? There is a kind of blind medicinal material called "scorpion" in Chinese medicine, which has the functions of calming wind and stopping spasm, promoting blood circulation and dredging collaterals. The way to breed offspring belongs to ovoviviparous. After birth, female scorpions will show obvious behavior of raising young scorpions, which is not only rare in lower animals, but also unique in arachnids. Even more amazing, biologists found that scorpions need three years from birth to maturity, during which they shed their skins seven times. It takes a long time to molt each time, and the body length grows from 1cm to 5cm after molting for 7 times. After 2-3 years of growth, it reached 6cm. Adult scorpions began to breed at the age of 4, and the breeding period was vigorous at the age of 5-6. Breeding offspring will die in about 2 years. Their most important mission in life is to stand on their feet. According to "Kaibao Materia Medica", "Scorpions often lose their backs, and their sons are as white as rice grains." A small ancient animal still cares so much about its children, let alone a person standing at the top of the pyramid of biological evolution?
? However, there are really parents in the world who don't love their children and even poison them!
Cao in Zhang Ailing's Golden Lock was originally just a little girl selling sesame oil, but I don't know whether fate pitied her or did something bad in her last life to punish her and married a famous tycoon, Grandma Jiang Jiaer. However, the dark life began. Jiang Jiahaomen's life is full of suffocating intrigue; But her husband, who exists in name only, is a sick bone tuberculosis, and the surface is shiny, but he is actually a grass widow. Long-term pent-up lust and deliberate intrigue made the resentment she had nowhere to vent rise to deep resentment, from self-pity to jealousy and revenge. But she can't hurt others, so she has to take it out on a pair of children. Treating her as a mother, as the children of her closest relatives, at her mercy, without beating or scolding, can completely ruin their lives.
? The son Changbai married Zhishou, and the two hit it off and treated each other like guests. This is exactly what Cao wanted all his life. Her words were as murderous as a blunt knife: "You see how honest our new housewife is-she has to go to the toilet as soon as she sees a dove!" " This is a strong desire to satirize Zhishou in the dark and embarrass Zhishou. She also encouraged her son to smoke cigarettes and wouldn't let him go back to his room. She and Zhishou set up a secret story about his son's bed and told it to his mother-in-law at the card table, thus forcing two daughters-in-law to die.
? Daughter Chang 'an is ill. Instead of treating the doctor, she instigated her daughter to take opium. Under Cao's various obstacles, 30-year-old Chang 'an finally met a congenial person, and her inner happiness made her face full of love, and then she died of smoking cessation addiction. However, Cao invited her fiance home, intentionally or unintentionally revealing that her daughter was an addict, which ruined her good marriage.
? Cao "shaved razor blades and used a flat and sharp throat on all sides". For thirty years, she wore a golden cangue. She killed several people with that heavy cangue horn, and those who didn't die also lost half their lives. This is the great harm to life caused by unhealthy heart!
? Some people say that this is novel creation, but literature comes from life. Even in such a developed modern age, how many news and autobiographies have exposed the silent poison of parents to their children. In fact, the left-behind children around you are the poisoned generation. This famous brand will go deep into the bone marrow and exert a subtle influence on our lives.
? I was a child abandoned by my parents when I was a child. I lived with my grandparents after my 2-year-old sister was born. Before I went to school at the age of 7, my grandmother's house was my real home, and my parents' house had no concept. After primary school, my parents said they would take care of my studies, so they insisted that I go back to their place to sleep at night. At that time, I was extremely reluctant to follow them, and my mother taught me a few lessons. I vaguely remember being dragged home crying. Later, I found various reasons to run to my grandmother's house, haha, until my grandmother died in the sixth grade. At that time, I felt homeless.
? Because of excellent grades, I was admitted to the best junior high school and senior high school in the county, so I started my study career of closed management in junior high school. I went home for about 1 month and stayed for 1 day and a half. At that time, children of the same age felt pain, and I felt it was a relief not to go back to my parents' home, where I always felt like an outsider.
? The university resolutely refused to report to the province when filling out the volunteers, so the undergraduate and master students left home for thousands of miles in eight years and didn't go home until the winter and summer vacations. When Spring Festival travel rush was hard to get a ticket, students began to try their best to buy train tickets one month in advance. I will always be the "calmest" and "least anxious" one.
? Up to now, all my good memories are when I was with my grandparents, not with my parents at all, and some of my only memories are not good, which makes my eyes red when I think about them. This is my biggest lack and regret. Today, with the aging and maturity of my parents, when I have the opportunity to get close to me, my heart is uncomfortable. So avoid, turn a blind eye, but envy the intimacy between others and their parents.
? Of course, it's not that my parents don't love me. My daughter is my father's former lover and my mother's little cotton-padded jacket. According to my grandmother, when I was a child, my father couldn't see me for a day. The first thing after work is to visit me at her house. Unfortunately, I am too young to remember such good memories. At that time, young people were also under pressure to survive. I know it now.
? This experience has shaped a sunny girl who looks independent, strong and enterprising: she is very compassionate, can't stand injustice, can't look at poverty and sadness, and her heart is full of love, caring for every plant and tree in the world, which can bring sunshine and warmth to many people; At the same time, this experience has created a gloomy girl, who is often entangled, sad, insecure and prone to panic. Maybe this also reflects that I am a double-faced Gemini.
? This brand makes me close to everyone. I am not very good at maintaining good relationships, such as classmates, the same thing, and even love. My only good friend comforted me that "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water". Although I forced myself to change a lot with my training and work experience during my master's degree, I also know how many detours I have taken.
? Probably because of the goodness of nature and the sunshine of self-management, God has given mercy. I found a man who regards me as the apple of his eye.
? My husband's personality is completely opposite to my bones, which can be said to be complementary. He is talkative, confident and tolerant, so I feel at ease with him, and my life is full of sunshine from now on. However, whenever there are differences, I am still prone to anxiety, avoidance and self-repression. Many times I will unconsciously reveal my thoughts, and he thinks it is "separation" and then asks me not to say such things again, haha. It is difficult to get rid of the brand, and it is more important to check mental health.
? Of course, there are many people who are much more unfortunate than me. Maybe you are one of them. But please believe that there is a sunny day on the dark clouds, and see the rainbow after the storm.
? Then, another opposite family is to take care of too much. Six people, surrounded by a child, are everywhere. There are countless examples around me. Although sometimes they are the objects of my envy, they are also the objects of my sympathy. Such parents design the future for their children and put everything on them. Occupy children's lives in the name of "love". If nothing else, how many young people's marriages have been destroyed by their parents!
? So what should we do? It's not that we hate our parents, but that you should forgive every cruel decision they make under helpless or backward thinking, because it is also full of heartbreaking goodwill.
? Don't count on others, rely on yourself! We are our best doctors. Love yourself first, others love you because you love yourself. You can find a good lover when you love yourself enough.
? When we use efficient diligence and useful accumulation, we have a skill, a capital based on society, and a capital that can be economically independent of others, we can categorically say "Who cares" and make our own decisions.