The pressure here refers to the pressure of study. In the past, parents would be proud of their children's good grades, and their children's bad grades would be beaten and scolded, but they would stop it. When parents find that their children are really not good at learning and are not suitable for learning, they will give up the idea of letting their children learn and will not force them to learn. But now my parents are different. Under the slogan that children can't lose at the starting line, the countdown to the college entrance examination begins from birth. Even in the process of growing up, I found that children are really not good at learning and are not suitable for learning. Parents will not consider whether it is appropriate, but think that their children are disappointing, don't work hard, and are sorry for their efforts. This has brought great pressure to children now, and it is also one of the reasons why they suffer from mental illness. 2, the demand is different.
In the past, material conditions were generally scarce. At that time, what people needed was to eat and wear warm clothes, and parents would not attach too much importance to their children. Now we have more ways to get information from the outside world and our education level has improved, so children pay more attention to spiritual needs.
But now parents don't notice this. They have planned their life and arranged everything for their children since they were born, without considering your children's needs at all. This is also the saddest point: children are changing, while parents' education methods are still stuck in the previous concepts. Think that as long as they meet their material needs. 3. The learning situation is different.
In the past, it was easy for children to do homework after school, because parents didn't understand, and they all played by themselves. But it's different now. Now that parents have a certain culture, it is a good thing that children will give guidance when writing homework. However, in the process of guidance, some parents take it for granted, which leads to the original harmonious parent-child time becoming a battlefield. Children will be loudly criticized by their parents as long as they write incorrectly and can't do it. Some parents even take themselves into the hospital and play themselves as the leading role. This will lead to the child's inner fear of this matter, but he has to do it. Over time, children's psychological problems arise and cannot be solved because there is no time. Eventually lead to tragedy.