if you don't know how to face it with the right attitude, you will eventually regret it.
I often warn people around me that the best way to spend the rest of my life is to be content.
Know how to be content and learn to be grateful.
In this life, just a few decades, don't be content, learn to be grateful for your parents' upbringing, because it is not easy for parents to raise you; Learn to appreciate the support of children, because it is not easy for children to take care of you in busy work; Learn to appreciate your friends' help, because no one owes you anything. All help is mutual affection and needs gratitude.
Open-minded, know how to be content, life will be perfect.
Know how to be content and learn to be content.
People's life has gone more than half, so we must learn to be content, know how to be content, know how to live in the present, cherish what we have now, respect all the love and goodwill around us, and live up to it, because only in this way can we live well in the second half of our lives.
Know how to be content and be kind to yourself.
Health is the capital of revolution. If you want to live the rest of your life well, you must have a healthy body, because only in this way can you do what you want to do and be happy.
Be kind to yourself in the second half of your life. Health is the most important thing. Stay up late less, exercise more, be content, and make no money. In the second half of life, health is more important than anything else. If you want to be truly happy, you must know how to satisfy and treat yourself well.
In this life, it is very important to know how to be content, because as long as you know how to be content, life will not be worse.